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Dowry.....Kanyasulkam......... rendoo oka rakangaa demand-supply type problem unde stage lo start ayi undochchu. meeku nelaki laksha sampaadinche koduku unnaadanukondi. meero sambandham choosaaru. intalopu inko family ki mee koduku ni vaalla ammaayi ki ichchi cheyyaalanipinchindi..atani qualification alaantidi mari!! mimmaalni tama vaipu ki tippaali kaabatti dabbu aasa choopi undochchu .. ilaanti situation loney start ayi untaayi - dowry,kanyasulkam rendoonoo. ofcourse, elaa aalochinchinaa rendoo daarunamainave. ofcourse, ikkada nenu evarinee blame cheyyanu...generalgaa. okko case lo okkollato samasya. Monnaamadhya love marriage chesukunnaa naa snehituraalu naato anindi - 'naaku joduku pudite koti katnam adugutaa!' ani. paigaa pakkane koorchunna inko abbaayito anindi - 'needi love marriage kaabatti bad luc...katnam raadu' ani. alaa undi maanavula attitude!!!! em chestaam?? adi vaallu perigina paristhitulni batti untundi. ippudue naku maa amma pelli chestaa anindi anukondi...naaku katnam ante istam ledu..vachce vaaru andaroo katnam adugutunnaaru anukondi..nenu 'be a rebel!' ani aravochchu. kaani amma ki worry kadaa...... so, even though she herself hates dowry, may be she will be forced to pay. Buddhi adige vaallaki undaali anukondi. endukante inkaa 2006 lo koodaa 'AMMAAYI PELLI' annadi gundela meedha kumpate.... manam enta abhyudayangaa maatlaadinaa koodaa adi nijam. paiki ento modern gaa kanipinche ammaayilu endaroo ee vishayaanikochce sariki chaadastanagaa maatlaadaadadam nenu swayam gaa choostunnaa. ENDUKU? ante...cant say. Maarpu anedi raavaalante mookummadi vaseekaranam edo nerchukuni raavaalsinde meeroo, nenoo !!!! Marriage is always a pain more for a woman than a man.....adi 99% mandi oppukokapovachchu kaani nijam. baadhyatalu untaayi kadaa magavaadiki adee idee ani kaburlu cheppochchu kaani....paiki kanipinchinaa kanipinchani rakam srama 'WIFE' paatradi. dabbulichchi maree sukham vadulukuntunnaa O maguvaa....johaar!

Posted by: Ms. Sowmya V.B. At: 16, Apr 2006 11:58:38 AM IST

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Posted by: Mr. sreedhar pavitran At: 13, Feb 2005 5:40:51 PM IST

if u have any hatred towards men u should decrease that ,do u remember there was times when the groom did not demand any dowry ppl used to see as if he or his family has a problem this system went to that extent. i agree that dowry is a bad thing but it has to be decreased from the society it self and it cant be done in a day or 2.now a days girls are demanding more from boys like edu shld be settled etc.and what abt the gold which shld be given to girl from boy.are they going to lose it. write ur articles hating system not particular jathi.coz all are in the system even if they dont want to be.

Posted by: Mr. Siva Rama Krishna Sunkara At: 11, Jun 2003 1:18:37 PM IST

Rajesh garu, mee "ha ha" ni yelaa artham chesukovaalo teliyaledu. Anduke response ivvaali kaabatti, "Hi Hi...." antunnaanu. maremi anukokandi.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 13, Dec 2002 9:52:15 AM IST

Unfortunately everyone perceives me as "Man Hater". It is not so. Coming to KanyaSulkam, I mentioned that also. From whatever side we think, sufferers are girls. I wish you apply the same suggestion to yourself. Think from girls' point of view. Coming to suspicion, those who suspects lose a good guy. What is there for the guy to feel for? If we do good, first everyone suspects us. If we have confidence on our morals and principles, why should we bother about someone? This is only a "Saaku" for the male. If you are truly determined to marry without dowry, you can.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 12, Dec 2002 8:55:28 AM IST

yevari gurinchi ayinaa manchi korukovaalani annaaru. manche korukunnanu nenu koodaa, kaakapote manaku manchi dorikinaa sweekarinchaalante, manchi hrudayam kaavaali. kaabatti adi yerpade varaku, dorakaddu annaanu. magavaallalo manchi maarpune korukunnaanu. Evariko keedu jarigite naaku orige melu, onakoode prayojanam yemi untundi? I do not have such a mean mentality.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 5, Oct 2002 2:02:31 PM IST

