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Articles: My Thoughts | Why Do People MARRY ??????? | |
| Hello Mr.Viplove,
Why do people marry?? good question.A question which u cannot ask in Germany or U.S. etc coz here people don´t marry but stay together and when they get bored leave them and search for new persons they can do this only till they r old once they r old and they cannot manage to do things by them selves but still they r alone and will curse their fate.They will not have a single soul to rely and proudly say oh these r my people.That is their fate and will have to stay alone in this big world.But If people get married and love each other,have a happy married life,honest married life then at their old age they can depend on each other and now they r proud of their children grand children and they get love respect etc.After all we r living for a short period and once we r gone we r dead we r alone then why stay aone when we have a chance.
Last but not the least Marriage is a promise commitment of two individuals and which u will enjoy when u r in it.There r many couples who dont have children and r still happy with the adopted ones.So marraige is not only for sex.Sex is only a part of marraige.
After all the meaning of nature is Interdependence.
So dont insult the marraige institution by bringing brothels DNA tests into the discussion. And being an INDIAN this is very sad that u raised the topic.
bye
usha.
Posted by: Mrs. Usha Kishore At: 3, Dec 2004 2:28:45 PM IST Mr. Viplove,
As Ms.Padmavathi said earlier, dont rise silly issues and dont create urself as a unique personality.
Marrige is a basic requirement and is a compromise,
Everybody definetly need to get marry.
Then only one can understand the meaning of marrige.
First, u get marry then u will find the answers to ur questions.
Wish u all the best..
Kalyan
Posted by: Mr. Kalyan Chakravarthi At: 26, Mar 2004 11:43:53 AM IST Mr.Viplove, Marriage has a very sacred meaning and the main purpose of it is staying with each other forever satisfying each other's mental and physical needs and for this is marriage has to be followed not for the sake of other's, but for our own sake, bcoz god has bestowed us with intelligence and thinking power and being in possession of that we are not supposed to behave like animals. Marriage is a feeling that we have a person on whose shoulder we can lay and keep our agonies off, it is a belief that comes in the middle of the life and stays till we breath our last. So stop pondering on such silly questions and do not sketch u as an unique personality but figures you out to be a silly person.
Posted by: Miss Padmavathi Devi Verroju At: 8, Sep 2003 4:00:26 PM IST haai viploveee
asali ee topic mee burraloki ela vachindi
meeru cheppinadantlo konta artham undi
kont vastvakuda undi
i think, nw a days marriege jeevitamlo chesukone oka pedda function
anthakuminchi marem ledu
particularga marriege oka purpose kosam ani cheppalekhapotunnam
marriege chalamandiki finance burden kuda avutundi
munduga marriege evadu kanipettado vadni tannite chepputademo
Posted by: Mr. someswararao peddinti At: 12, Aug 2003 10:32:32 AM IST viplove garu asalu meeku e idea etla vachindi
edi research topic ki panikivasthundi
Posted by: Mrs. madhavi madhavi At: 6, Aug 2003 4:55:18 PM IST
you have done an excellent work
this is highly informative to who it matters
srinivas
Posted by: Mr. G.srinivas G.srinivas At: 21, Jun 2003 7:26:24 PM IST Hi Viplove, Your views are pretty good in writing, but I am afraid it might become as difficult as you can imagine if you really follow those. If people in the uncivilized ages never cared abt identifying fathers of children, then probably there wouldn't have been any society today and hence no customs built within the society. The fact the they cared abt fathers and MARRIAGES tells us that they are either caring abt the society which is already built around them or they themselves are slowly building the society and customs(like "one should have sex with only one") without their knowledge. As you can see, there are traces of society and doing things for the society in the uncivilized ages itself. Well, the times have changed and we are now in so-called civilized world. Believe it or not, realize it or not...you have to do much many things for the society than for yourself. This is a fact..sometimes it causes great difficulty and sometimes you can really count on the benefits.
If people in uncivilized ages thought that knowing fathers of children isn't important, then today we might have been seeing couples living together without getting married!!
Posted by: Savyasachi At: 5, Jun 2003 0:16:52 AM IST
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