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Articles: My Thoughts | | Before you decide for Marriage........... | |
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| Prasanthigaru,
To say in one word fantastic article. keep it up.
Saaru
Posted by: Mr. Pardha Saradhi Gajavalli At: 25, Aug 2004 1:42:04 PM IST
I am pleased to read this article; well conceived. I wish her to write about the evils of dowry system. As a former senior Police officer in charge of Law and Order & Crime, I handled many dowry torture/death cases, in which the female partners have been victimised.
I am posting my poem 'Selecting a bride' separately;
maynot be irrelevant to this topic.
Rama Rao Saripalli,MALLB (ID Esveer)
Distinguished Member International Society of Poets
USA, Former Addl.Supdt. of Police, Puri, Orissa.
Posted by: Mr. Rama Rao Saripalli At: 22, Jan 2004 11:09:01 PM IST
Hi Prasanthi ,
Nice article indeed a usefull one.
In fact i feel that people should marry only after they are on their own feet and fully capable of handling responsibilities.
Neelakanta Rao
neelakanta5@yahoo.com
Posted by: Mr. PUNYAPU VENKATA NEELAKANTA RAO RAO At: 13, Jan 2004 4:51:29 PM IST
Hi Prasanthi,
Nice article indeed
What you told is absolutly true
But I have a few issues regarding it
1. Many people are going for marriage just because they are growing older or due to pressure from their elders. We can skip them for this dicussion
2. How many ppl are wise enough to decide all the things in advace
3. Its very good idea to plan all the things like relation with life partner, kids and all those stuff. But if every thing is so perfectly planned then it may be termed as Business rather than a marriage(where bonds and feelings play the major role)
I am not commenting you for thge sake of just commenting my point is , if you plan so miticulously you may get hurt once they start failing and egos problems may come and finally end up in mess
So my views are plan only a few things like how the life partner should be, what are the educational background you are looking for etc. Then you can plan rest of the things after you find your "The person" sitting together either before marriage or after marriage
Finally my point is Marriage is 40% planning and 60% Compromise
These are all just my views
Have a nice time
Suresh
Posted by: Mr. Suresh V At: 3, Sep 2003 11:49:14 AM IST
Well Prasanthi!
The ten suggestions you have given are like ten commandments. Present generation should have some principles before they go for a life partner and your ten commandments are guiding factors for them. Pelli choopula perutho eerojullo inka bridegromms chaala chaala sambhandalu choostunnaru. This is rediculous. This tradition should be avoided and let there be only one pelli choopul and that should be final with positive reply. Before going for pelli choopulu let both sides make eloborate enquiries and it is only after both are satisfied, then only the pellichoopulu should be arranged. There is a proverb.
MARRY IN HASTE AND REPENT IN LEISURE
What do you say? K.Virabhadra Sastri
Posted by: Mr. VIRABHADRA SASTRI KALANADHABHATTA At: 4, Aug 2003 5:05:39 AM IST
BEFORE MARRIAGE ONE SHOULD KNOW WHAT IS LIFE?
life is 'fighting' with the life partner shamelessly.
life is exchanging views with the life partnemr shamelessly.
life is playing games with the life partnmer shamelessly.
THIS IS POSSIBLE ONLY TO THE RICH PEOPLE. I.E. to those who earn money thourgh 'shameless means.'
But earning so much by following social values is impossible. But one has to make it possible. THIS IS ART OF LIVING. THUS THOSE WHO KNOW THE ART OF LIVING ARE ELIGIBLE FOR MARRIAGE.
Posted by: Mr. ram babu ramachandrula At: 19, Jul 2003 9:22:09 PM IST
Successful Marriages make the entire World Happy!
http://www.telugupeople.com/discussion/article.asp?id=170
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 11, Jul 2003 1:01:24 PM IST
SriVardhan garu, in your profile you mentioned yourself as unmarried. why?
Anyway so sorry to listen to your problems. But anyway we have to get along. You can read my article, 'Successful marriages makes life happy'. It may heal you.
Balaji garu, I am going to write a series of articles regarding every aspect of marriage. I will answer your ? there.
NTvoDu garu, within the constraints also we can make our life happy. We just need an iron will to make our personal lives as happy as we aim of professional success. Most of all we need true love for our parnter not disappointment or dissatisfaction.
Miss Mumta, I don't know what to express after reading your statement. But still Marriage is a very sacred ceremony. There is no happiness which can match the pleasure, comfort, joy, what not, we can feel in the company of our life partner, if he/she is our soul mate. But due to various reasons, Married life is becoming hell rather than heaven. It doesn't mean that the 'ceremony' itself is waste.
Thanks to everyone of you who posted your valuable opinions.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 11, Jul 2003 12:59:55 PM IST
hell with the marriages.........why so complications....after all enjoy the life as it is !.....why rigidness
Posted by: Miss mumta Sweet At: 7, Jul 2003 4:30:03 PM IST
hell with the marriages.........why so complications....after all enjoy the life as it is !
Posted by: Miss mumta Sweet At: 7, Jul 2003 4:29:36 PM IST
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