"Manchi" Murali gaariki, Nenu actual gaa ika TP lo discussions start cheyakoodadu and vacche vaatillo participate cheyakoodadu ani decide chesukunnaanu. kaani mee comment chadiviaaka, idokkati raasi muginchaalanipistundi. Mundugaa, I really admire you for raising to such great heights and achieving with hardwork. And I really like people who read books.(This doesn't mean that I don't like people who doesn't read books). Nenu chalam gaari books chadavaledu. aayana raasaarani cheppina quote chadivaanu. adi true anipinchi mention chesaanu. Ofcourse readers andaroo naa gurinchi yemanukuntunnaaro naaku teleedu. But somehow or other, I am very much angry on males. meere aalochinchandi. changes vastunnaayi kaadananu. Basic Male Ego and a soft corner towards ladies anedi magavaallalo koddo goppo untundi. Adi naaku nacchadu. Why should males be like that anipistundi? Anduke naaku chinnapatinunchi (various incidents paperslo chadivi, chuttu pakkala choosinavi etc.,), I wish to explain a woman's heart and let the male know about how a female thinks and I wished to make them be sensitive towards the feelings of women. Ika naa article chadivi alaa respond ayyaanani annaaru. Can you please mention me which lines made you respond like that? mari meeru alaa raaste aadavaalla gurinchi naakemanipinchaali. anduvalle alaa personal gaa raasaanu kopam vacchi. poni sufferers % ni meeru cheppagalaraa? ippatiki yenta mandi magavaallu aadavaallatho, vaalla feelings to aadukovatledu? aadavaallu yedi chesinaa guddigaa support cheyamani nenu ananu. kaani "Purushaahankaaram" to comments cheyakoodadu ani naa feeling. Actual gaa I wish for a world where men and women both behave as good friends and men should stop viewing women as "Sex" symbols. Ika meeru naaku icchina suggestions "How to post a topic" anedaaniki Thanks. In fact, I have lot more articles and stories. But I kept them with me only. To open them only after few months and to weigh them. If you have enough time, you read my other articles and give feedback. But before reading my articles, one request. Read them as a human(not as a male) and read them empathizing with a girl who wants to express her feelings to men according to her experiences or feelings whatsoever. Then only comment. with regards, Prasanthi.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 5, Oct 2002 2:00:08 PM IST

This is exclusively written for prasanthi garu and giving READING RIGHTS only to her(like giving copy rights to a book) hello prasanthi garu , by mistake topic madhyalone "Enter" key press cheyatam valana naa topic double time post ayindandi ...happened by mistake.. b'cos of time constraints ... today i ristrict myself to few sentences... choodandi ... mana pedda vaallu chaalaa rojula mundu emani neethi cheppevaallu ante EVARO CHEPPINDHI VINI NAMMAKU(don't beleive) CHOOSINAPPUDE NAMMU(beleive) ani ...kaala kramena daanni "CHOOSEDHI ANTHAA NIJAM KAADHU , CHOODANIDHI ANTHAA ABADDAM KAADHU" ani modify chesaaru.. endukante naa opinions choosi meeru nenu edo sthree(lady)dweshi(who hates) ni ani ededo voohinchesukuni personal attack try chesaaru...(meeru raasindhi mee wife ki choopandi, meeru anubhavistaaru ...inkaa chaalaa chaalaa statements raasaaru last mail lo ) oka chinna request andee ... oka site lo edainaa article pettaalanukunnappudu ONE SIDED gaa (meeru lady ainantha maatraana gents ni raakshasulugaa chitreeka rinchatam ...ladies ni MAHAA LAKSHMI laagaa choopadam) maatlaadatam thagadhu .. coin ki double side think cheyaali ...appude meeru manchi CRITIC anipinchukuntaaru meeru one sided gaa raasindhi chadivina ladies AAVESAM THECHESUKUNI VUDYAMAALU CHESESTAARANI KAADHU nenu cheppatam ... evarainaa manchi - chedu , kalimi-lemi, anuraagam-dwesham, prema-paga ...etc etc anni nava rasaalu kalisina topic ni chadivina tharvaatha THINK chestaaru ...one sided gaa raasesaaranukondi andhulo navarasaallo okka rasam maatram vuntundi ...daanni chadhivi visukkuntaaru.. ika meeru alaa raasaaru kaabatti nenu koodaa maa maga vaalla tharapuna one sided gaa raayaalsi vachindhi ... daaanni chadivi meeru konni diologues cheppaaru 1) meeru village lo vaalla laagaa think cheyatam ledhu , city vaalla laagaa think chestunaaru 2) Air conditioned room lo koorchuni aalochinche vaallaki emi thelustaayi vishayaalu ani ...abbo inkaa chaalaa chaalaa ...direct gaa naa meedha baanam ekkupettaaru ... SITE LO DIFFERENT TOPICS POST CHESE VYAKTHIKI VUNDAKOODANI LAKSHANAM AAVESAM ...VUNDAVALASINADHI AALOCHANA ... BiPC students DISSECTION chestaaru kadhaa ! alaage manam post chestunna topic ni dissection cheyaali ... doctors chestaaru kadhaa ..deadbody ni POSTMORTAM alaage PREMORTAM cheyaali topic ni, when writing topic in site ...before we post we should analyse... prasanthi gaaroo ,ika naa meeda vaakbaanaalu sandinchaaru kadaa,, aaa vishayaniki vaste ...nenu tirupati daggara oka chinna village nundi oka ordinary family nundi vachaanu ...kerosine lanter lo chadivaanu ...upto 5th chintha chettu krinda chadivaanu ...aaa tharvaatha TPT lo college ,tharavatha BTech,MTech ...ofcourse devudi daya + naa hard work valana ,first day of campus recruitment job vachi eeroju (oka well settled job vachindhi kaabatti) A/C lo koorchuni raastoo vundochu ...kaanee eeroju A/C lo vunnantha maatraana ..kasta,nastaalu theliyani vaanni maatram kaadhu ... nenu cheppe point okkati (meeru koodaa support chestaarulendi) MONEY SHOULD GIVE LUXURIES BUT SHOULDN'T CHANGE THE STATUS OF THE MIND ....and even i earn "X" lacs per anum , i am still murali only .. naaku idi first time andee oka topic site lo post cheyatam ...ofcourse ide last koodaa kaavachu .... oka person post chesina topic chadivesi ventane aaa vyakthi meeda negative opinion form chesukuni attack ki digakoodadhu ...adi aavesaparula lakshanam ...manam (educated people)generallised gaa think cheyaali ... just for example ..DEVADAS cinemalo ANR thaagi thaagi aaduthaadu ...ante ANR is a drunken??NO, he never smels it even ... old movies lo suryakantham lady villain muppa thippalu pedutundi kodallani ....but aame entha manchi aavido thelusaa??(i read lot and lot of things about her) cinemaalu entandee examples antaaremo ... antha endukandee... CHALAM books chadivuntaaranukuntaanu meeru .. (anukovadamenti ...khachithamgaa chadivaaru...naaku thelusu)athani books indepth gaa chadavani vaallaku athanu ladies ni support chesevaadani ,purusha dweshi ani voohallo anukovachu... nenu koodaa chaalaa rakaala books chadivaanu last december lo STHREE(book by chalam)chadivaanu ...andulo ladies ni entha support chestaaro antha -ve points koodaa cheppaaru ...MUSINGS chadivaanu ...etc vijayaaniki aidu metlu(to know the secret of success), vennello aadapilla(to know silly silly bets ),ladies hostel(to know some thing about ladies hostel),kasanova(to know about a person who is an introvert ),raahikaa swaanthanam(to know boothu srungaaram ),thulasidalam(to know about existance of devils and kshudra powers)...abbo oka chaanthaadu antha vundhilendi list... meeku thelise vuntundhi ...writers koodaa A/C room lo koorchune raastaaru ani ..antha maatraanaa vaallu only "aanadham" maatram vunna books raayaru ... meeru koodaa naluguru mechetattu (prasing) paduguriki nachetattu(like chesevidam gaa) oka topic ni site lo post chesetappudu(mundhugaa) baagaa time theesukondi(Please baagaa time theesukondi)topic gurinchi all 360 degrees lo +ve things , -ve things ...think chesi oka rough note prepare chesi chadivi inkaa add cheyavalasinavi add chesi , delete cheyaalsinavi delete chesi oka SAMPOORNATHA chekooraaka post cheyandi ... tamil director SANKAR cinemaalu choosi vuntaaru kadhaa (nenu athani direction lo vachina anni coosaanulendi .. aventi kharma weekly oka cinema choostaamu friends tho kalisi theatre lo)....athani cinemaalu once in a year or once in 2 years vastaayi ...inthavaraku anni sensational,super,duper hits..kaaranam ...PAKKA planning, story ,screenplay ....each and everything pakka ... so alaa vundaali meeru post chese topics koodaa ...topic baagaa raayandi ...neat editing cheyandi ...appudu meeru meekantoo oka manchi critic gaa site viewers lo gurthimpu pondhuthaaru ...meeke enduku chepthunananu ante MEERU YEE SITE LO CHAALAA CHAALAA TOPICS POST CHESAARU kaabatti inkaa chestaaru kaabatti ..(ofcourse nenu migilina mee topics chadavaledhu .so migilina topics elaa raasaaro theliyadhu) inkaa chaalaa chaalaa raayaalani vundhi kaanee time ledhu ...lunch break (1pm to 2pm)lo time dorikithey raastunnaanu ... emandee manalo mana maata (evvarikee cheppakandi ...promise cheyandi...)nenu idanthaa raastunnadhi meeku edo neethulu cheppestunnaanani , advice chesestunananani maatram anukokandi please ...manasulo thochindi anthaa cheppeyaalanipinchidi ...cheppestunnaanu ...hope you take them in +ve way ... ika mana actual topic DOWRY gurinchi ika THEGIPOYE VARAKU LAAGATAM ISTAM ledhu (ilaa anatam INABILITY TO COMPETE ani maatram anukokandi). meeru koodaa cheppesaaru "nenu pattina kondelu ki moode kaallu "annattu nenu vaadistunananani...mari mee topic chadivaaka thappaledhu (i was forced to write against my will )...PRATHI MANISHI LONU IDDARU MANUSHULU VUNTAARU ani chepparu oka famous book lo writer..okkadu +ve side inkokkadu -ve side(in the same human being) manishini nadipistaaru ...andulo evaru dominate cheste alaa behave chestaarata manushulu ...oka book lo chadivaanu ...alaage