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| well love or arranged a success of marriage depends on how understandable both towards one another.
ee rojullo andariki hakkulu kavali kani evaru valla badyatha correct ga cheyyadam ledu.mutual cooperation lekunda eee type of marriage nilabadadu.
arranged lo peddavallu ilantivi rakunda koncahm apagalugu tharu.
kani naa dristi lo marriage anedi oka pavitra bandam adi love ayina arranged ayina
manasulu kalavali kalisthe manushulu automatic ga kalustaru.
manchi article ilage rastuu undandi
Posted by: Mr. Siva Rama Krishna Sunkara At: 3, Jun 2003 10:38:47 AM IST
gud topic..which is close to my heart.
Many ppl already gave their opinions and they basically said that "mutual understanding"between the two souls isessential for any relationship.its true.
But when we talk of " Love"Marriage,all people who "love marry" are no tmature enuff.so we see so many failed"luv marriages".
Apart from the vital Maturity..there are many imp ingredients necessary for a successful love marriage..like Financial security,The capacity to tolerate the opposing society and friends and relatives,
the capacity to love unconditionally.
We cant expect all these qualities to be present in majority of ppl.So it is not surprising that many love marriages fail.
Even in arranged marriage,the lady just tolerates all the injustice being done to her coz she cant escape from it due to various social taboos..and we explicitely do not "see" many failed "arrangd marriages".If U conduct a survey and come to know the inner feelings of married couples,esp ladies',U wud know how "succefful" are the arranged marriages.
I personally recommend love marriages..but b4 u go for it make sure that--
-the other person is mature and broad mainded
-the person is Financially secure
-the person has gud education
-the person has gud moral system
-the person has gud habbits
-the person has some sense of humor
-the person gives importance to some"little things"in life
the list goes on..........
but at the end of it,it is upto U to decide who is right 4 u..and nobody else coz its ur Life and Ur going to live rest of ur life with him.
Wht say?!
Posted by: Mr. Siri Siri At: 30, May 2003 11:23:52 AM IST
I FULLY AGREE WITH NEETHA.
ONE OF THE SURVEY REVEALS THAT ONLY 20 TO 30 PERCENT OF LOVE MARRIAGES ARE SUCCESSFUL.
BETTER TO MAKE LOVE AFTER MARRIAGE.
KEEP WRITING SUCH ARTICLES.
Posted by: Mr. 666 At: 27, Apr 2003 7:25:46 PM IST
How can parents choose your life partner? There is a big gap in values and beliefs between our parents and our generation. In most of the cases, their value didn't match with ours.
For life to be successful and worthy, choose yourself a partner, who is caring, understanding and ambitious. I prefer to choose my partner from my friends, since I know them better and know about their values.
People alwasy talk about romeo/juliet...etc stories, when they talk about love. They can't see so many love stories which are successful, as media and the people are curious to know about failures than success stories.
Most of the parents see and assume their own interests as yours, life job/financialstatus/social status etc. Most of them really don't bother abour your dreams and ambitions. Itz your call to live your OWN life or accept whatever it comes in your way.
Posted by: urchinni M At: 24, Apr 2003 10:24:57 AM IST
Hello Neetha,
Mee article baagundi... kaani meeru choosina love marriage fail ayinanta maatrana.. love marriages anni failure anukovadam manchidi kaadu... love marriage ayina arranged ayina eddari madhya understanding manchiga untene success avutundi. aa vishayanikoste maadi kooda love marriage... modatlo maa parents anduku oppukoledu... ayina bayatikochi pelli chesukunnamu... enni rojulu valla support lekunda haayigane unnamu.. eppudippude valla kopam taggi maaku daggaravutunnaru... chinna chinna potlatalu anni samsaraallonu sahajame.. okko sari okkokkaru sardukupovali ante... eddari madhya manchi understanding unte aa samsaaramina happyga untundi...
bore kottinchi unte i am sorry.....
All the best for ur future.
Best regards,
Chaitanya.
Posted by: Mrs. Chaitanya Gudavalli At: 22, Apr 2003 8:53:12 AM IST
sorry miss neetha.your article is very boring.please just remember that there is no
life without love,i.e.pure love.we can't find
such love in these days.it is very unfortunately.love marriage with aggrement of
partents is very fine.they have to deal with
their parents carefully and get success.i
think it is the best.
wish you best of luck in your future.
Posted by: Mr. VENU BORRA At: 21, Apr 2003 12:28:13 PM IST
hell neetha,
mee article nenu eppude chadivaanu. chaala baagundi. kaani meeru anukunnatu arranged marriages chesukunnavaaru andaru kuda sukamga samsaaram cheyatam ledu. oka samsaaram chakkaga saagalante baarya mariyu bartha eddaru okarini okaru artham chesukovali. vaaladi love marriage or arranged marriage annadi mukyam kaadu vaala mentality meeda adi aadara padi vuntundi anthe kaani only love marriage lone ela jarugutundi ani anukovadam chaala tappu.
meeru cheppina example lo that person who scolding her wife he is an stupid fellow. but all persons will not do like that.
its opinion.
ok
bye
Posted by: Mr. naresh kumar At: 20, Apr 2003 6:13:54 PM IST
Hello andi andariki :)
Love ante okkokallaki okko meaning..generalise cheyyataniki manam evaram??
there are pros and cons in any kind of marriage.. adi marriage ke kaadu anni vishayalaki kada???
love marriage ayina arranged marriage ayina, husband and wife lo support/understanding/accepting/affection/commitment.. lekapothe edi work out avvadu... its a work in progress forever..you need to keep working at it.. when you say till death do us apart you have to mean it...
love marriage chesukunna arranged marriage chesukunna okate paina cheppina qualities iddarilo unte... lekapothe mari opposite... antare evari kharma ki valle baadhyulu ani... mana andariki telisindega???
welll mari bore kottinchaledanukuntunna... bye mari
love
srujana
Posted by: Mugdha At: 20, Apr 2003 12:26:33 PM IST
Hi Neetha gaaru!!
I am talking about love marrige only here--
Mansunte Margaalu Enno... ani peddalu antuntaru .. mari ee vishayam lo enduko.. naaku aa sametha correct kaadu anipisthindi.. I agree with ur statement. Same time we can't generalise about Love.Manah spoorthi ga preminche vallu inka vunnaru..
Srikanth gaaru!!!!
(If a person knows the true meaning of love therez no question of failed marriages )
I strongly disagree this statement.
Kutumba Paristhithula valla manah spoorthi ga PREMINCHINA vaarini pelli chesukoleka povachchu.
Chivaraga nenu cheppedi emante..
Try to adjust with partner with good understanding/giving good respect..
that's enough for our life(Either love marrige/arranged marriage)
Posted by: Mr. Narasimhaswamy Alavala At: 19, Apr 2003 4:43:32 AM IST
Hi Neetha gaaru!
Posted by: Mr. Narasimhaswamy Alavala At: 19, Apr 2003 4:28:47 AM IST
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