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Articles: My Thoughts | | 'I'm living MY life on MY terms...' | |
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| Ultimately, a voice for change towards better, I think so. I can see this as an outcome of generation gap.
U r right, one(matured one) always has absolute freedom over life. My conclsion is simple, u can't just stop me to comment yet u can always stop me from making up ur mind. People around u say to marry or so coz they think thats appropriate. Relatives insist coz they feel they have control over us to little extent, may be they r worried about our future.
Of course, I mayn't be as wise as u. I guess, ur views will change when time comes. There is every chance that u see marriage n childern from a differnt view. //No offence... only my views
Posted by: Venkat At: 29, Aug 2004 12:14:05 PM IST
Oh..Oh..cool down. We are not supporting such people. Just trying to say there are different kinds of people. Like you want to be left alone they want to get involved. If you don't like them to be involved in your life just stay away from them.
How hard is that to understand you intelligent woman?
Posted by: Mr. Bobbili Puli At: 11, Jun 2004 11:08:03 PM IST
i cant agree any more than to what Mr.B.P says....world is so full of variety..and then to make life lively(in their own individual way)people are, and tend to act in variety of ways..you cant stop people from being inquisitive..some might express some might not but overall people need some spice in their day to day living. one needs to accept it and live through it.
Posted by: Ms. sargam singeetam At: 8, Jun 2004 7:13:01 AM IST
Don't get me wrong.I am not just arguing for argument sake. What you have to realise is that there are so many kinds of mentalities out there. Everyone doesn't have to think the same way you do.
/*Besides, what is so unusual about not getting married and having children??*/
For you it may be common but for them it may be unusual. otherwise why would they ask?
/*Please explain to me how their asking about MY life is 'living THEIR lives on their terms'???*/
That is how they like to live. They want to be involved in lives of the persons they know. They are concerned about people around them. They are worried that you may take wrong decisions in your life.May be they grew up in a different environment where it is okay for them to ask such questions.
Posted by: Mr. Bobbili Puli At: 8, Jun 2004 6:39:12 AM IST
No..I understood it correctly.You failed to understand my view.
When you are following the unusual pattern(say not getting married and living as a single all your life) and living your life on your terms why can't they follow unusual pattern and live their life on their own terms(in the sense that their behaviour is unusual and they like to ask such questions to people).
Posted by: Mr. Bobbili Puli At: 8, Jun 2004 5:06:22 AM IST
If you have a choice whether or not to follow the pattern you also have a choice whether to reply or not.
If you think it is none of their business to question your choice it is none of your business to question their choice(i.e he/she can choose whether to put such questions to you or not).
He/She is free just like you to question any unusual pattern.
Posted by: Mr. Bobbili Puli At: 8, Jun 2004 1:34:36 AM IST
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