naalo koodaa iddaru murali (lu) vunnaaru ...mee topic chadivinappudu naalo vunna rendava(second)murali dominate chesaadu ...anthe kaanee nenu (first murali) manchi vaadine nandee baaboo ...same applies to YOU too and each and everybody on earth ... (nannu nenu manchi vaani ani cheppesukuni mee daggara marks kotteyaalani anukuntunananani maatram anukokandi ...endukante nenevaro meeku theliyadhu meeru evaro naaku theliyadhu ...so mee daggara marks kotti nenemi chesukogalanu cheppandi) manam eduti vaari gurinchi edainaa devunni korinatlu aithey manchi jaragaalani koraali...chedu jaragaalani korakoodadu andee ...meeru mee topic ending lo "pelli kaani abbaayilaku gaddu rojulu raavaali" ani ...abbo inkaa evevo raasaaru ...thappu kadhaa alaa raaayatam "maga vaallaku katnam theesukokoodadhu ane ideas vachetatlu cheyi" ani kori vunte baagundedhi kadhaa??(okkasaari think cheyandi) ... baagaa think chesi reply ivvandi ... Murali Mohan .T

Posted by: Mr. Murali Mohan T At: 30, Sep 2002 2:55:24 PM IST

Murali Mohan garu, Mundugaa "Very bad" gurinchi. mee "Very Very Bad" usage of words regarding females tattukoleka alaa respond kaavaalsochindi. How do you think that with such an abusing words regarding a position of "Wife" can be withstanded? How can you expect any respect with tolerance? I lost my patience. "Kaalikeste medaki , medakeste kaalukeenaa". meeru ringulo bongaramlaa mee maatalne mallee mallee cheptunnaaru. Contradiction yemi ledu. Raachi Rampaana Pettakapoyinaa(after marriage), being particular about Dowry and other related issues to get married. Mottaaniki mee saaraamsam: Katnam ivvakapote , bhaarya tine tindi daggarnunchi, annee meeku nashtaalu. kaanee meeru(magavaallu) ilaa feel avutunnaa(neecham gaa), aadavaallu maatram mahadaanandam gaa meeku seva(chaakiri ki konchem polished padam) cheyaalaa? TV serials etc., gatraa, TV only aadavaalle choostaaru, paapam magavaallu choodaru. Bharta yevari gurinchi aalochistaadu annaaru, correcte nandi, pellam pillala gurinche paapam. kaanee katnam tekapote, kaneesam oka manishi gaa koodaa choodalerugaa? Villages ninche vocchaaremo gaani, Villages vishayaala gurinchi pattinchukokapovacchu. vaadinchukovadam kosam kaakundaa, oka saari, local news daily chadavandi meeke telustundi. AAdadi(tama kooturu) bhartato sukhapadaali ante, Dowry, Fridge, Car etc., etc., muttacheppu kovaali. Lekapote Sukham + Santhosham rendu undavani mee uddesyam. Bhartalake, vaari santhoshaaniki ani aalochinchaali annaaru. mari mee magavaallu koodaa, bhaaryake aame santhosha padutundi ani yenduku anukokoodadu? putti perigi aataa paataa lekundaa life end avadam gurinchi. "Bharya" ante chaaaaalaaaaaa gooooooooppa abhipraaaaaaayaalunde magavaallani chesukovadam kannaa, vontarigaa migilipovadamlo nashtamemi ledu lendi.(unte ginte ontari aadavaalla patla "konta mandi" mee magavaalle behave chese paddatula valla tappite) Ika .coms , websites kaakapote, paper ads yedaithe yemi lendi. aadavaallu(girls or their parents who are giving the ads) yenduku alaa property gurinchi mention cheyaalsi vastundi ante, present situation alaa undi kaabatti. mee magavaallandaru "Saakulu" choopadam maanesi "Katnam + Laanchanaalu" teesukokundaa undandi. alaanti TREND okati create avute chooddaam inta property share undani mention chestaaremo!!!! Time sangathi atunchithe, naaku maatram mee(ikkada meeru , Murali Mohan garu) "Gramphone record" answers, argument sake comments chadavaalanna kutoohalamemi ledi. Because this is not a positive discussion. So take your own time. No problem. One request: Oka saari paste chesina comments ni mallee mallee paste cheyakandi. swaamee EDU KONDALA VAADAA.. VENKATA RAMANAA ... AAPADA MROKKULA VAADAA ... ANAADA RAKSHAKAA... EKKADUNNAAV SWAAMIIII.... VACHI EEE ABBAAYILA ARTHAM LENI PURUSHAAHAMKAARAM , MALE EGO , ANE BANDHANAMULA NUNDI VIMUKTHI CHEYANDI ...IVIYE NAA VINNAPAMULU. KALLU MOOSUKUPOYI, LEDAA NETTIKEKKI UNNA, NELA MEEDA NILABADANI EE PURUSHAPUNGAVULAKU, MEMU CHEPPEDE CORRECT ANE DHIKKAARA DHORANI NUNCHI VIMUKTHI KALIGINCHI BROADMINDEDNESS NI PRASAADIMCHU TANDRI. SEEGRAMEVA YEE PELLIKAANI ABBAAYILANDARIKEE GADDU ROJULU PRAAPTIRASU...... AMMAAYILANDARU "KATNAM" ICHINAA, TEESUKUNNAA, PELLI CHESUKOMU ANI BHEESHMINCHUKUNE ROJULU PRAPTIRASTU. DABBU PETTI VANTA VAGAIRAA KONUKKOVADAANIKI , ATUVANTI DOURBHAAGYA PARISTITULLO UNDE AMMAAYILE(SERVANT MAIDS AND PRSOTITUTES) UNDAKOODADU. KALLU TERUCHUKUNNAAKA , TAPPU TELISOCHI LEMPALESUKUNNAAKA KALYAANAPRAAPTIRASTU ...SAKAKALA AYURAAROGYA ASTAISWARYAALU SIDDIRASTU ...

