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I doubt, is this a story or an essay?? very boring. First work of u, which i dint like at all. sorry to say this, i never expected such a boring one from u.

Posted by: Viplove K At: 14, Jan 2003 2:28:57 PM IST

lakshmi garu, Mee super sutti ki vandanaalu.U r very much fit for a daily serial story writer which runs over the decades with out any information. Think u'r self atleast one should spend 25min to read this is there any information in it .Don't get me wrong for this bcoz this is the feeling i got after reading u'r story.U also can scold me for writing like this .. kc_413@yahoo.co.in Expecting good articles from u -- krishna.

Posted by: Mr. chaitu choudary R At: 29, Nov 2002 2:40:41 AM IST

Lakshmi Prasanthi, I read your story. and I feel that I can suggest something to you...I have been following your responses to the comments too, and you know, your telugu is very good. Why don't you write in Telugu ? Meeru cheppa dalchukunna vishayanni, meeku anubhavam, pattu unna bhasha lo ayite inkaa baaga vyakteekarincha gaulugutaaru...aalochinchandi. Now about your story, Mee avedana, mee drukpatham nenu oohinchagalanu, kaani meeru koncham over react avutunattu undi. Chaala aavesam to raastunnaru, anduke mee pratee article kee inni discussions comments, counter comments vastunnai, daani valla asalu point maruguna padi poyi vaada prativaadale migulutunnai. Mimmalni comment chesina pratee vyakti nee khandincha valasina avasaram meeku ledu. Stick on to the theme of your articles or stories, do not try to argue/convince people through the characters in your stories. Put forth your ideas or opinions through your stories or articles, in a pragmatic manner, do not get emotional when writing stories. Sentiments and emotions should be subtle and controlled when writing anything, it gives you a better hold of your story plot. Regarding the story itself, first you need to think more practically ( talaki vipareetamga noone raasukuni, nappani cheera kattukuni "unpresentable" ga pelli koduku ki kanipinchadam anedi koncham ridiculous solution...meere aalochinchandi). Aada pillalu enta presentable ga, dignified ga unte magavaaru anta "respect" istaaru. One more point, you need to refine your style of writing and polish your usage of English language. thats all for now, ALL THE VERY BEST. Deepika

Posted by: Mrs. Deepika Dronamraju At: 13, Sep 2002 4:28:56 AM IST

Yes, it is very sickening to listen we, Indians ourselves comment on India. I am also against that. Our President Dr. Abdul Kalam also emphasizes this. Here I am not commenting on India or its culture. Just I want to let people know how it is, the trauma, in some old practises. I just wished people be think in this way and find out solutions.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 10, Sep 2002 11:17:28 AM IST

LP, Let me clarify this right now that I after my initial two postings I am not refering to your storywriting abilities or style. Let's have that out of our way. I am sticking to the general discussion on pelli chupulu. The reference was made so that you could see the contradictory stances you are taking. ))) Love marriages koodaa ante. Preminchaamani chepite, aa particular vyaktulanu gurinchi , ))) maamoolugaa sambandhaalu vetikite elaa vaakabu chestaaro alaage cheyyamanandi, aa tarvaate pelli Maybe worth pursuing that channel. I bet it does happen to some extent even now. What parents oppose is irresponsibile decisions made with inexperience and they tend to protect us. As I said earlier if we can convince our parents that we are rational, dependable, capable of good judgement and have a good outlook in life, why wouldn't they atleast pay attention to us ? I was saying that since this is our need we need to make the first step and stop looking at parents as fixtures from past century and trust them. Is the situation to discuss with potential groom isn't better than others ? Even if you discuss what would be so private that you may feel ashamed should the proposal go southbound ? )) Ika solution antaaraa, pillalu talli tandrulato, tama ishtaa ishtaalu, abhipraayaalu mundugaa spashtamgaa ))cheppadam avasaram. ante tama jeevita bhaagaswaamini gurinchi, vaallu elaanti vaallu ayi undaalane Way to go. See that's a positive way to look and come up with solutions. I am sure it may happen in some families and maybe not in others. Maybe we can strive for that change to be in force in 100% households. ))) Persistently try annaaru. So nenu samasyani cheputunnaanu, baadha elaa untundo express chestu, I guess this argument is going in circles, maybe being a girl is a different situation, I wouldn't be knowing. I will not comment further on this. ))) Inkaa konni vishayaalu cheppaanante, mallee samasyalu levanettutunnaanu. solution cheppaledu ))) kaabatti, shut your mouth, ani chaalaa maryaadagaa answer istaaru. I am not asking you to shut up and also acknowledge that I have no such right on any individual. I am saying we won't do any better service to society by raking and ranting about the problems. Rather I want to see ideas coming forward from diverse sections to help our society bail out from this social ill. Please see the distinction in my argument. How often do I see in Indian parties, people finding fault with India and its corruption. It is so sickening to hear the complaints. Having done nothing to the society how dare we are to find faults? If it's not our duty, whose duty is it to make India a better one? Why would someone clean the mess in our house? Indians who are so litter conscious outside India, turn into litterbugs the moment they land in India. These people who don't care to arrive on time complain about ou railways not being punctual. Do we know that Indian Railways is the largest employer in the world, with most arcane technologies in place. But still the beauty of the system is it works near perfect. This attitude is what I am appalled and arguing against. My approach is don't complain if you can't make it better. It pertains not just to you, but to me and all others who are concerned with problems and not solutions.

