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Articles: My Experience | | My experience as a housewife | |
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| hi all
thanks for your replies..sorry i couldn't get back to any of you ..because guess what?? i got my visa and started working..so got busy..now i am H1..nomore H4 life...i am working..driving..and enjoying life in U.S...I got freedom...
Posted by: Ms. swapna k At: 19, Dec 2004 7:58:39 AM IST
opporunities do not search for you ,you have to search for the opportunity
Posted by: Dr. VARUN G At: 18, Dec 2004 3:51:12 AM IST
I have a wife like you trying to make a career after marriage. I would say you have to discuss with your husband what to do. what ever you do so far you guys are good, make sure it will not disturb your future marriage life. I would say, Just stay home till you have kids. i think this is time for both of you have a kid and enjoy with the kid since your husband has a stable job. if he does not , then it makes more sense you gettinginto a job. good luck. talk to your husband. I would give more preference to family rather than a job. If you can drive and take care of the family in your husband absence , ie. like another paycheck to the family. -- I am here from last 7 years , I have a non driving wife, you can imagine my life. you can email me at pgarapati68@yahoo.com. -- Prasad
Posted by: Mr. Prasad Garapati At: 5, Oct 2004 2:19:57 AM IST
Hi hima,
This is Ajay from india. We have started a web hosting company recently in Andhra Pradesh. We want to develop our business in all ways. We are the resellers of web space and undertakes web designing etc. We need some qualified persons to develop our company. But today we have not enough funds to pay the salaries. We can give you some work on lumsum basis(web designing and flash works etc.) If You r interested to have work please send us your proile to 'info@siddireddy.com'
Regards
Ajay S
Siddireddy Technologies,
8-3-168/m/15,
Sri ram nagar, yousuf guda,
Hyderabad, Andhra pradesh, India.
Posted by: Mr. Ajay Siddireddy At: 26, Apr 2004 2:07:31 PM IST
How many people you know are happy to go to work at 8 (or 7) in the morning and come back at 6 (or 7 or 8) in the evening. Don't you think they'd rather stay home, watch TV or do something else that interests them.
Look at the positive side. You have all the time in the world. Pursue your interests (go to painting or pottery classes - just an example). Do some volunteer work. There are a lot of voluntary non-profit organizations that help people around the globe. Participate. Keep yourself busy.
And btw, not everybody works in the same field as they majored in college. So, think outside the box. Pursue other interests. This is the time to decide what you want to be (we usually don't have a choice before college.. we go with the wind).
All I'm saying is, keep a positive outlook and keep yourself busy. Working for a big company for a salary is not the only way to keep yourself busy.
Regards
Pradeep
Posted by: Pradeep P At: 22, Mar 2004 9:53:32 PM IST
Hi Hima,
Remember that 5 factors control our lives in usa: the spouse/house/car/Bills/kids - it's hard to keep them together - one or other seems to fall apart.
spouse runs away or car breaks down or u get laid off....
That way U r lucky!!! U don't have to worry about these factors.
All we need is - 4 hugs a day for survival / 8 hugs a day for maintenance / 12 hugs a day for growth to lead a happy life!!!
One day Friendship and Love met. Love asked why do you exist when I am here, friendship answered I am
here to leave smile where u leave tears.
So, try to kill ur boredom with ur friends who care for u!!!
Most importantly, if u wanna work - try to get into QA (software Quality Assurance)!!!
Lemme know if u want to learn more about it.
Btw, i'm 29/m/california. Been workin' in California for last 6 yrs as SQA lead.
email me at:
sri1162000@yahoo.com
-sri
Posted by: Mr. srikar p At: 19, Feb 2004 0:29:09 AM IST
Hi,
This is really a problem.I know that so many girls mainly from Andhra have left like this after completing their studies.Leaving for a foreign country is not a small thing.Many problems come up.I am saying because I experienced hell when I went on a business trip itself.I can imagine how immigration would have been.(And I decided not to go again.My cousine came back from USA never to return .)
Being a house wife in India is very diff from that in USA.It is difficult to find friends too .The neighbourhood is diff.Their culture is diff.
I may not be able to help you as I am in India and I dont know much about it there.But try out you will be able to find a job.chadivina daaniki saardhakatha undali .I too think so.
Posted by: Miss shobha cherukupalli At: 19, Oct 2003 4:19:21 PM IST
HI,
I also am in this passing phase.i did my MBA (Finance) in 1998 went to singapore in 1998 have 2 kids now.I am an unsuccessful MBA candidate who is now a housewife with all my dreams crushed. So it is a common position for women who go to foreign countries .So have patience & let us hope that good days will come for us also.
Posted by: Mrs. Srividya At: 4, Oct 2003 9:22:47 AM IST
this world is a temporary place. we belong to a different eternal world. few call it has spiritual world. This is world of unhappiness, frustration, cheating, most of the people find it is ok to live here because we are like conditioned to this dirty environment.
if u have gone through time management books or workshops, they tell how important is Q3 in time graph. Q3 speaks about Not Urgent but Important. This will give u long term results. I better suggest you to take up some spiritual activities which will help you to get ultimate happiness ie you will become a part of spiritual world
regards
Ajay Kumar
Posted by: Mr. ajay kasamajay At: 12, Sep 2003 1:33:04 PM IST
hmmm mca chadivi undakunte godave undedi kadu..atu itu kaani paristithi
Posted by: Mr. mlif amenic At: 28, Aug 2003 6:36:03 AM IST
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