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 29, Sep 2002 1:53:59 AM IST

hi prasanthi garu , Oh god ...what a promt reply ... enti daily browsing centre ki vastaaraa enti ?? leka intlo net vundhaa leka office nundi post chestunanaraa ?? anyway eeroju satuday kadhaa ...holiday ...koncham bore gaa vunte office ki vachaanu ... ninna answer ichaamu kadhaa!! okasaari check cheddaam ante.. appude reply vundhi nammalekapothunnaanandi (courtesy: MARGADARSI CHITS add comes in E-TV) eeroju mee profile choosaanu ... abbo inkaa vandala ,vela, lakshala koddi topics yee website lo post chesinattunnaaru .. entha opikandee baaboo ... tirupati lo chadivinattunnaaru .... oh venkateswara swami paadaala chentha ..great ...andarikee avakaasam vastundhaa ...u r lucky ... O.K kaanee ika mana topic ki vaddaam ... MEE POINT: Meeku chaalaa pedda answer ivvaali. MY OPINION: nenu koodaa monday nundi busy gaa vuntaanemo ...project integration work chesi client ki pampaali ...eeroju aithey theerikagaa answer ivvagalanu. ..repu maralaa cricket match vundhi ...busy busy UR POINT: choodabote saametalu baagaa vocchu laagaa undi. kaabatti mee anta kaakapoyinaa, mee moosalone saamethalni use chestaanu. MY OPINION: mee laagaa BSC , MSC chesina avallakaithey literature lo pattu vundochemo ...maaku antha samethalu raavulendi ..technical people kadhaa ... UR POINT: "Aaliki annam pedite ooriki upakaaram chesinattaa?" emitandi, magavaallu bharya vochi edo mee sommu tinestundani enduku feel avutaaru? MY OPINION: bharya(wife) edo maa sommu thinestondani memu feel avuthunnnaam ani meeru claim chesaaru kadhaa ??? O.K mari meeremi thakkuva thinnattu ?? bhartha(husband) edo meeru theesukostunna sommu (DOWRY)anthaa thanu okkade THISTA VESUKUNI thinestunnaattlu, meeru CHILLI GAVVA koodaa andulo use cheyakundaa MADI KATTUKUNI koorchunnattlu chebuthaarenti ?? meeru(ladies) okka paisaa koodaa katnam ivvakundaa pelli chesukovaali anukuntunnaaru .meeru katnam iste evaro MUKKU , MUKHAM theliyani vaadiki istunnattlu feel avuthunnaaru ... sare meeru antunnadi,anukuntunnadhi correct anukundaam (just for a moment )... mari meeru alaa think chestunnappudu ....memu(gents) maatram memu sampaadinchina(maa job salary) tho evarino enduku voorake koorchobetti thindi pettaali ... memu koodaa jobs chestaamu antaaremo ...cheyandi ...money earn chesi ...money save chesi property ni increase cheyandi ...meeke(wife&husband) kadhaa vuntundhi... UR POINT: meeku chesi pette panlaku lekka evarainaa kattagalaraa? MY OPINION: bhartha(husband) ki annam vandi pettadam, illu chakkapettukovatam ...ilaanti panulanu koodaa ladies edo evariko chaakiree chestunnattu endhuku feel avuthunnaaro naaku assalu artham kaavatam ledhu... bayata samaajaaniki(soceity ki ) cheppukotaaniki maatram MOGUDU ane oka praani mee daggara padi vundaalaa enti mee (ladies) vuddesyam(opinion) ...alaa meeru anukunte ika pelli ane daanike meaning ledhu... UR POINT : udyogam chese aadavaalla sangatemiti? concession istaaraa? meeru dabbulu maatrame sampaayistaaru, mari aadavaallu anni panlu chestaaru. MY OPINION: hello madam agaroo , the things have been changed now ...ammaayi job chestu vunte abbaayilu dowry adagatam ledhu ... "meeru baddu sampaayistaaru memu anni panulu chestaamu" ane dilogue maati maatikee chepthunnaaru ...emitandee ladies anthagaa iraga chesestunna panulu ......vudayam tiffin cheyatam ...O.K tiffin chestunnaaaaru memu(gents) oppukuntunnaamu ...mari maaku maatram petti meeru(ladies) UPAVAASAM(fasting) vuntunnaaraa ..enti PEEKALADAAKAA thini TV lo vache serials choosi GURRU PETTI nidrapothunnaaru ..."gents job maatram chestunanaru " ani claim chestunnaaru ...okasaari ladies manasupetti aalochinchandi ...brain work kastamaa ...physical work kastamaa ...office lo entha pressures , mental tensions vuntaayo job chese ladies ku maatram thelustundhi ..andarikee theliyadhu ...ladies BAAVILO KAPPALU laagaa think cheyatam maanaali ...bayata prapancham loki vachi mana CHANDRA BABU NAIDU cheppinattu JANA JEEVANA SRAVANTHI LO KALAVANDI ...practical gaa think cheyandi... meeru(ladies) chepthunnaaru kadhaa "MEMU WORK CHESTUNNAAM MEMU WORK CHESTUNNAAM" ani aaaa thokkulo work cheyatam 10% salary padeste maaku(gents ku) servants chesipedathaaru ...ika PELLAAM, PELLI anevi endhuku ... ika SUKHAALU ponduthunnaaru ani emainaa claim chestaaraa ...assalu aaa maataku artham ledhu ...OKKA CHETHITHO CLAP KOTTALEMU i mean to say ...sukham anedhi okaru ichedhi okaru theesukunedhi kaadhu ...adi iddarikee sambandinchinadhi ...peddalu oka saametha chebuthaaru YEE VOORIKI AAVOORU ENTHA DOORAMO AAA VOORIKI YEEVOORU ANTHE DOORAM that is true ...just saareeraka sukhaala kosam(just for physical needs) abbaayilu pelli