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Articles: My Experience | | Is he a good guy or a bad guy? | |
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| if he didnt want to have physical contact with her why the hell did he marry? this guy is either very confused or has a health problem or is a sadist but defnitely his intentions are not good.
Posted by: Mr. dhaani dhaani At: 11, Sep 2004 7:35:34 PM IST
I din't understand what makes u feel contraversial even after knowing everything. The guy's intensions are quite clear. Always those people though bad who show their attitudes directly are far better than those presenting a false appeal.
Posted by: Ms. niveda reddy At: 10, Sep 2004 6:49:26 AM IST
This is one type of harassment......
Deserting a girl in a foriegn country is a VERY BIG thing....
I dont know what makes you feel like he is good.He is the one who brought her to that level disturbing her normal life......
Posted by: Miss Nijam Niranjan At: 25, Aug 2004 4:59:43 PM IST
//there are enough people in society that would come up and say, I feel bad for the girl, and I want to support/ marry her//... are you kidding?? If u r trying to help her, how do u expect someone to support her just by knowing her past. If that happens, that'll be like sympathy... thats hell. If u r true at heart, be practical.
Posted by: Venkat At: 20, Aug 2004 6:30:15 AM IST
Just to clarify some of the comments:
This is not a personal story.
The author is a happily married person with children.
As regards to the 'physical relationship', this is what the guy, and the girl said.
As regards to the 'emotional understanding', I think it was just a pretext not to have physical relationship for whatever problems.
One of the reasons for posting this article was thinking that there are enough people in society that would come up and say, I feel bad for the girl, and I want to support/ marry her.
I remember that in 1950s, soon after independence I know some of the communist party volunteers vowing to marry widows, and I know quite a few famous people doing that.
Let us not get into controversies with regard to parties, and all, since I am talking of 1950s, and not now.
As regards to the guy not growing up, I think that is true.
He did a mistake by marrying the girl without much thought of the future.
All I am saying is, he is frank enough to agree to his mistake, and try to do what he can to help the girl.
Posted by: Mr. Ram Lavu At: 19, Aug 2004 8:26:51 PM IST
You are in his inner garments?
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 18, Aug 2004 6:15:15 PM IST
Every girl dreams about the wonderful life after marriage. This guy obviously shattered the dreams of a young lady for some crappy personal reason. He shouldn't have gotten into marriage to begin with. In my opinion, he is BAD.
Posted by: Mr. Srinivas Turlapati At: 17, Aug 2004 11:27:08 PM IST
//He is definitely better than a lot of people // I wonder how come better comes in between good and bad. one can do whatever with one's own life not with others. if he really wants to involve emotionally, then he can talk to her for months but not just marry and then decide. Relations are a bit complicated ones, one cann't just decide with little knowledge.
Why don't u just put urself in her shoes, then decide.
Posted by: Venkat At: 17, Aug 2004 10:55:38 PM IST
Oneside version there is no mention about the girl. Let the Girl decide what is he! What about legal proceedings?
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 17, Aug 2004 10:32:21 PM IST
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