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| Sreenivasareddy garu,
It is very bad on your part to comment like this about girls. I didn't expect
this kind of comment.
This is "Vitanda Vaadam".
Evaru enni maatalannaa aadavaalla vyaktitvaaniki e lotu ledu. Paddavaareppudu
chedda vaaru kaadu.
Women are always Women. They are good. They are chaste. They are the
embodiment of goodness. (Comparitively atleast,if you do not agree).
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 11, Jul 2002 5:17:03 PM IST
ok ,
So whats the final conclusion from this topic.girls want to wear what ever they want(no wear, new style)Y not ?carry on?In this world rules are made to break and everybody welcome .....:))
sreeni
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 11, Jul 2002 5:09:44 PM IST
This is for all the members of this site:
Dont you think its a bit embarassing to address everybody with a "GARU".I wish you guys dont do that to me.I feel not saying garu doesn't take away any respect from anybody.
Thank you
Posted by: Mr. Vikram Ekollu At: 11, Jul 2002 10:58:27 AM IST
Dear Ms Prashanthi,
I have no clue abt what you are trying to convey(other than the last paragraph).I am sorry.
The last paragraph is just crap.Everybody knows how many women indulge voluntarily(trying not be rude,voluntarily is the best word I can think of) in extramarital affairs(anybody who is completely ignorant of the presence of such women???).
This is not to support men.Both men and women are equally wrong.You or I cant blame anybody.
Posted by: Mr. Vikram Ekollu At: 10, Jul 2002 8:00:30 AM IST
hi Ms Lakshmi garu,
Again you r coming to the same point with your opinion only.You only telling that men are intersted in physical aspects of women and women in character.I totally disagree with you regarding this point.Thats only true in some cases in india and for your kind information most of the serveys are projecting that women will look at mens dressing,thier body build up and so and so.These things are also your so called physical aspects only.
And another thing is bcoz your r born and brought up in india your mind set is bounded to our culture which always leads to think about sacred,chasity and so and so sathi savitiri characters.
So what i am going to say is always dont blame for men for everything.For every war in the history there is one and other reason is women.So lets think always positively.I am not blaming your think thoguht as you r also a typical indian girl.
Enjoy....................
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 9, Jul 2002 2:21:00 PM IST
To Vikram garu,
Thanks for your views.
1. Why do you people want to argue on any aspect instead of giving a thought to what was mentioned?
2. I also meant the same, If one is naked, the government is arresting them. Why should you think on extremes and say that freedom doesn't mean to put fire to house in the middle of the city?
Why should anyone comment or try to direct women in her aspects? You are not used to in India means you want it the same. Here I do not support the women who roam half-naked(I don't think so, that it is so). But what I mean is no one should direct or command women. They must be given the freedom.
3. Regarding Chastity, surprised to see a reverse quote. A women is also with men in illegal contacts.What do you think the basic reason behind this?Many aspects. How many women are willingly indulging in Illegal contacts?That to when compared to male?
To Srinivasa Reddy garu,
Why you should try to direct or order or expect any women in the clutches of culture? I am not in favour of Nudity or half-nakedness. What I mean to say is, Let the girls behave in their own way. They shouldn't be ordered. They must be given freedom. They should feel for themselves whether particular dress is comfortable to them or not.
Regarding the question of arousement, how bluntly you are supporting yourselves? That's what I said, no one ever treat it as wrong. That is the pitiest thing. Why should you bother? Why should you people stare or comment? You just do your work and go.That's what I feel.
I agree with you in one regard, men are interested in the physical aspects of a girl and women are interested in the character of men.This is the difference.
To ChandraSekhar garu,
You also didn't look into the actual feel of the article.
With regards,
Prasanthi.
I thank everyone who posted their comments.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 9, Jul 2002 12:53:52 PM IST
Hi Ms lakshmi prasanthi garu,
I read ur article.Noithing much intersted in it.It seems like as usual as ur earlier articles.In every of ur article you always projects one side of the coin only.Dont take it as serious.i am just telling what i felt.Becasue i too have right of speech ,not right of half nude dreessing .Just flip the coin and see other side also.