chesukuntunnaaru ani koodaa claim cheyataaniki chance ledhu ...endukante just aa sukham kaavaalante SAVAALAKSHA (even i don't know the meaning of savalaksha...i hope people use this just name sake) maargaalu(ways) vuntaayi ...ofcourse SAFE ways too ... UR POINT: "bharyalu avi kaavaali ivi kaavaali ani adagakoodadu". Ridiculous. Utter ridiculous. enta mandi bhaaryalu adugutaarandi mee oohalo? I really hate this sentence. MY OPINION: haa haa haaaa...enti ridiculous?? bhaaryalu bharthalani emi adagakoodadhu ani cheppatam ledhu memu ...thaahathaku minchi koravaddu antunanamu ...MEERU MAMMULNI LUXURIES ADAGANDI MEMU MIMMALNI KATNAM ADUGUTHAAM chelluku chellu ...meeru luxuries adagatam thappu kaadu ani meeru ante memu katnam adagatam assalu ,mummaatikee thappu kaadhu... meeku (ladies ki), mana would-be ki manam money istunanam ane aalochana ledhu ... sare ...memu(gents) sampaadinchinadhi mee kosam anukundaam .... KOORCHUNI THINTE KONDALU AINAA KARIGIPOTHAAYI .....PADAVAKU CHINNA CHILLU (hole)PADINAA CHAALU MUNIGIPOVATAANIKI ...memu sampaadinchedi KONDA (OR) PADAVA denithonainaa polchukondi(compare)... ladies ni padavaku vunna CHILLU (hole) laagaa polchukondi ********************************************* VERY IMPORTANT: ainaa naaku theliyaka aduguthaanu ...evaraduguthunnaarandee ammaayi vaalla parents ni dowry ivvamani ... vaalle vastunnaaru ...dowry entha kaavaali morro antunnaaru...if i am not wrong ...pelli choopulu anevi first ladies side nundi start avuthaayi .ammaayi side vaallu abbaayi vaalla intiki velthaaru ... vellina vaallu velli meeku entha katnam kaavaali ani aduguthaaru ...incase vaddu annaaru anukondi ABBAAYILO EDO LOPAM anukuntaaru ....MANCHIKI POTHE CHEDU EDURAINDHI annattu ... just oka practical exapmle theesukondi road meeda veluthoo vunte evado car lo(say lancer) lo mee daggariki vachi aaa car ni 10000 rupees(aksharaalaa padivelu roopaayalu) ki ichestaanante konestaaraa ??.... vaadu ekkado dongathanam chesi kottesi (steal) meeku ammestunnaaru anukuntaaru ...thokkulodhi maximum ante 10 years mana daggara vunde car gurinchi alaa think chestaarey ..mari oka jeevitha kaalam thama koothuritho kalasi vundaalsina abbaayi NAAKU KATNAM VADDU ante ika aaa parents ki elaanti aalochanalu vastaayo (due to sensor problems i don't write here)...veellu (ammaayi parents) katnam iche aalochanalo vunnaarandee ...so memu (abbaaayilu)theesukovaali thappadhu ... anthe kaakundaa mari koncham andam, manchi job, manchi family back ground vunna abbaayialaku vunde problems anthaa inthaa kaadhu ...cheppanalavi kaadhu ... BELLAM CHUTTOO EEGALU annattu musurukuntaaru MEMU EKKUVA ISTAAM MEMU EKKUVA ISTAAM antoo velampaata(auction)vesesukuni kottesukuntaaru ammaayiala parents ...inkaa baagaa cheppaalante KAACHINA CHETTUKE RAALLA DEBBALU annattu vuntundhi alaanti abaayiala paristhithi... emi cheyaalo thochaka ... venakatikokadu NEE EDAMA CHEYI (left hand) THEEYI NAA PURRA CHEYI(left hand) PEDATHAANU annaadata ...alaa vundhi ...amamayilu cheppedhi ... oh okasaari GEMINI TV lo PELLI PANDIRI ane program vastundhi choodandi ...andulo koodaa dowry gurinchi discussion vastundhi... ika websites gurinchi cheppaalante pellisandadi.com etc etc choodandi ...seacrh profiles lo fields select chesi "females " kosam search cheyandi details PROPERTY SHARE 10LACS ....PROPERTY SHARE 20 LACS ani vuntundhi ...so ammaayilu evvaraithey vaalla profiles site lo pedathaaro vaallu indirect gaa MEMU INTHA MONEY IVVAGALAM ANI BAAHAATAM GAA CHEPPUKUNTUNANARU... oka saametha thelusaa PADUGURAADU MAATA PAADIAYI DHARAJELLU ...so ammaayilu ekkuva mandhi istaamo istaamo theesukondo theesukondo money antunanaru ...chaalaa rare gaa memu ivvam memu ivvam antunnaaru (lopala ivvaalani ,manchi mogunni kotteyaalani vunnaa paiki maatram MEKA VANNE PULLULU antaare alaagaa NIVVURU KAPPINA NIPPU antaare alaagaa MEKAPOTHU GAAMBHEERYAM pradarsistoo vuntaaru... so meeru change theesukuraavaalasindhi gents lo kaadhu ladies maarandi ...tharvaatha gents lo maarpu theesukuraavaalani try cheyandi...anthe ika ammaayilu korkelu vishayam aithey ... naaku MTech/MBBS chesina,open minded , handsome , well settled, same cast , own house , city lo vunna abbaayi kaavaali daddy ...antaaru 20 lacs dowry ainaa parvaaledhu ani intlo antaaru... PILLI GADDAANIKI KOODAA JAPAN BLADE annattu konthamandhi amamayila korikalithey abbo inkaa bhale gaa vuntaayi.... bayata maatram abbaayilaki katnaalu ivvakoodadhu ani lectures istaaru ...adi ammaayila nature .... incase dowry ivvanu ani giri geesukuni(by drawing boundary) koorchunnaare anukondi GAALILO DEEPAM PETTI ,DEVUDAA NEEDE BHAARAM annattu vuntundi ...alaanti vaaraku maroka janma lo ainaa pelli avuthundo aa devudike theliyaali ... alaa jarigindhi