|
|
|
|
Articles: My Thoughts | | What is love? | |
|
| this article is really very nice.
i know what is love and what is not?
thank u miss rEEma senhaL.
keep it up
bye
surendra
Posted by: Mr. Surendra Babu Mamillapalli At: 11, Jan 2003 4:22:36 PM IST
hi...i value all your comments.
But i would like to tell you that there is no one definition for true love. Love comes in many forms and if desire be a part of it then so be it, without ruining the sacred feeling of 'love'. If two people in love want to take their emotional intimacy to a physical level, willingly, they can do so without jeopardising their emotional development. Ofcourse when force is used in the process, it is termed as 'Rape' and automatically cancels any existence of Love. But when it is of their own will [after given consideration to aspects of age, society, level of emotional intimacy, individual judgement of the cirumstances, etc]the couple may choose to get as close as two human bodies can possibly get, so long as they dont merely perceive it as 'sex' - physical fulfillment, but also as 'making love' as i have mentioned in the previous comment.
I have written my views and you have written your views. very well. Do not contradict another person's insight and assert your beliefs as the world-most truth and righteous [No offense]. Do leave space for others' wisdom.
P.S - Mr. Madan Vemula, i'm taking that you have seen my age on my profile and have automatically assumed that i do not possess the knowledge nor the wisdom to write the profound and meaningful expressions that i have. I am very much irritated by your irrational comment 'I think you are quoting phrases from some books'. I am in no need of your appeal and most definitely i do not need to justify my ability to anyone i do not know. So, my request - next time you reach conclusions, ask yourself for evidence to base these conclusions.
Posted by: Miss rEEma senhaL At: 9, Jan 2003 10:41:32 AM IST
Miss Reema,
Let me share with you about my ideas regarding the concept called true loving.
It involves everything.It starts with desire and ends with acceptence of responsibility.
It is a great concept involved in the life of monogamy couple's.
It involves friendliness,Caretaking,
worrying about your lovedone and the desire of searching for a smile in her/his lips.
It involves a disinterest in self-interest.
Above all it involves LOVE JUST LOVE.
Posted by: Mr. sudarsan devarajulu At: 7, Jan 2003 2:45:34 PM IST
Hi Reema,
I think you are quoting phrases from some books.They are good but may not be practical.
Love cannot be expressed ,it can only be felt.Nothing (pain ,sadness ..) can define love.True love does not have any sexual desires.If you have it its a true body attraction..nothing more than that ..you are interested in her body..you can forget about
so called "True Love making".
In true love you care about your partner,guide her with out your knowledge.It will definitely take a while for you to judge that you are in "Love".
Posted by: Mr. Madan Vemula Vemula At: 7, Jan 2003 1:42:54 AM IST
hi viplove,
Great to know you read my article and like it. thanx.
i'm not so sure what you are asking me here....i think you want a definite answer to whether sex before marriage can still be holy and sacred? is this right? this is obviously not a simple question. it will depend on a lot of characteristics like boy+girl culture, lifestyles, relationsip, stage of relationship, attitudes, society, the list goes on....
But most importantly what is sex? really....
So often we confuse 'Making Love' or 'Having Sex' with something crude and purely physical. Sure it's fun to joke about it and sometimes it makes you blush just a little when someone says the word but lets for a moment try to examine all the other dimensions that it spills over into.Think about sex in all these situations and you'll realise how much more it means than two sweaty bodies getting busy...
Sex is a slow kiss goodnight.
It's anticipation.
Sex is flirting outrageously and still remembering that the person at your side is not obligated to do anything more.
It's respect.
Sex is an imperfection in yourself not bothering you.
It's acceptance.
Sex is passing up an opportunity because the time isn't right yet.
It's patience.
Sex is a back rub that starts above the hairline and ends arouind the insoles.
It's exploration.
Sex is not having to say "let's make love", because you know what the other person wants. It's understanding.
Sex is being given a honest chance to say 'no' when you thought you were committed.
It's consideration.
Sex is both of you remembering protection.
It's responsibility.
Sex is saying the perfect phrase to make a solemn embrace dissolve into giggles.
It's humor.
Sex is being told "stop and you'll be in trouble".
It's desire.
Sex is reviewing the damage to your living room and realizing personal effects are strewn in a clockwise pattern from the front door to the bedroom.
It's abadonment.
Sex is seeing what your lover really looks like after the first time.
It's truth.
Sex is knowing what time it is and not caring. It's joy.
Sex is the arms around you tightening their embrace.
It's ecstasy.
Sex is seeing a new side of a person you thought you knew.
It's renewal.
Sex is telling a person if you have to leave, you will let her, sleep, and being told she would rather be woken.
It's tenderness.
Sex is being there to wake your lover...slowly. It's sensuous.
Sex is two people only taking up a third of a queen sized bed.
It's closeness.
Sex is knowing you gave the extra key to your flat to the right person.
It's trust.
Sex is saying goodbye and knowing you will be back by mutual consent.
It's faith.
Sex is stretching your arms and discovering the real meaning of the word "sore".
It's a lesson in human frailty.
Sex is going to brush your teeth and finding your tube of toothpaste turned inside out.
It's adapting.
Sex is sitting at the window, looking out and remembering who you were with the night before. It's reflection.
Sex is hearing the weather for a winter storm and wishing you could spend it in bed with your lover. It's loneliness.
So the next time you make love, think about what it really means to you!
Posted by: Miss rEEma senhaL At: 1, Jan 2003 1:12:23 PM IST
This is very good.
I am unable to judge about the things which u mentioned not as love.
but all thing u mentioned as love are right.
I have a small confusion. but till now one could clarify it. i think u can.
All the qualities of love u expresse could happen between anyone, isnt it? between parents and children, or brothers or sistrs, or friends.
It may occur between a boy and girl too.
But, can a man and woman who love each other so much and intense, go in to a physical relationship??
Will Sex suits love??
I dont think it does, what do u say??
If i love a girl, i can do anything for her. I wish to sleep in her lap like a child of her. I wish to hug her on my chest and feel her as a part of me.
But i can never imagine of satisfying my sexual desires with her body.I can never see her getting hurt and pain. Is this wrong??
How come true lovers are getting invovled in a dirty thing called sex??
plz answer to me.
Posted by: Viplove K At: 29, Dec 2002 5:09:51 PM IST
WoW..
Its Excellent....
It has to be published in schools and colleges to show what love is!!
Keep it Up..
Posted by: Suresh At: 23, Dec 2002 8:25:07 PM IST
| |
|
|
 |
| Advertisements |
|
|
|
|
| Advertisements |
|