Posted by: Mr. Adwait Aditam At: 10, Sep 2002 3:02:13 AM IST

evari bhagaswaamini vaallu ennukone vivekam ante, naa uddesyam ade vivekaaniki kolabadda ani kaadu. alaagaithe migathaa anni vishayaallo mana telivini, vivekaanni oppukunte, pelli vishayamlo maatram enduku oppukokoodadu? guddigaa enduku vyatirekinchaali? ye vishayaalu ayinaa meru mee antata meeru decide chesukovacchu,kaani pelli vishayam maatram memu cheppinatte vinaali, idi emi nyaayamandi? Oka katha eppudu oka instance ante. anta maatram cheta andariki Internet allullu dorukutaaraa? ikkada ee kadhalo snigdha select chesina daanni meeru question chesaaru. eppudainaa, oka ammaayiki kaani, oka abbaayiki kaani taamu chesukoboye vyakthi gurinchi poortigaa avagaahana oka intimacy undadam avasaram.(snigdha tana snehituraaliki friend gurinchi cheppi undaalsindi. ofcourse mallee friend manchi vaadenani guarantee emiti antaaru. peddalaku vishayam chepite, vaallu annee check chestaaru kadaa. In fact, Love marriages koodaa ante. Preminchaamani chepite, aa particular vyaktulanu gurinchi , maamoolugaa sambandhaalu vetikite elaa vaakabu chestaaro alaage cheyyamanandi, aa tarvaate pelli cheyamanandi) Chastity potundani nenemi analedu. asalu enduku alaa cheyyaali ane antunnaa. oka magavaarigaa kaadandi, oka aadavaarigaa aalochinchandi. andaroo ammayila abhipraayaalaku viluva istunnaarane meeru anukuntunnaaraa? Upper Middle Class, Rich Class and some people from Lower Middle Class section, might be giving some consideration to their daughters. But it is not the case with all. Ika solution antaaraa, pillalu talli tandrulato, tama ishtaa ishtaalu, abhipraayaalu mundugaa spashtamgaa cheppadam avasaram. ante tama jeevita bhaagaswaamini gurinchi, vaallu elaanti vaallu ayi undaalane daani gurinchi, cheppaali. Peddalu koodaa(bera saaraallo equality untundanukunte, anni vishayaallonu eeeeeequality untundanukunte, pillalaku nachite ika pelle nannnattu) choosi appudu, tama pillala vivaraalu cheppaali. iddaru persons meet avvaka munde, ivannee telusukovaali. Ground Level anni ok ayithe, appudu maatlaadinaa, atleast 90% cases pelli to end avavachemo, avutaayemo. Okka saari alaa edutivaalla mundu koorchovadam(enni sophisticated technologies vacchi, ee arrangement lo maarpu vacchina, this is very degrading), elaa untundi ani telustundi. Idemi goppa solution ani nenu anukovatledu. may be somewhat useful. ika intimacy undaali antune, maatlaadakapovadamane daani gurinchi, ee rakamgaa oka aparichita vyaktito nenenduku maatlaadaali? In fact, arrg. marriages lo intimacy saatam enta? pelli ayinaa tarvaata koodaa bharta to maatlaadaalante, emi anukuntaadonane hesitation. ante naa uddesyam, tama abhipraayaalanu velladinchaleni tatvam. Inkaa konni vishayaalu cheppaanante, mallee samasyalu levanettutunnaanu. solution cheppaledu kaabatti, shut your mouth, ani chaalaa maryaadagaa answer istaaru. Persistently try annaaru. So nenu samasyani cheputunnaanu, baadha elaa untundo express chestunnaanu, readers koodaa aa disagaa aalochincha vacchu kadaa. oka kadha chadivinappudu, manam chadivi oorukomu kadaa. aa kadha ni gurinchi aalochistaamu. so readers solution gurinchi aalochincharu ani emi ledu kadaa. vaallalo aa aalochanani create cheyachu kadaa, solution leni samasyaatmaka kadhalu. Ofcourse, nenu naa modati prayatnamlo, complete gaa success kaakapoyi undacchu, anta maatram cheta, samasyani ignore chesi anubhavinchaalanadam artharahitham. Konni kadhalu ending lekundaa paatakula imagination ke vadilestaaru, mari daanikemantaaru? Ikkada nannu nenu samardhinchukovatam ledu, kaani oka saari kadhanu vimarsinchina tarvaata, daaniki nenu samaadhaanam cheppina tarvaata koodaa malli lopam ade anadam enduko naaku teeleeledu. ippudu mana charcha narration lopaala nunchi bayatiki vacchi, main samasya gurinchi jarugutondi. kaabatti daanike nenu samaadhaanamistunnaanu. vayasu, experience ani cheptaaru. so ikkada generalistation undakoodadu. I refer to my previous posting again. reactions differ. Addugolugaa, ante naa uddesyam vitandamgaa ani. ante kevalam vaadinchadam kosame vaadinchadam kaanee, vishayam ni gurinchi telusukovaali, lopaalunte diddukovaali ane aalochana lekapovadam.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 10, Sep 2002 0:24:05 AM IST