ante VAALLA POORVA JANMA SUKRUTHAM ...anthe oka vela pelli aina tharvaatha pillalu putti thama kodukki pelli cheyaalsina time vachinappudu ...i mean ATTHA(mother-in-law) post theesukuntunnappudainaa sakramam gaa chestaaraa ante ooohooooo ...no .... ODA(boat) EKKINANTHA VARAKU ODA MALLANNAA ,ODA DIGINA THARVAATHA "BODI" MALLANNAAA ane rakaalu ...i mean ...raaboye kodalini RAACHI RAMPAANA PEDATHAARU inkaa baagaa cheppaalante YE YENDAKU AAA GODUGU PADATHAARU yeee aaadavaallu...abbo endukuley ...edainaa vaallake chellu... CHEPPEDHI SREERANGA NEETHULU DOOREDHI DOMMARA GUDISELO annattu vuntundhi annamaata vaallu chese panulu ******************************************** UR POINT : eppdu kaanee, ye stree kaanee, kutumbamloni migataa andari avasaaraalu teerchaake, tana sonta avasaraala gurinchi aalochistundi. MY OPINION: abbabbabba .. oh !!! what a great conclusion... mari maga vaallu maatram migilina intlo vaalla avasaraalu harinchi vesi thama avasaraalu maatram theerchesukuntunnaaraa ?? noru theriste aadavaallu oka chelligaa , thalligaa bhaaryagaa anni places lo vuntoo andarikee anni chesipeduthundhi ani lecture istaaaru ...mari gents oka annagaa,naannagaa,bhartha gaa anni avasaraalu theerchadam ledhaa ...abbo vaallu chesindhi maatram goppa vere vaallu chesindhi maatram BOODIDALO POSINA PANNEERU or in other words ADAVI KAASINA VENNELA NETHI BEERAKAAYA LO NEYI ENTHA VUNDHO MEERU(ladies) CHEPPE MAATALLO NIJAM ANTHA VUNDHI UR POINT: meere chepparu gaa avasaramaithe parents ni adigi testundi ani, mari munde mutta cheppadam endukantaa? adi koodaa anta dabbu lekapote pelle kudarakapovadam endukantaa? MY OPINION: i have given vivid picture of the actual idea behind giving and taking dowry... again here i am saying that ... take a family for example consists of 4 members . father -) F mother -) M daughter -) D son -) S and the family has "X" rupees of fixed property ..O.K ... ippudu parents (F&M) vaalla pillalaki iddarikee 50% each ivvaali anukunnaaru anukondi ...ippati laagaa ammaayiki 50% property share ivvaalani venukati rojullo Govt rools levu (thelise vuntundi andarikee)..but appati parents voluntarily ichevaaru ... ammaayi pelliki ammaayiki property share ivvaalani parents anukunnaaranukondi ...enduku anukuntaaru ...pelli tharvaatha thama koothuru & alludu vaaalllaki elaanti money related problems raakoodadhu ...thama koothuru kanta thadi pettukuni ammagaari intiki raakoodadhu ani ...appudu fixed property lo kontha ainaa istaaru or land alaage kodukki vunchi vaallu earn cheina money ni istaaru ...ippudu koodaa alaage chestunnaaru ...ika laanchanaalu antaaraa intiki kaavalasina chinnaa chithakaa saamaanlu , double cots,fridge,colour TV , car etc avanni koniche vaaru (anni konistaaru ani kaaadhu vaalla vaalla status nu batti koddo goppo konistaaru) endhuku ...thama koothuru pelli aina modatlo sukham gaa vundaalani ...incase alludiki bike or car konichaarani koodaa anukundaam ... endhuku ammaayini alludu shikaaruki theesukellaali vaalla madhya bonds strong kaavaalani ...choodandi vaallu(mana ancestors) ivannee plain mind tho thama koothuru , thama alludu , MANA ane dhorani vunchukuni anni chesavaallu ... ade ippudu same things chestunnaaru ...but yee pelli kaani ammaayilu vunnaare vaallu KULLI POYINA AALOCHANALATHO MIND PAADU CHESUKUNTUNNAARU ...laanchanaalu endhukivvatam?? anedhi oka Qn ... bike or car endhuku abbaayiki konivvatam ??? ane Qn marokkati ...annee thokkulo Qns... enti ammaayila parents iche mancham meeda abbaayi okkade padukuntunnaadaa ?? amamayi koodaa dorluthondhigaa ...TV abbaayi okkade choostunnaadaa ...paapam office ki velithey ye evening raatro vastaadu ...intlo vunna oka koppu(ammaayi) chuttu prakkala vunna ammalakkalandaritho(inkaa padi koppulu cheri) discuss chestoo maree TV choostaaru ika car lo SHIKAARLU korika mari vundane vundhi ...ika entammaa ?? meeru(ladies) maakedo ICHESTUNNAAM ICHESTUNNAAM ani gonthuchinchukuntunnaaru...mee gonthule bonguru pothaayi ...SPRUHA THAPPI PADIPOTHAAARU ...appudainaa meme konni neellu mee mukhaana kotti lepaali... the only difference is paatha vaallu manchi manasutho pillalaku ichevaaru ...apppudu ammaayilu koodaa ippati vaalla laagaa -ve ideas pettukokundaa theesukune vaaru ...but ippudu appudu jaruguthunnadi okkate ainaa ippudammaayilu maatram oka TAG thagilistunnaaru DOWRY ...DOWRY ...DOWRY ...ani ... so ikkada DOWRY ...GAADIDHA GUDDU ...THOKKU ...THOTA KOORA ...CHAATA ..CHATAARAM ... alaanti padaalu emi applicable kaadhu ...manchi manasutho mee vaallu istunnadhi theesukellandi ...mee bharthalatho sukham gaa undandi... UR POINT: This site main jawaab. meeku, mee intiki chese chaakiriki khareedu katte sharaabu tanam meelo undaa?