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| hi dove,
i think u hav not hurt anybody by writing this
instead u hav guided many ppl who need that
and wish to look beyond the impulse decisions.
feel proud and happy for that and keep writing
bi & kit - gp
Posted by: Mr. gangadhar panday At: 16, Dec 2006 11:11:50 AM IST
Dove
You have written a very nice article, ht is an eye opener for not only girl's but boys too. Please read my article, 'Message to youth'.
thanx
sada
Posted by: Mr. suman kumar yadamani At: 12, Sep 2006 12:48:51 PM IST
Thank you very much for everyone for their commens and mails on my article, and expressing your views and care.
Here I wanted to say something to everyone.. in this article i just wanted to explain how the culture changes. I dont think that i have said that my husband ill treats me??. Did I? My husband is a very good man, he takes care of me and loves me and my kids very much. And so do I. In my article I just wanted to express about our own Family and culture we miss.
Now Ahaan .. some of you please dont over expect or over react on this article. Thankx
Mrs. Dove.
Posted by: Mrs. dove At: 29, Aug 2005 11:24:23 AM IST
Culture or Religion doesnt matter in marriage. Its only peoples mind set and their behaviour and the atmosphere they are brought up & the family back ground. If this is the only the reason for failure of the mariages then the courts could have dealt with only inter religion marriage break ups. so dont criticise any religion or culture and cite personal experiences. For loving a person and gettting married to them and to start life with them these things really doesnt matter. I know so many couples married in to defferent religion who are living very happily.
Posted by: Mr. Srinivas N Chowdary At: 28, Aug 2005 1:50:45 PM IST
Hi, Dove,
I completely agree with your views. I have been an eye witness of one of such cultural conflicts, which drove a young woman into a sea of troubles. I strogly feel, women always stand victimised in these kind of tussels and they pay a heavy price for none of their mistakes.
In this incident too the woman (victim) happened to be my childhood friend. She got into love with a boy of different religion. Despite her family's protests she married him and got banished from the family and relatives. Very soon she realised that her inlaws too are not kind of her. Having undergone a terrible relationship for almost 5 years, she walked out of in-laws home and the marriage as well. Then she started leading an independent life with her two kids. Exactly at this juncture her colleague in the guise of a sooth sayer moved close to her. Being so frustrated and disturbed in the life she meekly accepted him as a friend and soon that turned out to be an extra-marital affair. For a couple of years she looks to be happy. Later her friend's wife got into the scene and exposed her illicit relationship publicly. Being not able to with stand the humiliation, she committed suicide leaving her children orphans. This incident has only strengthened my belief that though, the couple from an inter religion marriage could live hapily for ever, but their families, relatives and society as a whole doesnt allow them to be. Whatever be the case, it is woman and woman alone stands victimised.
Dove Compliments for your article.
Posted by: Miss Pratima Rachuri At: 23, Aug 2005 1:09:17 PM IST
i dont think success in married life has anything to do with religion or culture. my brother in law (my husbands brother)married a muslim girl and he is very happy. and i also have a best friend who married a white guy(blonde with blue eyes).They are still happy. differences comes in life anyways. If spouses are sadistic they are going to find ways to torture the betterhalves.
i dont think there is anymore culture difference left in the world. iam not talking about small small villages or remote areas. iam talking about well educated mob.
Posted by: Mrs. sms g At: 22, Aug 2005 0:25:15 AM IST
The author probably for got our culture previous experience.
In own culture are there no problems, like:
1. Dowry
2. Harassment
3. Humilitation
4. Insult
5. Torture
6. Burning alive with kerosene
7. Fire incidents
8. Acid thrown cases
9. Strangulation
10. Brutal Murders
More the atrocities weaker the soceity.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 21, Aug 2005 11:40:54 PM IST
madam meeru chepindhi correct kaavachu.....but it does not happen to all.....coz maa aunty kooda diff culture and religion ...she too has left her family ....but she never had any regrets nor did she suffer like wat u said ...coz maa uncle alla chusukunaadu....chuskuntunaadu kooda.........andharu okey laaga undaru!
Posted by: chakri At: 21, Aug 2005 2:45:42 PM IST
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