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| SO SIMPLE,BE VERSATILE AND ACT DIFFERENTLY. THATS IT. THINK WELL; INK WELL; AND SINK ALL YOUR ILL THOUGHTS IN THE WELL
Posted by: Mr. raghuram somanchi At: 29, Sep 2004 0:59:13 AM IST
'Compromise' is an indecisive word like sacrifice. Unless you feel that way, that you are compromising some thing, it is not a compromise. If you think you are compromising, you know why you are doing. If you know why you are doing, it is no longer a compromise, but an alternative to the problem. So you are compromising on nothing.
Posted by: Mr. Phoenix At: 15, Sep 2004 9:28:35 AM IST
Swapna: You said in your comment for your artilce -// 'you dont know any thing about that person, you have to make lot of compromises. Even if its love, try to compromise, think in terms of that person, if they dont change, just say, 'vallu ante mararu'' //
I just thought to inform you that before you think to compramise with your life partner or your lover - Think for a while where the problem is. Sit with the person and have a talk about the problem and dont ever come to a point that you need to compramise for that person. Who knows - the problem can be from your side. If you face a problem dont go for a blind decision that you need to compramise. Things wont work like that. You need to sit and talk with the person before you both understand the things and come up with a decision. Mutual understanding gives a right path for most of the problems. It can happen anywhere in your life be at your Home/Work/Friends. Without talking to the person if you just decide on the things it will effect you and obviously the other person because the person may have liking on you and dont want to miss you in any manner.
Bottom Line - Be itz your Boss/Family memeber/Friend/Lover (Whomever it may be) if you find any thing odd or if you need to change anything talk to the person and come to an understanding.
I am not sure whether I am making any sense or not but, this is what I feel!! Anyways Take Care & Have Fun.
~~ Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got. ~~
Posted by: Mr. Cupid Cuddlesome At: 7, Sep 2004 5:55:08 PM IST
Swapna: No one will hurt or make you feel bad without any reason. If anyone makes you sad, you need to dig up why it happened and try to know the reason. Before you compromise, just think for a while whether you have done all the good things to your life partner. If something is missing from your side, then you need to work on it. Never ever compramise without any reason thinking that its only getting problems from the other. It can be vice - versa.
Posted by: Mr. Cupid Cuddlesome At: 6, Sep 2004 3:42:27 PM IST
Venkat: Nice explanation..!! I liked your words. I guess this is a nice place to have a debate..!!!
Posted by: Mr. Cupid Cuddlesome At: 4, Sep 2004 6:55:01 PM IST
so, emantaru meeru...sardukupommantaru... to some extent, its very optimistic. I think, if we don't like someone that doesn't mean its 100%, we may like some of the things, they do. Its true in reverse also, if we like someone, that mayn't be 100%.
of course, I don't like everything I did then howcome I like everything u do. In the end, there is something we get, even in a compromise.
Posted by: Venkat At: 4, Sep 2004 9:01:34 AM IST
great article..
but what if 'the person' is life partner :))
you will get tired of dealing all ur life isnt it ??
reply me swapna garu..
Raj
Posted by: Mr. Raj Chinny At: 3, Sep 2004 7:17:08 PM IST
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