(avunu chaakirine, yendukante bhaaryaku dabbulu karchu pettaalante, yedichi chachche vedhavalaki oodigam cheste, chaakirine gaa. Tit for tat). maa pillalaki use ayye money, maa talli tandrulu ivvaalaa? MY OPINION: the reply for this point already given above UR POINT: yemi mee vaallu mimmalni baagaa choosinandukukaaboye bhaarya aa kharchantaa repay cheyaalaa? MY OPINION: maaku maa peddalu kharchu pettinchi repay cheyyamanatam ledhu ...meeru thini thoongunte voorake penchataaniki evaroo voorake koorchuni leru ikkada ...meeru mee dabbu edo maaku istunnaamu ani mammalni kuberulani chesestunnamu ani antuanaaru kadhaa aaa dabbu meekosam meeru thechukuntunnade ...meeru MAA DABBU MAA DABBU ani feel aithey ...mari maadabbu meeru thinadaaniki thiragataaniki enduku maa dabbu kharchupettaali??? mammalni maa parents chadivinchindhi koodaa MEMU AKSHARA GNAANAMTHO EDO JOB THECHUKUNI aaa dabbutho maa parents ni baagaa choosukuntaamani ...anthe kaanee EKKADI NUNDO OKA THIRD PERSON VACHI CHERI maa dabbu thinataaniki kaadhu... so mimmulni(ladies ni) mee parents chadivinchaaru kadhaa ... job thechukuni mee dabbu mee daggare pettukondi . oka chettu putti perigi nasinchipothundi oka aaata paata lekundaa ...aalaagey brathikeyandi UR POINT: meeru raasina ee article mee kaaboye bhaaryaki, meeru pelli kudurchukunetappudu chadivi vinipinchandi. meeru koodaa anubhavistaaru. MY OPINION: nenu edi raasinaa general gaa meeru ...ladies ...ani raastunnaanu ..meeru(lakshmi prasanthi ) direct gaa ippudu naa personal issue theesukostunnaaru... really bad...general gaa vundandi mee opinions lo ... UR POINT: I can very surely say, still there are deaths caused due to dowry. See in villages. Don't talk about cities. MY OPINION: me too from a small village ...not from city hyderabad ...i know about villages much better ... UR POINT: "meeru koodaa aa taasuloni mukke gaa" 200% yemi kharma, enta % ayinaa support chestaaru. appanamgaa dabbulu voste chedaa? MY OPINION: mee dabbulu maatram chaalaa viluvainavi ... meeru maatram evado(after marriage husband) sampaadinchindi maatram voorake thini koorchovaalanukovatam thappu kaadhaa ?? meeru abbaayiki istunnadhi thappu ainappudu meeru maatram vere vaadi money ni njoy cheyaalanukovatam durbuddi kaadhaa... (ofcourse abbaayiki ivvatam ledhu ...mee kosam meeru thechukuntunnaaru) meeru ivvoddandi ...meeru vere vaadu sampaadinchindhi pandaga chesukovaani try cheyoddandi ...so alaage vundipondi ...best way .... UR POINT: ye aadadainaa bharta kshemam gurinche aharaham aalochistundi. MY OPINION: bhaarya amatram bhartha gurinchi maatram aalochistundata mari BHARTHA EVARI GURINCHI AALOCHISTAADO CHEPPALEDENTI meeru ...bharthalu aaaakaasam lo vunde stars gurincho ...paathaalam lo vunde mines gurincho aalochinchadu ...pillalu pellaam gurinche think chestaadu UR POINT: kaabatti bharta financial gaa troubles lo unte, she will help him by doing job(if not she already) or by any possible means. MY OPINION: "ANY POSSIBLE MEANS" ...annaaru ...abbo aaa possible means ento ...abbaayilaku cheppakodanivaa ....ikkada vraayalenivaa ... UR POINT: Raachi rampaana pettinaaa, pettakapoyinaa, katnam aadavaallaki vaalla talli tandrulaki yeppudu saapame. MY POINT: raachi rampaana pettinaa saapame ...pettakapoyinaa saapame antunaaru .. rendoo contradictional statements... UR POINT: Ika mee "Gontemma Korkela" gurinchi. Guruvinda saameta mee "magavaallake" vartistundi. aachaaraalani, saarelani, avani,ivani, meeru kore vannee(katnam kaaka, inkaa adanam), gontemmalu kaaka inkemiti? MY OPINION: already given above with clear examples of double cot ,fridge,car etc etc MEE FINAL POINT: Ika mee ending, very surprising. anaalsinavannee ani, last lo sorry cheppaaranta. alaage undi. Bhale goppa samskaaram. Nenu koodaa sorry cheptunnaanandi. I don't want to hurt you but felt very obliged to give an answer to you. with regards, Prasanthi. MY OPINION: meeru maatram thakkuva thinnaaraa enti ... sorry cheppesaarugaa ... meeru KAALIKI VESTE MEDAKU ,MEDAKU VESTE KAALIKI annattu raasaaru andi ..nice keep it up ... NOTE: ika monday nundi nenu project work tho busy ani cheppaanu kadhandee ..so naaku veelundadhu maralaa opinions post cheyataaniki ...veelainappudu maralaa chaalaa rojula tharvaatha kalustaanu MANGALAM PAADUTA OR DEVINNI PRAARTHINCHUTA: swaamee EDU KONDALA VAADAA.. VENKATA RAMANAA ... AAPADA MROKKULA VAADAA ... ANAADA RAKSHAKAA... EKKADUNNAAV SWAAMIIII.... VACHI EEE AMMAAYILANI WRONG NOTIONS ANE BANDHANAMULA NUNDI VIMUKTHI CHEYANDI ...IVIYE NAA VINNAPAMULU SEEGRAMEVA YEE PELLIKAANI AMMAAYILANDARIKEE KALYAANAPRAAPTIRASTU ...SAKAKALA AYURAAROGYA ASTAISWARYAALU SIDDIRASTU ... mee Murali Mohan Thokala(unmarried)

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