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Anta maatram reaction sahajame lendi. Inta discussion jarigina tarvaata, ee paati reply ni different gaa teesukovadam lo koodaa artham ledu, antaa artham ayina taruvaata. ika nenu yemi maatlaadinaa meeru, "Nenu nene, meeru meere" antaaru kadaa, kaabatti vadileyandi. Purusha jaatini vyatirekinchadame Feminism ani nenu analedu. "Konni Vishayaallo" Purusha Jaathi antaa Jaathe. I very much mean what I say. Ippatiki , eppatiki kattubade untaanu. Magavaallantaa cheddavaallu kaadu. They are more prone to be that way. mee question lone mee answer undi. anta nammakam lekapote, ika enduku, f'ship, artham chesukovadaalu ani cheppedi!! kaabatti meeru adigina question lone answer undi. Aadavaalla club, women's lib ani nenemi analedu. meere antunnaaru. In fact, aadavaallani maarchadam kaadu, magavaalla aalochanaa dhorani maaraali. maaraaru kaadananu, they still need to introspect themselves a lot. In fact, "New Pledge" ani nenu raasukunna kavithalo koodaa, We do not quarrel by the name of man or woman but we marvel by knowing we are human,ane vraasaanu. meeru cheppinde meeru paatinchaledu. naa comments ni poortigaa chadavamani indaaka adigaanu. Blame cheyadam naa uddesyam kaadu, nenu anukuntunna lopaalni choopi(avi maarchukomani koodaa kaadu), just ee rakamaina aaropana, lopam , enta varaku justified, ani aalochinchi nirnayam teesukomane. Thanks for the way you have given the reply. Vaadana kosame aithe, ilaanti participatione anavasaramu. Ika mee prati comment ki reply nenu ivvadam anavasaram ani bhaavistunnaanu. I just quit with this comment.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 18, Sep 2002 6:52:01 PM IST

Adbhutangaa samardhinchukunnaaru. Did a nice job. Meedi normal question... naadi direct one!!! Adi kudaa meerey decide chesesaaru. Ade mari... meeku normal ainadi naaku normal kaadu.... and naaku normal anipinchindi meeku normal kaadu. Maga jaathiki mee certificate em avasaram ledu lendi :)) Mee energyni magajaathini dweshinchadamlo spend cheyyadam kantey aadaallanu uddharinchadaaniki use chesthe better emo. Naa kavithalo aadavaarini kinchapariche vishayam edi vaadakapoyinaa (actualgaa more biased to females...) papam meeru chala shrama theesukuni eteto thippi aakhariki magaallanu thittadam tho muginchaaru. 10th class lo maa english teacher cheppina 'Gomaathaa zindabad' joke gurthosthondi. Venakatikevado em adiginaa aavu gurinchi cheppevaadata. Meerannaaru kadaa ani nenu mee aadallani analenu. Endukantey I know women who are just loveable. And a few who are just sick. Andukani andarnee thappulu pattalenu. Meeru cheppey ideal punyapurushudu bhoommeeda dorike chances chaala thakkuva. Bahusaa Andromeda galaxy lo undachchu. Kaneesam ilaa oppukune nijaayithi ainaa magaallaku (or atleast konthamandi magaalluak) unnanduku santoshinchandi. Andaru magaallu okelaa undaru... meekenduku aa feeling balangaa naatukupoyyindo mari.. Adi pogottaalani nenukovadam ledu. Magallu kuda manushulenani, aadadaanni svachchangaa preminchagalavaallu ippatikee unnaarani maathram confidentgaa cheppagalanu. But meeraney Ideal HE... I donno if he ever existed... and there is no ideal SHE either. Magaallanthaa cheddavaallu, mosgaallaithe ika meeraney the great vivaaha bandham, avagaahana, bharya bharthala madhya friendship ivanni enduku ika? Oka pedda aadavaalla club petti aadajaathantaa sabhyulugaa cheripothey better kadaa. Magaalla baadha undadu. Iddarikee samasya theeripothundi. To hate males is not feminism. To fight for the cause of females is feminism. Mahajabeen annatlu 'nissandehangaa magaalla punaadulu kadulutunnayi'. I accept it. Aadadi thirugubaatu chesi thana hakkulu thaanu pondadam entha santoshincha dagga vishayam! At the same time, aakhariki noru moosukuntunnaru kadaa ani mee ishtam vachchinatlu andarnee okey gaatana kattakandi. Don't come to fast conclusions. Probably you might regret at a later point of time. You can't speak about a million males just because a 1000 males you know r bad. Taravaata mee ishtam.

