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Articles: My Experience | My Experience with a girl
- Mr. Krishna Reddy
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I read an article posted by Mr. Raj C about his bad experience with an Indian in New Zealand. After reading that article I felt sorry for him and thought of posting my experience too...
It is a real story and my experiences as an innocent guy hailed from a poor family and who is honest, hard working, trustworthy. I completed my B.E and started working in Khammam District in a small industry. And in 1998, accidentally I met a girl working in Hyderabad as a software engineer. We have been in touch for few months and one day we decided to meet in Hyderabad (I went to Hyderabad on official work). Since we know each other for quite some time,when we met she expressed all her feelings and said she is impressed about me . That time I was very honest, innocent and I trusted her.
After sometime I also accepted her love. Since I am serious, I felt whatever the hurdles that she is facing are all mine. This is in the beginning of 1999 After few days she said she resigned from her job and wanted to do some other software courses and try her luck abroad. She asked my help financially. At that time my salary was Rs 8,000.00 pm. Even though I was earning less, some how I managed to send her money for her studies. She completed Java and got Java Certification (SUN Microsystems) and did few more courses also like this. It continued until Mid of 2000. By that time I already had spent 1.2 lakhs (By taking loans from company and friends).
I got a very good job in Mangalore and moved in Nov 2000. After I moved to Mangalore, she said that she got a job in USA and she needs to spend for VISA fee, other expenses and requested me to help. I was earning Rs 34,000 p.m. in Mangalore in 2000. Since I was serious, I thought its my responsibility. So, I gave some more money (1.3 lakhs) for VISA, shopping, etc.
From 1999 to Feb 2001 I had spent almost Rs 2.5 lakhs. Once she got VISA approval, she started avoiding me. That was my first love. I could not tolerate or bear that. I was very honest and trusted her very much. She changed her hostel in Hyderabad. She made her parents to avoid talking to me, etc...Not responded to my mails. All of a sudden within 2 weeks, no contact!!
I could not digest this for long time. It took me nearly 6 months to forget her and 1 year to clear all my debts. During this period I forgot to help my parents also..This was a biggest mistake on my part..
After few months, I completely removed her image and forgot everything. I never believed any love thereafter. I concentrated on my job and got a good name from management. (This period was the tough period for me in my life)...
All of a sudden in mid of 2002 I got a call from her again. I though she might have settled in US. But to my surprise she is in Hyderabad only and said that her VISA got cancelled due to slump in software industry in 2001. She asked my help again for studying in BIO-Technology. Even though I had a very bad experience and forgot her, her voice again made my heart to feel.
But this time I controlled my self and told her rudely that 'Come and stay with me..Forget about your courses or job. Stay with me until the IT industry recovered'. I know this sounds two meanings. But I didn't mean in wrong way..
Then again no call from her until 2003 beginning. I got a call in 2003 from her again. This time she said she is working for a foreign company near Bangalore and going to USA shortly. She gave me her E-Mail ID, but not any of contact details.
Anyway I forgot her completely and no feelings in me also..
She keeps on sending me mails. After few days I thought of recovering my money. When I asked she declined giving reasons. When I insisted her and requested explaining how bad phase I am in, she sent Rs. 50,000.00
After sometime again I tried to recover the balance. But I could n't even till today. Friends and well wishers advised me and changed my mind from that bad phase.
By god’s grace, I am well off now and made my parents also very happy by establishing business, lands, etc.
Now, I am in Australia working here for an MNC and enjoying the life happily. But that incident made me more commercialised man with business mind. I know this is wrong but unless until I find a true love in someone, I may not be able to change.
GUYS, I suggest you to be aware of such GIRLS..I can mention her name, E Mail ID and other details. But I don’t want to do that for her sake. Excuse me for this.
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