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| SrIkar gaaru..maMchi kONAnni velugulOki techchaaru. voLLu kanabaDElaa ammaayilu baTTalu vEsukuMTE chUDaDaM saMskaarahInaM eMduku avutuMdaMDI? iMka vaaLLu alaa baTTalu vEsukunnadi eMduku? moguDiki maatramE chUpiMchaalsina SarIrabhaagaalu aMdarikI kanabaDElaa baTTalu vEsukuMTE pativrata elaa aMTaamaMDI? saMskaarahInaM anakaMDi.alaa baTTalu vEsukunEdi bajaaru manushulE.
Posted by: Bullibasu Bullibasu At: 1, Aug 2007 5:11:18 AM IST
chaalaa manchi aarTikal raasaaru. kaalEj lO chErchukonTunnappuDE eev Teejing chEsina kurraaLLa paina kriminal kEsulu peDataamani, vaaLLa sarTifikETlu swaadheenam chEsukunTaamani cheppaali.
ee aarTikal antaa baagundi kaanee, rachayitri oka paarSvaanni marachipOyinaTlunnaaru. adi - ' eev ' la paatra.
1)chuDidaar vEsukunnaapuDu paina chunnii vEsukonE rOjulu pOyaayi. chunniini enta mandi ammaayilu ninDugaa kappukunTunnaaru? kappukOvaalani rool lEdu, kaanee alaa kappukOkunDaa, meDaku chunniini vEsukunTuu tirugutunTE kondaru 'samskaaraheenulu' aakarshitulavutaaru. venTapaDataaru. ammaayilu chunniilu lEni chuDiidaarlu, TaiT Tii sharTlu vEsukunnata kaalam kurraaLLu venTapaDutuunE unTaaru.
2) ika aanTiila vishayam - kondaru aanTiilu palchani cheeranu renDanguLaala kindaku kaTTukoni, lEdaa maadhurii diikshit laa veepu chuupistuu blauj vEsukoni shaapingulaku raavaDam rOjoo choostuunE unnaamu. bharta kOsam beDroomlO unDavalasina DrassulO bajaaruku vastE aa pativrata aanTii kooDaa bajaaru Taipu anukonE samskaaraheenulunna dESam manadi.
kaabaTTi kaasta ammaayilaku, aanTiilaku kooDaa ivi arthamayyElaa chEyanDi rachayitrigaaru. appuDE inTarneT fOrams nu varadalaa munchettutunna sel fOn nunDi teesina ee ammaayila, aanTiila fOTOlanu arikaTTavachu, tadvaaraa migataa ammaayilaku kaastayinaa mElu chEkooragaladu.
Posted by: Mr. srikar srikar At: 28, Jul 2007 9:57:37 AM IST
jyOtirmayi gArU,
I supIriyAriTI kAmpleksu anEdi mEl fimEl Difarenses lEkunDAnE vunTundanDi. E supIriyarU vALLa sabArDinETu cheppina mATalu vinarU, vinnA paTTinchukOru.
iha mEl DAminETeD sosaiTI anTE..., manadi pUrtigA mEl DAminETeD sosaiTI kAdanDi. i nO sO menI siTtyuyEshan s vEr mai DAD Tuk in puTs fram mai mAm anD bOt respekT Ich adar. bOt Ar varkimg anD Ich Asks far adars in puTs.
Posted by: Mr. Yagna N At: 28, Jul 2007 4:14:11 AM IST
'eppuDaitE ADavALLu artharAtri onTarigA naDirODDu mIda tiragagalgutArO appuDE mana dESAniki nijamaina swAtantryamu vachchinaTlu' ani cheppina gAndhI gAri viluvalani pramOT chEsE sinimAllOnE hIrO gAru ammAyilani TIj chEsE sInulu peDutunna Taim idi. sinimAla vALLani aDigitE manOhar sanGaTana chUsi sinimAlO peTTAmanTAru.., manOharni aDigitE, sinimA chUsi SrIlakshmini champAnanTaDu. Avunu, idi oka valayam , sAmAjika jADhyam , iT kIps gOying.
AdarSamugA vunDAlsina sachivAlayamlO vudyOginiki herAsmenTlu. tUnikalu kolatala DipArTmenTlO, SUnya viluvalu..., vAriki praButvamu nunchi klIn chiTlu..., kEsu peTTinavALLaki inTA baiTA chivATlu...,
ilA vundi mana AndhrAvani
'manaki chUpinchaDanikErA ammAyilu eksarsaijulu chEsEdi' anE DailAg ki thiyETarlO vijilsu.., thiyETar baiTa, aVe visurlu..., A sinimAla inDasTrI riKarDulu.
ilA cheppukunTU pOtE, mana vyavastha mIda manakE chirAku vachchE paristhiti.