Posted by: Mr. Naveen Kumar Namboori At: 18, Sep 2002 4:03:48 PM IST

Naveen garu, nenu mee chelli gurinchi,akka pillala gurinchi analedu. In fact unnaaro ledo koodaa naaku teleedu kadaa. As a normal question, which is questioned, I asked. and I didn't ask you to make an open statement either. I just want you to think in yourself. But yours is a direct one. ikkada nenu koodaa nenu cheppede correct analedu. meere cheppinattu naa vaadanani vinipinchaanu ante. Anyway if you have enough time, you can go through what all I have written. Not to accept my siddhantam, but to properly understand what I have written. Do I, even in any slightest means, tried to criticise or make derogatory comment against anyone, literally? This is what all I want to say at the end of the discussion. Kevalam discussion loni abhipraaya bhedaala valla eduti vaallato snehaanno, parichayaanno kaadanukunentha sankuchitatvam naalo ledu. nenu maatram discussion lo participate chesedi, kevalam yeduti vaalla vaadananu koodaa vinadaanike, andulo naaku yedainaa upayogapadutundaa, naa way of thinking lo yedainaa tappu undaa ani telusukovadaanike kaani casual timepass participation kaadu. anduvalla discussion ni discussion gaa ne treat chestaanu. Last but not the least, Purushulandu Punyapurushulu verayaa, anedi okappati maata. Purushulandu Punyapurushulu Lerayaa, idi eenaati maata. This comment is not directed to any one individual. In fact, I dare to say, I made it to whole species of male. with regards, Prasanthi.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 18, Sep 2002 3:00:36 PM IST

Prasanthi gaaru, Naa chelli gurinchi, akka pillala gurinchi annappudu leni baadha mee pillalagurinchi nenu okkamaatantey elaa feel ayyaro choodandi. Naa chelli gurinchi matladey hakku meekevarichcharu? You made me speak about my personal matters. Meeru alaa adagadam thappu kaakapothe, nenu alaa anadam kuda thappu kaadu. Ee vishayam meeku cheppalannadey naa uddesham. Enduku comments ki react avuthaaru antooney meeru enthagaa react ayyaro choodandi. Meeru mee siddhanthalni, abhiprayalni namminatley migathavalloonu. Evari beliefni vallu balaparachaka pothe, evari vaadana vaallu samardhinchukoka pothe, asalu vaadaney anavasaram. Nenu eppudoo nenu cheppedey correct anatledu. Evariki vaaru thappoppulu nirnayinchukovali ani cheppaananthey. And standards gurinchi nenu meeku, naaku meeru certificate ichchukonavasaram ledu. Inkokarikosam mana nammakaalu marchukolem kadaa. Enni sarlu cheppinaa meeru 'Pelli chesukunte thappemiti?' ani antunnaru. Yes thappu ledu. Aithe, thappulenivannee cheseyyaalantaaru. Naaku udayaanne nidralevadam ishtam ledu. I'm just comfortable waking up at 8 o'clock. 5 o'clock ki lesthe manchidi ani naaku chepthe, I will not do it. I don't have to change myself for others. Even if it is good to do so. It is a matter of convenience. Anthey. Ika meeru cheppina migathaavaati meeda vaadinche opika ledu. And I have no intention of becoming that aadarsha purushudu like u suggested. Naa ishta prakaaram bathakadam, inkokari ishtam prakaram vallanu bathakanivvadamey naaku ishtam. I'm pretty happy with what I'm. I'm sorry. And finally, manam enough entertainment andinchaam chadivevallaki. I'm withdrawing from this discussion. If you take it as I have no point to talk on, I have no problem. Already cheppaanugaa... I don't have to prove to the world. And to mention, I have nothing personal against anyone here. We can continue with our talk on rest of the kavithalu (meevi, naavi kudaa) :)) Warm Regards, Naveen

Posted by: Mr. Naveen Kumar Namboori At: 18, Sep 2002 12:25:23 PM IST