Your first part of the article is atleast ok.but your 2nd part of the article is completly out of the topic and you r talking abt dreesing and beauty of girls.As you told y men arouse when women dree half naked??If possible ask this question either Mr Brahma devudu or any GOD you belive.If men r not attracted to women and vice versa then might be this world stopped with ADAM and EVE.
And regarding ur next point y women wont feel aroused when men dree halfnaked.I dont think this is true.But they wont express.And another thing may be women like other things in men and men like those things which u r describing as halfnude.
And then you talked about nudity of indian women.You may say never mind to wear any dress.Ok you wear anything thats not a problem.but you should take things easily when somebody stares at ur half naked body.At that time you feel like indian and feel urself ashamed.y ???Becasue you r brought up as indian in a bounded culture.so if u r bounded to that culture just bound to it.if u want to out of that boundry then you should leave everything and behave like a moderen so called cultured girl.That you cant do.bcasue ur mindset is not allow you to do it.
Regarding Afganasthian issue its irrelivant here to talk about some fanatics in the world.I think our culture is one of the most respected culture in the world.
So please respect our indian culture and behave like a cultured humans.
Thanks ...
sreenivasa reddy m
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 8, Jul 2002 8:48:17 PM IST
i will fully agree with vikram
what suits for others may not suitable for us
so blind copying of us (iin dressing) and saying it as freedom is absolutely nuts.
Just imagine if a girl is wearing half dress and every body looking at her at bus stop what goes into her fathers mind
if he can accept that (too far to think)
girls can behave as they want and can call it as cool
Posted by: Mr chandrasekhar kuricherla pati At: 8, Jul 2002 7:15:53 PM IST
hai friend
i only hope that one day they may read yr article and understand
bye
Posted by: varada rajan At: 8, Jul 2002 5:05:31 PM IST
I am in complete disagreement to Ms Prashanthi's views. It answers only a few things in Ms Prashanthi's article I dont concur with.
Yes, the ban is completely unnecessary. Even if the skirts doesn't cover the whole body, those who are wearing them are just kids. Asking them to wear what they dont want to is definitely denying their freedom. For that matter, uniforms in themselves clinch student's freedom.
Nevertheless we very well accept that a uniform dress code is necessary in schools not to let differences creep between students.In such a case it is better to ask the girls who wear skirts not to do so than asking girls who dont wear skirts to wear them(dont u guys think so).
Regarding restrictions and inteference into personal aspects of an individual...We live in a society. We are civilized. We are not beasts.Definitely your feelings are a priority to you. But it should just be a priority.Not the only thing you care for. You may do what ever you want to do. But not at the cost of other's feelings. If somebody wants to be naked, He cant do that in public. He should do it at his home. Or at a place where everybody is comfortable with his behavior, dressing and habits. He cant trouble others around him. I can say its my freedom to set my house on fire(afterall thats my house). But would they allow me to that if it is in the middle of a big city with buildings all around. All I have to tell is enjoy your freedom. But your enjoyment shouldn't embarass others.
Now coming to the point in Ms Prashanthi's article that annoyed me the most. 'Trying to question our chastity?'. Here in USA everybody is more than half naked. But still we give a damn. But in India if somebody is half naked everybody stares at her. Even the girls.Because thats not a common sight in India. Its unusual. Looking at them doesn't mean guys are aroused by that. And you may not look at guys half naked because it is something very common to us. Almost every girl's father, brothers and husband or whoever is half naked at home. So you are used to it. So you dont stare at half naked males.
Not to be rude with Ms Prashanthi..If I sail in the same boat as she does(which i usually dont)..If it is your freedom to wear what you want then it is our freedom to stare at anything we like and feel anything(even aroused) we like about it.
May be irrelevant to this but I would like to say onething.. Chastity and stuff like that has nothing to do with whether you are a man or a woman.For every man in an illegal affair there is a woman.Two men cant have an illegal affair.I personally feel nothing is being taken away from woman in India. If at all they dont have something they might have just thrown it away.
Posted by: Mr. Vikram Ekollu At: 8, Jul 2002 8:29:52 AM IST
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