))) eppudu manaku aalochinche vivekam vastundani mee andari uddesyam? ante tama bhaagaswaamini ))) taamu ennukone vivekam ani. I disagree that the metric for thinking ability is dependent on selecting your partner. We have ample examples where arranged marriages are way more successful than love marriages. Not that one should condemn them. ))) Internet lo chat cheyadam, oka vyaktini jeevitha bhaagaswami kaavaalani maatlaadatamlo chaalaa ))) tedaa undandi. Internet lo friends ayithe, vaallani jeevitha bhaagaswaami kaavaalani nenemi ...... Read your story again, that's what you have touted as the best way. ))) oka vela nenu peddalu cheppinatte velli maatlaadataanu. atanu nannu pelli chesukoledu, paristithi miti? )))nenoka paraayi magavaaditho tiriginatte kadaa? Oho, idi peddavaalla permissionto kalisi ....... This is twisting the argument. I am not really convinced that by having such discussion, one loses their chastity (I mean both boy and girl). It's an open discussion in a healthy environment and a better way than someone fixing your marriage. It's a better way than our previous generations had. Antha feel avvalsina avasharam ledu. If you think of a better way, pray tell us. I strongly believe that one who points out a problem also has the burden of finding the solution. If not, you are also part of the problem, if not the problem itself. We all can fault the system. How better are we then, unless we do something to change it to better. If not, we better shutup and go with the current. ))) Ika solution vishayam. Enta mandi youth dowry ki vyatirekam ani meeranukuntunaaru? Dowry system ))) gurinchi, naadoka article, vikram gaaridoka article undi. choodandi andaroo enta addugolugaa ... I am familiar with Vikram's postings and consider him to be pervert at the best. What I am saying is the present system which worked for a particular period has outlived its utility. We need to update the system and not just oppose its existence. If you remove the present system, there will be a vaccum, and we better be prepared with a viable solution, else Vikram and his cohorts will fill the void with far more detrimental system. (Anyway, what is addugolugaa mean ??) ))) chesi vyatirekinchaalane aalochanani nenu support chestaanu. kaneesam maarpu raakapoyinaa, aa Educate people about the evils of dowry and things will change. If someone promotes sati in their family, we should demand "pati" too be adopted in the family. Social changes will take longer time and we need to be persistent in our message. I am confident that 80% of the population is reasonable and we need to reach them with clear message. ))) ayithe, meeru penchina mee pillalne meerenduku nammaru ani adugutunnaa? Khachitamgaa Redundant. Read previous posting again. ))) telusukoni, manchi vaallayithe pelliki voppukoni deeviste emi poyindi(They shouldn't consider Caste, ))) Religion , Property etc.)? Marriages are often lead to fusion of two families. It means more than a young couple living together. With the diversity of our language and customs, families from both sides seek compatibility as there will be events/situations that prevail over a period of time. In a microcosmic plane, uniform religion/caste/financial standards ensure such compatibility. It nevertheless can be changed as long as we can convince our elders on our ability to think in a rational manner. It may not be true in all cases, but we need to understand where they are coming from. Vande Mataram, Adwait