Naveen garu, You completely misunderstood me. Sex gurinchi enduku raasaanante, mee title pere "Sparsha" kanuka. your one comment I feel bad. "Mee pillalaku koodaa cheppagalanu". I have my own principles and I can teach what I feel to be good and essential. Evarishtam vacchinatlu vaallu batikite, samaajam lo order elaa untundani meeru anukuntunnaaru? evari ishtam vachhi natlu vaallu undaali ante, pillalu chadavadam ishtam ledantaaru, oppukuntaaraa? Ofcourse evari ishtamaina field lo vaallanu encourage cheyacchu. kaani cheptunnaanu. evari ishtam vacchinatlu vaallu undadamvalla overall haani ni meeru artham chesukovatledu. enta mandi maturity unna manushulani meeru anukuntunnaaru? Stree Sweccha lo nenu sex gurinci yemi cheppalede, meeru cheppina restrictions, samskruti peruto aadavaallani ibbandi pedtunnaarani annaare daani gurinchi cheppanante. meeru koodaa mee article oka sari mallee chadavandi. yemannaaru meeru, samskruti peruto aadavaallanu himsinchadam annaaru. ika freedom of a human being gurinchi. Freedom means Responsibility also. Biology text books lo cheppagaa lenidi, pillalaku chepte tappaa, ante ikkada tappu kaadu, kaani aa teachers perigina vidhaanam, vaallani ee vishayaala patla nissankochamgaa maatlaadaneeyaka poyi undavacchu. mari doctors siggupadite, vallu students ki yemi teach chestaaru? vaallu siggupadatamledu kadaa! In fact, ikkada siggupadaalsindemi ledu, kaakapote, meere cheppina inhibitions. meeru overall gaa inhibitions povaalani antunnaaru. nenu family paramgaa povaali antunnaa. ante tedaa. ante wife and husband discuss cheyacchu. and again parents can teach their children ani. pelli ayithe tappuledaa ani. yes. tappuledu kaadu koodaa.(personal opinion. ikkada nannu koodaa evaroo direct cheyaalani lede. ikkada naa meeda evaroo balavantamgaa ruddaledu. kaakapote mana culture ni, foreign culture ni renditini koddo goppo telusukoni, nenu yerparachukunna naa swanta abhipraayam.) ayithe okati. aa vyakti patla prema unte, aa ammaayi atanni maarchukovaalani try chestundi. ante kadaa. nuvvu vaaditone untaavaa, ante adi aa ammaayi ishtam. samaajam mana meeda yedo ruddinatlu feel avadam kaadu, manchi chedu gamaninchi, mana nirnayaalu manam teesukovaalani ante. Sheelam ante kevalam saareerakam kaadu, ade nenu cheppedi koodaa. I agree. nenemi contradict cheyalede. marriagelo inni drohaalu enduku jarugutunnaayi ante, prati daaniki nenu samaadhaanam cheptaanu. pillalaki tama bhaagaswaamini ennukone swechha ivvakapovadam valla. Jeevitamlo pelle paramaavadhi ani talichi, yeppudeppudu pillalaki pellillu chesi baruvu dimchukundaamaa ane aaturata valla. ikkada andaroo pelli ante, khachitamgaa " vayasulo jaragavalasina muchhata" ane aalochistunnaaru kaani, oka goppa vyavastha ani, rendu hrudayaalu kalavaalani, meere cheppina maanasika Aikyathaa bhaavam vaari madhya undaalani evaroo anukovatam ledu. In fact, pelli ayina jantalu enta mandi, ilaanti mukhyamaina vishayaala patla sraddha chooputunnaaru? Sangatyam , Sahajeevanam ante asalaina artham emiti ani aalochinchi aa disagaa tama jeevitaalani malachukuntunnaaru? enta busy ayinaa, yemi ibbandulu vunna, yeppudaithe manasu yerigina, manaku nachcina vyakti todu untaaro, appudu jeevitam baaguntundi. Ilaanti oka Ideology lekapovadam valla samasyale kaani, Pelli ane institution lo tappu ledu. ee vibhedaalani choopinchi memu pellini nammamu ane vaariki, order laagaa kaakundaa, oka advice laagaa cheppi, yenduku aalochinchamana koodadU? ide nenu cheppedi. meeru complete gaa support chestunnaaru vaallani. samaajam complete gaa vyatirekistundi. nenu vyatirekinchatledu. vimarsinchatledu. alaagani support cheyanu. aalochinchamani cheptunnaa. meeru anta understanding prema unde vaaraithe, pelli chesukoni,pelli okka goppatanaanni niroopinchavacchu kadaa. Yuvata mimmalni aadarsamgaa teesukoni, vaivaahika jeevitam, sahacharyam ante yemito