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Articles: My Thoughts | Women - their Dressing - Objections | |
| Hello Vikram garu, Srinivasa Reddy garu,
Meeru naa meeda chesina comments ki nenu respond avadaluchukoledu endukante, samskaaram anedi okati undi kaabatti.
Meeru male ego to maatrame nenu vraasina vishayam, "women's dress", gurinchi meeku ishtam ochinattu vyaakhyaanistunnaaru. Nenemi manushulu(adi evarainaa) roddu meeda nagnamgaa tiragaali ani cheppaledu. vyakti swaatantryaanni harinchakoodadani maatrame antunnaa. adi elaagu samaajapu parimitulaki lobade untundi.
Mari Pants vesukovadam, suits mana samskrutaa? aa lekkana ayithe, panchalu kattukovaali. mee magavaallu aakhariki pellilo koodaa(Indian Culture) pancha kattukovadaaniki ishta padatamledu.(konta mandi.) daanikemantaaru. Vaadana eppudu vitandamgaa undakoodadu. nenu vraasina vishayaaniki meeru peda arthaalu teestunnaru. adi bhaavyam kaadu.
Ika topic Indian Culture meedaki divert ayyindi. Ee vishayamlo prati okkari daggara okokka point correct gaa undi.
1) Vikram garu correct gaa chepparu. I accept.
2) Sasidhar garu chepinattu mana culture ani cheppi prati daanni guddigaa aamodinchakkaraledu. "Sati System" mana culture anagalamaa? "Chaturvarna Vyavastha" mana culture anagalamaa? I mean continue chestaamaa? Mana culture prapanchamloni cultures anniti kante goppadi. No doubt about it.
Saare Jahaan se acchaa, hindustaan hamaara ! Indians too must be in the same way. We should sustain the greatness of our country.
Bus lo aadavaallani vedhinchadam Indian Culture kaane kaadu. Konta mandi pogurubothulu, characterless brutes chese pani adi. Ammayilani edipinchandam , comment cheyadam goppa vishayam kaadu. mana samskruti antakannaa kaadu. Pulini choosi nakka vaata pettukovadam ante, cinemaalo hero paatradhaari vese konni vedhava veshaalani, guddigaa paatinchadame.(Adi eppatiki heroism kaadu).
Vikram garu, Halfnaked dress vesukovadaaniki freedom kaavaalani evaru analedu. Lopaalu enchadaluchukunte , adi bias lekundaa undaali. ee naadu cinemaallo choopistunna asleelatha vishayamlo koodaa andaru, heroines ne tappu padtunnaaru kaani, directors ni, dress designers ni, producers ni evaru emi comment cheyaru.
Aadi posukovadaaniki aada vaare dorikaaru meeku. entaainaa purusha pungavulu kadaa. Okka saari humans gaa alochinchandi, males gaa kaadu.
I wish you all read my poem,"New Pledge to Indians", in authorsden.com.
with regards,
Prasanthi.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 13, Jul 2002 4:46:03 PM IST Mr Sasidhar,
Would you please quit asking us to act more maturely.Cos,we feel you are speaking immaturely. Our topic of discussion is taking a deviation but I cant help it.
All the stupid things some Indians do is no testimony of our culture. Did anybody in India ask them to do such things. Basically I cant help feeling, you dont understand what the word culture means.
I agree everybody's opinions should be respected,only if the opinions have some stuff.But nobody can respect some blabber. You desperately need some therapy.
Look at the americans.Look the pride of self they have.Do you think their culture is impeccable.But I never see any american complain.
And look at your self. I agree Indian culture is not flawless either. But do you have to loathe it so much. Guess you are staying in USA. But that doesn't mean you are an american. Do you remember you are an Indian? Looks like you are gonna detest your near and dear in India because they still hang over the so called shitty culture of India.
And i repeat.Do you understand what myself and Mr Reddy are speaking about? Ms.Lakshmi has the freedom to do what she likes.But there is a limit to everything.This limit may vary from person to person.Just because somebody wants to roam naked on an Indian road that cant be made legal.There are more people in India who dont want to be it that way.After all it is their opinion.it has to be respected too. In a democracy if contradicting opinions arise, majority wins.
Just because you want to encourage westernization,you cant expect everybody to do that.Let me come the other way round..A lot of people are trying to be Indian.Encourage them.If you cant atleast dont discourage them.
Posted by: Mr. Vikram Ekollu At: 13, Jul 2002 3:53:16 AM IST The same Indian culture also says "give some respect to other's opinions" right? thats what she is asking! If you are a follower of the same Indian culture you would have gave it by now!
Posted by: Mr. Sasidhar Gundimeda At: 13, Jul 2002 2:45:35 AM IST Hi Sasidar,
I strongly object your remarks about indian culture.
You told getting into the bus to put hands on girl is indian culture.no body told u thats is indian culture.
Dont say that we cant absorb western culture after going there.If you see that with ur eyes u wont talk like that.
Western culture is like see one guy today sleep with other guy tommrow and marry other guy day after tommorow and take divorece after one week and again routine.(sorry for this line bcoz i dont have a good sense to write more than this)thats western culture what u want us to habituate.