Posted by: Mr. Adwait Aditam At: 9, Sep 2002 10:15:04 PM IST

Adwait garu, When you criticised me for my lack of good english and some pitfalls in the story, I didn't oppose, because I never think that way about the pitfalls in my story, so I accepted. Regarding, your comments about my opposal of Pellichoopulu, I never agree with you. To give explanation for that, I can't discuss it here because there is another discussion going on "Love Vs Arranged Marriage" and I expressed my opinions there. Prati vokkallu premanu vyatireka drushtitone choostunnaaru. I don't want to contradict either. evari opinions vaallavi. eppudu manaku aalochinche vivekam vastundani mee andari uddesyam? ante tama bhaagaswaamini taamu ennukone vivekam ani. Andaroo preminche pelli chesukovaali, leka andaroo arranged marriages chesukovaali ani nenemi abhipraaya padaledu. Internet lo chat cheyadam, oka vyaktini jeevitha bhaagaswami kaavaalani maatlaadatamlo chaalaa tedaa undandi. Internet lo friends ayithe, vaallani jeevitha bhaagaswaami kaavaalani nenemi korukoledu, in fact evaroo anta teliggaa nammaru koodaa mukku moham teliyani vaallani(Ofcourse Internet pellillu jarugutunnaa, vaati saatam takkuvane naa abhipraayam), and again coming to the fixing, oka vela nenu peddalu cheppinatte velli maatlaadataanu. atanu nannu pelli chesukoledu, paristithi emiti? nenoka paraayi magavaaditho tiriginatte kadaa? Oho, idi peddavaalla permissionto kalisi maatlaadindi kanuka, not bad. everyone agrees. this is what you mean to say? Pellichoopullo okalla gurinchi okallu cheppe vishayaalu, vaalla bhaavaalu nijamani guarantee emiti?(vitanda vaadam kaadu. preminche vaallanu prasnistaaru kadaa, manchi vaallani guarantee emitani? just alaage adigaanu). Denikainaa nammakam undaali. anumaanam to denni saadhinchalemu. Ayithe result yedainaa kaavachu.kaakapote taamu teesukunna nirnayaala taalooku phalitham elaantidainaa accept cheyagalige capacity undaali. alaanti vaalle sonta nirnayam dhairyamgaa teesukogalugutaaru. Ika solution vishayam. Enta mandi youth dowry ki vyatirekam ani meeranukuntunaaru? Dowry system gurinchi, naadoka article, vikram gaaridoka article undi. choodandi andaroo enta addugolugaa vaadinchaaro. ika ilaati vaallu badgelu kattukoni tirugutaaraa? ayithe oka rojuni andukosam gaa declare chesi vyatirekinchaalane aalochanani nenu support chestaanu. kaneesam maarpu raakapoyinaa, aa disagaa aalochistaaremo !! meerokkare, katnaaniki vyatirekam ayithe saripodu kadandi. enta mandi magavaaru alaa unnaaru? memu korukunedi koodaa, youth lo, mukhyamgaa magavaari pravartana and aalochanaa vidhaanaallo maarpuni, manchi maarpuni maatrame. Purusha dwesha samaajamemi ledu. Parents gurinchi meeru cheppina vaatilni nenemi khandinchatamledu. ayithe, meeru penchina mee pillalne meerenduku nammaru ani adugutunnaa? Khachitamgaa preminche pelli chesukovaali ani evaroo anukoru. alaa anukunnanta maatraana, sari ayina vyakti dorakaru. kaani pillalu palaanaa vaallani preminchaamu ani cheppinappudu , aa sadaru vyaktini gurinchi vivaraalu telusukoni, manchi vaallayithe pelliki voppukoni deeviste emi poyindi(They shouldn't consider Caste, Religion , Property etc.)?

