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Articles: My Thoughts | | Does Mother always represent LOVE?? | |
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| Mr Viplove,
I read ur article.I have read u are two more articles about marriage and flowers.it is good.
But viplove garu, god cant be with us always so he created mother for us.And dont expect a mother to show only love,even they are human beings , they should have some feelings.
Posted by: Bharathi Reddy At: 28, Jun 2003 1:32:32 PM IST
this article does not demand any body's time. I personally feel Mothers does not represent love. But the example the author has given does not carry the weight (any) to substantiate his point. The title of the article should have been "if the mothers could react to every situation without losing patience, unlike one does towards any other". !how the world would have been.
Posted by: Mr. ram babu ramachandrula At: 26, May 2003 8:31:22 PM IST
Then, like I said earlier
,dont expect MOTHER to always represent love.She doesnt have to, given her own cirmustances.
Posted by: Mr. Siri Siri At: 26, May 2003 12:03:34 PM IST
Oh!!!!!!!!!!
what happenned to u ppl?
I clearly mentioned in the last lines of this article that, 95% women are good mothers ,only 5% are bad.
When did i say that only mothers are bad or all mothers are bad??
Why u ppl find meanings whcih i never tried to say?
I love motherhood yaar.
I sometimes feel sad that i cant be a mother.
Posted by: Viplove K At: 26, May 2003 11:05:57 AM IST
And plz do read the coments here..
http://telugupeople.com/discussion/comments.asp?tc1=3460
Posted by: Mr. Siri Siri At: 26, May 2003 9:01:41 AM IST
Viplov,Thanx for reading my articles.They all are intended to convey some moral in way or the other...to remind one of the beauty in human beings and LITTLE THINGS which is often forgotten in this present day crazy world.I am sorry if U felt like a bookworm while reading my articles.
Well,coming to ur article,Tell me why /how do u expect a mother to behave like GOD always?!
Like I said earlier a MOTHER is also an human being with all human-pitfalls.Still when U comare the MOTHER with other relationshps in society she still tops the list in showing LOVE AND AFFECTION.
Children need punishment as much as affection.Otherwise they wud become spoilt brats and wud be ill-fit in the society.Here lies the crux of the matter..When a mother punishes her kids does she have proper motive or not.I feel that in majority of the cases she does have .In the minority cases it may not be tha case and one shud not blame entire MOTHERHOOD based on such cases.
Mother may not always reperesent LOVE ,but when she doesnt,one has to make an effort to see the interior motives behind her behavior towards kids.
As Mr. NTvOdu rightly pointed out
"social problems, circumstances, poverty, family problems, illiteracy ....many factors influence one's behaviour."
Then, like I said earlier
,dont expect MOTHER to always represent love.She doesnt have to, given her own cirmustances.
Expecting like that is too much.Sometimes very well educated Pundits and even God does mistakes .
On the other hand how many grown up Sons are sensitive to the feelings of their Mothers?Both are human beings.If U do
comapritive analysis Mother still scores better.
Coming to Gendre inequality,here not just mother but Father as well,and the entire family and society is responsible for that.It is a social problem.Dont blame ONLY MOTHER for such ill-customs.They have to be foughton a social platform.Mother is not above social customs..certainly not when her illiteracy and poverty etc are behind her behavior.Eradicate such social problems as illiteracy,dowry,poverty etc and U will see definite improvement in Gender equality.
Well ,for every single mother who kills children,there are 100 fathers who misbehaved with their daughters ,there are 1000 mother in -laws who encouraged killing their daughter in laws.Wht say?!
Posted by: Mr. Siri Siri At: 26, May 2003 8:28:47 AM IST
Mr.Siri,
I have been taking a look at all your articles, and i know many of them were lift irrigated ones.
I appreciate you for ur good knowledge in books. Once i too remained as a bookworm, but there is lot of difference in the worl;d of books and reality. I wish you too see the reality than the dreams in books.
I dint write this just 'cos i saw some woman beating her kids. I knew many women who spoiled the lives of their children. I know many mothers who see girl child in a manner and boy child in better way. Do u know about "battered baby syndrome"?? do u know about "acts of commission and omission" in infanticide.
There are many mothers who kill children without a reason. And mind they are not psycopaths.
And finally, iwish to be Budha.
Posted by: Viplove K At: 24, May 2003 7:38:06 PM IST
Maaan..This is an horrifying topic.
I understand ur anguish.
But remember that MOTHER is like God ..albeit God in human flesh and blood.
Every human being is prone to some mood swings and nobody is pefect and MOTHER is no exeption.
It is siad that MOTHER is the epitome of true lovecoz U see such MOTHER's love in all creatures whether wild or civilized.
I f U had waited for some more time U might have seen that mother hugging her kid the next minute.It is all in the game as they say!
So take it easy and dont get perturbed and perplexed and panic-stricken by such occational incidents in everyday life.Otherwise U might bcome another GoutamaBudha!;)
As for ur reference to other cruel aspects like killling kids etc..they must be having some sort of psychopathic mentality and unsoundmind.just coz of such rare psychopaths t is not proper to bring insult to our lovely MOTHER!
Cheers!
Posted by: Mr. Siri Siri At: 24, May 2003 2:43:35 PM IST
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