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Born in an orthodox family ,prajna was brought up with modern values away from the orthodox nature as their parents wanted her to come out of that filthy life.having two grannys, she heard a lot of stories from her granny in her childhood when her mother was preparing dinner.Most of them mythological.At the age of 10 the course of story story became tougher,she started listening to maha bharat.
coming back home from primary school spending with dad and playing some intelligent games including chess,she got more attached to dad .he too loved her most being lost one elder daughter.Theirs was a child marriiage and forced so through out life he left decisions of marriage to their children itself.never forced them. During the abcense of dad being fond of music she and her mother listened to music and her mom was sending her to a children club called balanandam where she became famous.she did her homework herself and was getting more than about 90% marks.she was shown as a role model in the street.while making her younger sis do homework a hectic job,in midst of all the chaos at home,she left to her music class along with her friends.and from there to balanandam.They played lot of skits on stage in competitions and she was MS of the street.she went often to AIR and sung lots of times on dias.she became famous as a child artist ,she was called a child prodigy.The club got closed while they all are to go to High school.Last message by Annayyagaru was that you will have slip tests and regular tests,so study well and fair well in exams.
Now she started putting targets in school.100% marks in maths and fluency in languages.Even in school she was active in culturals thou games class was just a bore.Thou with her friend she started a ladies cricket club in competition to boys comments.She used to be so busy on anual days her parents too nevr knew which which ones she was participating from back and from front.They were giving prizes for 1st 3 rankers and first 3 rankers in maths and science.she was always in the line.Finally she came out with flying colours school first gold medalist.Already she won many gold medals in music in all india competitions and was performing solos in AIR .
Seeing this versatile talents,thou she could get a ceat in the best colleges, her parents joined her in a college which has culturals.Its self study, she faired well thou not in top in 100s.she went to Delhi and played in first orchesthra ever made in India in national award festivals.Her parents were happy and elited while she became proud.In the college she used to admire those divorsed ladies who were living on their own.she was little influenced by her english teacher more who was a divorsee.
She was not given any couching those days, u need to be a top ranker to be an engineer.she wanted to prepare for IIT she was 6 hours in library preparing for IIT and eamcet.finally she faired well and got a ceat in engg.She went in to come out as mtech but her course being instrumentation and she was exhausted as she spent more number of years studying and her health was not so good those days.she came out with a b.tech ,her power system friends most of them in IIMS her best friends GRE and abroad.for the first time in life she was left alone without friends.most of the other friends wrote GRE and went.she didnt want to burden her parents with the money that would incurr for GRE,thou her father ase her to write iims again there was no time for preparation.The kind of proposals she was getting she knew if she had taken that path she would turn out to be a poor being not even lower middle class.she sees no future in marriage anything she needs to o she needs to do independently.she decided against marriage and wanted to lead an independent LIFE.one more reason one fine day when she was struggling with studies her father declared they might be asked to go.
She did job hunt and got into a small software company within no time.something shocking happened,thou that was not a highly paid job,her dad took voluntary retirement as they were stopping to give it going further.now she became Project lead within no time.It was a hectic job.she put another target being a PL in a small company is not much success a big company is something gr8.she even declined the most best guys in this ambition.fialy she got in a Adias largest company.within 4 years she became a manager.she heard some one say by 28 u should have been a manager.
but the relatives dont see this becoming pl as an achievement,to get into company she had to break the bond,thou she considers it as an investment they called the job, a business and the bond payment a loss and compared her with the most worst guy in the relatives.this hurts her.
now there is no stop to achievement,in 4 years she came into middle management. all these days she never thought of marriage.now after getting into QM,she started searching for MBA course.that IIMS thing pinching her somewhere also her ex PM went to ISB.As she didnt like the curriculum,she looked for pmp and six sigma and started preparing.
From the time her dad has taken voluntary retirement they went on many holiday trips and bonding between the family has grown.after getting into management she got little more time for her family.Also she had taken a flat on her name,she started making it more beutiful spent money on that and family.surprise parties,surprise gifts,getting clothes to her famly including brother in law(in the mean time her sis got married),taking her sis out to shopping complexes and spending on family pleasure.she even took her parents in flight to chennai and they went from chennai to kanyakumari.a long trip everyone envied.she made some investments like shares ,fixed deposit and used to spend only when her debit card had a particular limit.you cant save in crores.A perfect independent woman.
now her father health started deteriorating,diabetis .he stopped moving from home.their morning walk biforcated into her goingto gym and his taking short walks twice or thrice a day.....
Lots of changes appeared, a guy who is 8 years younger says I luv u..she takes it light initially,warns him,problems with hr at office.now her dad got severe liver problem added to diabetis ,hospitalisation,they gave work from home,she could work from hospital.he was getting hospitalised once in three months she was busy working & commuting from hospital,and then some days at office again hospialisation work from hospital.the hr was after her nagging and torturing, catching here there for small small issues as she made a complaint on somebody who shouts at her for which action was not taken and now they want to hook her up.
prajna got crushed between work,come home nurse dad,take him for a walk,for a ride in the car. back at office she cant stop tears seeing his pain during coffee break in the morning.some take it in right stride some dont.and the hr torture.
There were times when they had to call the driver early and rush to hospital when there was telangana bund.somehow they made it on that day.
she was on bench,she shouted at her boss in one of the hospitalisations,her dad happy she is out of his hands.In this pressure again hospitalisation,this time his lung collapsed .one day before dads death she went for pf,declined,she resigns,end of independent life.pf to recover loans no money in pockets.back to search.