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 9, Sep 2002 3:44:54 PM IST

Hyperbole. LP’s argument to what Ms. Raji Chalasani posting is pure hyperbole. Parents bayata thirgamanedi not for fun, since it’s a serious situation we are given the license under parents auspices to share and know more about each other, which could be 1-2 such meetings to share your opinions with a potential groom/bride which is not stranger or more than we do on the internet or chat sessions. You say you don’t want to talk to anyone before marriage and in the next paragraph you demand intimacy with the fiancé. That’s classic contradiction for you. In fact parents allowing us to meet before marriage, reflects elders respect to our opinions and letting us be decision makers. What’s this penchant of our generation to look at parents and elders as someone to oppose? Why can’t we also understand the social burden our parents have to carry to get us married and settled and in process desire for our happiness. Parent’s motives are always tempered with practicality and experience which we youth lack and it definitely pays to heed to their consent. What’s wrong in adjusting? Our age may limit us from understanding the value of it but remember that it is that alone will give you happiness in life. Lack of contentment makes life meaningless and is the only elixir for happiness in marriage whether arranged or agreed. Don’t we witness so many mishaps in love marriages? We all depend on parents to do the job of match fixing for various reasons. Often young people confide more in friends and associates than their own parents. It’s like blind leading blind. If we want our parents to trust/respect us we need to trust/respect and treat them as our friends, as one small step forward will bring a great journey of happiness for eternity. Alochana leni avesham avivekam avutundi, anardhaniki dari theesthundi. Varakatnani, pelli chupulni vyathirekinchadam nuvve kadu evvariana cheyyachu, konda meeta koti kuda vyathirekisthundi. What we want is a solution for a problem. When you don a writer’s role that makes it all the more important. Dowry has been banned by govt. though unfortunately it’s not being regimented. Society is made up of you and me and we can make the changes happen and can’t expect govt. enforce morality. We have to revive reform movements and only youth can make it happen. Behind one sixty-year-old mahatma, there were lakhs of young Prakasams, Vinoba Bhaves, and JP Narains. As an example we can have badges denouncing dowry and other evils {I oppose Dowry / Dowry – No Way etc) and all youth can wear them as a sign of protest on a given day every month (1st Monday). This process can be started in one college and can snowball into a popular movement in entire state or nation. Also, this is the most civil and non-destructive way of protesting and registering our views than doing a hartal or bandh, which are non-violent and economically disruptive and counter-productive to the society. This can bring change in youths attitude, maybe worth trying. Vande Mataram, Adwait

Posted by: Mr. Adwait Aditam At: 9, Sep 2002 10:29:11 AM IST

Raaji garu, infact readers andariki nenoka vishayam cheppadaluchukunnaa, ee kadha raasetappudu, kevalam pelli choopula concept ni vyatirekinchadame naa uddesyam. daaniki konchem colour, flavour add cheyadalichaa ante. maree chedu maatra laagaa undakundaa, homeo pathy mandu laagaa undaalani sankalpinchi aayaa sandharbhaalani kalpinchaanu. Adwait gaari comment chadive varaku, nenu rendo disalo aalochinchaledu. ante tanu choopinchina lopaalu maatrame. ippudu koodaa nenu pellichoopulani criticise chestaanu. chestoone untaanu. Parents bayata tiragamantaaru, mana abhipraayaalu panchukomantaaru, emitandi adi? asalu mukku moham teliyani vyakthiki naa gurinchi, naa feelings gurinchi nenu enduku cheppaali? entamandiki cheppaali? Very ridiculous. Cheptaanu, katnam kaaranamgaano, maredo kaaranamgaano, pelli kudaraledu appudu paristithi emiti? oka paraayi magavaaditho nenenduku tiragaali? naake sontham avutaadane nammakam emiti? If she says ok only, they will invite them. So sorry. It will not be the fact. Oka vela peddavaallu techinadi edi nachhaledu anukundaamu. enni sambandhaala varaku manaku, mana abhipraayaalaku viluva istaaru? Meeko vishayam teluso ledo, majority of the cases lo, aadavaari feelings ki asalu viluva vundadu. enta mandi pellillu, ammaayilaki ishtapadi jarugutunnaayi? Think, and answer in a frank manner. kevalam parents cheppaaru, vaariki nachaaru ante. chesukoboye vyakthitho yemainaa intimacy untundaa? abbaayi konchem aadhunika bhaavaalu unte, maatlaadataaniki prayatnistaadu ante. Arranged marriages vaallu andaru sardukupovatledaa ani adugutaaru. Jeevithamlo Sardukupovadam kaavaalaa, Santhosham gaa undadam kaavaalaa? Parents will definitely want their child to be happy. This is true. But what I say is the definition of happiness differs from Parents to children. pillala drushtilo happiness ki, parents drushtilo happiness ki tedaa untundi. Peddalaki aasthi, udyogam, etc., kaavaali. Pillalaki artham chesukone manasu, emotional frequency, likemindedness ilaantivi kaavaali. Adwait garu solution cheppaalani annaaru. Solution cheppa galigenta goppa daanni kaadu, kaanee indulo vunde baadhalani artham chesukomantunnaanu. pedda vaalla vayasuki edigi manam aalochinchalemu. kaanee peddalu mana vayasutho, manasutho aalochinchavachhu. anduke advice istaamu antaaraa? ayithe, prati vokkaru, samasyalaki spandinche vidhaanam verugaa untundi. kaalam maarindi. Oke samasyani, oke laanti paristitullo, okkakkaru okkokkalaa react ayyi, okko vidhamgaa solve chesukuntaaru. kaabatti ikkada generalisation undakoodadu, kevalam advice undaale tappa, order undakoodadu.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 7, Sep 2002 4:47:57 PM IST

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