Indian culture means if husband doent came home wife waits for him.indian culture means if wife health is not good true husbands heart will come out to support her(may be not some cases).
Indian culture means getting together for lunch r dinner .
Indian culture means respecting elders and teachers.
Indian culture means giving birth to a child after having baby in womb for nine months .(but most of the western women even doent want to take that risk)
Indian culture means guys and girls will be sacred before marriage(may be some exceptions)
And if you want more contact me i can tell you a lot bunch to read life long.
But i agree with you to take good in our culture.but no parents will allow there daughters to wear half naked dress(so called freedom the modern women want now) .
And dont take it serious if i say that after you become father you wont allow your own daughter to go out of bounds.
Supporting others is easy but trying to change once flaws is hard......
sreeni.................
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 13, Jul 2002 2:35:04 AM IST
Come on guys! I told you to "yield" to her feeling right! Show your maturity. There is nothing wrong in the way she is thinking. One of you is a software professional and the other a PhD student.
Whats so big deal about our culture? When the culture has some obvious flaws whats so special? are these flaws are the ones you are thinking as special?
She is struggling hard to express her feelings in words and you are finding it difficult to understand this. Whats wrong in thinking as a "western" staying in India?
Right to thought and freedom to express that is common for every one in this free world right? So why not accept hers too? We have to "impress others to change" the same "Indian Culture" not the good parts of it, but the obvious flaws. This female is trying to do something about it, if you cant encourage that at least don't discourage!
You know why Indians feel so proud about this good for nothing culture when they come to USA? Coz they find it hard to change themselves. Because of the fear that they wont be accepted to this "new western" culture. Its not the love that they have in Indian culture.
What do you mean by Indian culture? Indians are instantly ready to copy wresters, ready to take short cut routes to reach USA, ready to talk bad about their own self. Ready to mistrust their own self, readily waiting for an opportunity to "rape" their own land and here you are talking about the God damn "Indian Culture".
Can you define what Indian culture is? Get in to a city bus and there is a whole bunch of idiots waiting for the opportunity to put their hands on an innocent girl/female. Its ok for college students to do this, coz its fun! Fun for whom? Is this how you want to have fun? This is the same Indian culture we are still talking about. I will show you obvious flaws in it which even you will feel bad about.
Indians in USA like Indian restaurants not because of the patriotism, just because they cant change their food habits! Same applies with anything you say "Indian" - coz on the first place you would have not left India if you are so fond of "Indian culture"
Matured way to fight a war is not to thrive on opponents weakness, but ignore that and fight a fair war!
Posted by: Mr. Sasidhar Gundimeda At: 13, Jul 2002 1:59:25 AM IST hi,
good reply ...
When you go out of india only u know the value of indian culture.
pulini chusi nakka vathalu pettukunnatlu vundi ee lakshmi prasathi gari vayanam.mana culture chala goppadi .dont try to spoil it please.if u want to follow the western culture .ok no problem u can.but dont impress others and change them ...
have fun guys...
sreeni
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 13, Jul 2002 0:17:35 AM IST Mr. Sasidhar,
You have a point. Yeah.. though we are in USA
we are thinking like indians(Conservatively).
It's Ms. Prashanthi who's talking like a westerner. Figure it out...
IF she is not stubborn, She should have understood what we are saying by now. No point trying to make her understand.
Posted by: Mr. Vikram Ekollu At: 12, Jul 2002 11:33:40 PM IST Oh my Gosh!
This will be a never ending argument! Vikram amd Sreeni you have to remember one thing, you guys are in USA (I am assuming that you are in USA from your arguments), and Lakshmi is in India. There will always be opinion differences between Indians in India and Indians in USA. But Indians in USA have to yield for one obvious reason that they had lived in India and they can understand people attitude in India.
Make her understand if you are willing, else give up! Please dont quarrel with her.
Peace be with you all! (Taking as though I am Jesus Christ right? ) I enjoy doing this!
Have fun,
Sasidhar.
Posted by: Mr. Sasidhar Gundimeda At: 12, Jul 2002 10:04:29 PM IST hi,
Mine is not vithanda vadam.Yours is vithanda vadam.There is always some extent to freedom for anyone.But if that exceeds some limit then it will be worst.
And other thing is dont say that women always good chaste and so and so and so.
As a human there will be good bad in qualites irrespective of gender.So dont say always women are good and men are bad.
So meedha vithanda vadam nadaaa.
Kodalani champey attha oka adadey anna sangathi marchi povaddu.
I always opposes about nudity these things and i all have respect regarding women in my heart as of any indian.And not to women,i have to respect to every human irrespective of human.After all these girls support to freedom and support i posted my last comments which is also not obscene.
Identandi meerey freedom kavalantaru .sare meee istam antey kadu mee comments vitanada vadam antaru.
sreeni....
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 11, Jul 2002 8:24:29 PM IST To everybody,
Please be decent and polite. Respect others and their feelings.
Posted by: Site Administrator At: 11, Jul 2002 5:43:30 PM IST
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