'ekkaDa ADavALLu gauravinchabaDatArO, akkaDa dEvatalu pUjincha baDatAru' ani manuvugAru cheppina mana BAratAvanilO, tanalO arthaBAgamu strIki ichchina Sivuni Alayamu prati grAmamlO vunna mana dharmaBUmilo..., ippuDu.., mUDu yugAla tarvAta..., nAlgO yugamlO..., strI rakshaNa gurinchi AlOchinchE paristiti.
tappu evaridi?
ammAyiladA, abbAyiladA?? lEka purtigA vyavastadA. avunu, purtigA vyavastadE...,
vADi chellini kAmenTu chEstE frenDsuni vEsukuni veLLi koTTi vachchE annaki, dArilO evarannA ammAyi kanipistE,'pOri Balegundi rA'...,
rENuka gAru intavarakU sushuptAvasthalO vunna sAmAjika jADhyAnni velugulOki techchAru. dhanyavAdAlu. pAThaka sOdara sOdarImaNulu manchigA spandinchAru..., kAnI idi chAladu. mana sOdarulu okaru cheppinaTlugA, rENukA gArIlAnTi sAmAjikaspRuha vunna mahiLalu Ekamai inishiyEshan tIsukoni, pOrADAli. induku manandari sahakAram kAvAli. TIpI sAkshigA pramANam chEddAm , aTlIsT , I arTikal chadivinavArainA mArAli.
AlOchinpajEsina rENukagAriki dhanyavAdamulatO.., sama samAjAnni kAnkshistU...
Posted by: Mr. Yagna N At: 28, Jul 2007 3:55:16 AM IST
Jyothirmai garu,
I agree with you. Yes, this is a male dominant society! (Theoritically or logically speaking, in every system, society or even in a family, somebody will automatically become a dominating personality. For example, if you look at families - you will rarely find a couple respecting each other. You will only find dominating husbands or dominating wifes. So, when it comes to society, the same rule applies. If this is not a male dominant society, then, it will automatically becomes a female dominant society - there is no middle path. To reach such level, the society should grow overall - and it may take two or three more generations for India.)
But you also have to agree on few other points:
a) All men are not like this - In fact only 10% of the men or even less in the society cause these type of troubles for women.
b) There must be a solution and there will be a solution for every problem. All we need to do is to think in that direction and come up with some ideas.
Btw, what about using Gandhi giri on these guys? As you said, these men cannot tolerate if a women fights. And these men can go to any extent, if their ego is hurt.
Don't leave the problem as it is - saying that it's of no use or time waste. Please think and do something in that direction.
Posted by: Mr Suresh KVS At: 27, Jul 2007 8:14:16 PM IST
Good Article.
Generally if a girl try to fight it out she will always be branded as radical or overdoing or overly emotional.
Everyone expects the girl to be silent and understanding, though the other person is harrassing or bullying her.
It did not end at college and in the road side only,, it extended to offices too.
In my case, It took me 1 year to complain against my supervisor. That complaint not only creaed -ve impression on me, as all other supervisors are friends to him, that also affected my appraisal.
One more point is,,
Men can never tolerate if a woman questions him. If a woman find fault with him.. rather he expects her to act in a different way... Like,, say... xxx garu.. miru emi anukovaddu anDi.. miru cheppindi wrong ani cheppaDaniki nenu badha paDutunnanu.. so and so words are always expected.
How much ever women shout for equality, how much ever modesty she maintain, she will be victimised at point or other by male chauvinists.
I must say this is a male dominant society.
Posted by: Miss Jyothirmai Gosukonda At: 27, Jul 2007 12:01:49 PM IST
Renuka garu,
You wrote a great article on a really big problem. Though most of the people know about this, I don't see much discussion, writings or media coverage on this subject.
As Malakpet Rowdy said, women themselves should do something about this. Here are few suggestions:
Few like minded women should form like a group - probably you can initiate this with your friends. In your group, have couple of house-wifes - and use their cell phone numbers as the primary numbers for reporting. If you have just one dedicated house-wife who can receive phone call at any time, use her phone number and announce her number in public. Any girl / women can call that number when she is in need. Then, immediately the call receiver will call everybody in your group - so that at least 10 to 15 women can reach the spot and take care of the guys - hand them over to the police.
Btw, don't forget to call the TV reporters also, so that the guys will get a great TV coverage!!
Before getting in to action, you must build up this network of women as big and as strong as possible - and if possible, try to have some women police officers also in your group. If your group is strong, that's it.
Risk factors: The women who participate in this will face a lot of opposition from their own family members - especially from Father or Husband, if they are married.
These women may become targets when they are alone especially at night times etc.
So, make sure the women in this group are strong - both in terms of psychological and physical.
It's really tough job, but somebody has to initiate this. I am sure, there will be enough gentlemen - especially the brothers of these women - who are ready to support these women self-protection groups.
Posted by: Mr Suresh KVS At: 27, Jul 2007 9:16:41 AM IST
I think the women themselves should do something about this .. the parents of the girls should play the key role in this.
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 26, Jul 2007 9:27:07 PM IST
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