telusukuntundi. Idi naa opinion. nenu kevalam sex gurincho, sparsha gurincho cheppatledu. iddari jeevitaalu mudipadaalante yevaite kaavaalani nenu feel avutaano, vaati annitiki vartistoo cheptunnaanu. Ika mogudu yelaanti vaadainaa vaaditone undaalaa ane daanni gurinchi. nenu koodaa ilaanti hypocrisy ni vyatirekistaanu. anduke okari patla okariki abhimaanam , prema, gauravam unde vaallato ne pelli jaripinchaali ani antaanu. Kulamataalu, aastiantastulu pattinchukokundaa. adi evari ishtam vaaridi. meere cheppinattu. vaallani batakaneeyandi ante, manushulani enta mandini maarchagalam cheppandi. naa varaku nenu evari personal life gurinchi comment cheyanu. vimarsinchanu. naa ishtam vacchinatlu nenu untaanu ani meeru elaagaithe antunnaaro, vimarsinche vaallu koodaa , maa ishtam vachhinatlu memu matlaadataam antaaru. mari yemi samaadhaanam cheptaaru? anduke nenu cheppindi, manam chese ye pani patla ayinaa manaku nammakam unte, evariki bhayapadaalsina pani ledu. kaakapote samaajam yemi anakoodadu anukovadamlone chikku vuntundi. adi sex kaavacchu, Intercaste marriage kaavaachu, pelli lekundaa kalisi batakadam kaavacchu. ento abhimaanam, understanding untene kadaa kalisi undaalani korukuntaaru, mari anta understanding unde couple pelli chesukunte maatram tappemitani nenu annaanu , ante kaani , khachitamgaa chesukovaalani nenu cheppaledu. alaa cheppadaaniki koodaa nenu evarini? nenu koodaa vyakti swaatantryaanni ento support chestaanu. kaakapote aa swaatantryam future generation ki elaanti message istundi, vaalla proper upbringing ki elaa dohadapadutundani aalochinchaali. samaajam patla nenemi baadhyatani nirvartinchanavasaram ledu anukunte evarishtam vaaride kadaa! Ika last statement. Rendella tarvaata koodaa mee abhipraayaalu meeku alaage unte, nissandeham gaa alaage untaayi. kaani vaatilni nenu aacharinchagalaanaa ledaa anedi nijamgaa naa adrushtam meeda aadhaara padi untundi. konni vishayaallo manam enta prayatnam chesinaa, vidhi ane daanni yedirinchalemu. appudu koodaa naa abhipraayaalani nenu maarchukunnattu artham kaadu. avi yeppatiki maaravu.(konni vishayaallo). kaakapote vidhi mundu odipoyinatlu ante. oka vela naa ippati abhipraayaalato evarainaa nannu polchi vimarsinchinaa nenu baadhapadanu. endukante adi yedutivaalla standards ante ani vadilestaanu. When I know What I am and I very much Believe in myself, I need not hurt with some others' comments. This is my policy. Practicality undacchu kaani adi entavaraku? adi nenu prasninchedi. Yes, I wish every couple get the eternal bliss. nijamgaane, ippati youth ki(paatavaallani manam asalu maarchalem. they are rigid) counselling avasaramu. marriage ante yemiti anedi teliyaali. anduke nenu ilaanti vaati meeda kathalu raayaalani anukuntunnaanu. My pointer is to male precisely. Ikkada magavaallani asahyinchukovadam kaadu, vallallo unde lopaalni teliya cheppi, oka manchi samaajaanni srushtinchukovaalane. chivarigaa okka maata. andaroo commentski negative gaa enduku react avutunnaaranedi naaku artham kaavatamledu. In fact, mee kavitha nenu sarigaa chadavaledu annaaru. naa comments ni meeru correct gaa chadivaaraa? Why people let loose their words in such a way? nenu saadhaaranamgaa feel avvaanu. endukante yedutivaallani pattinchukonu kanaka. kaani standards unnaayi anukunna vaallu koodaa different gaa react avute, yemi cheyyaali? naaku purusha dweshi ani peru pettaaru(telugupeople vaalle, I mean readers), naa work chadivina vaallu koodaa chaalaa mandi meeru yenduku magavaalla patla anta strong words use chestaaru antaaru. ide samaadhaanam. Standards unnaayi, rational gaa aalochistaaru anukunna vaallu koodaa, loose avutuntaaru. anduke evarini nammaalanipinchadu.yetuvanti magavallainaa sare, ye age group ayinaa sare, konni jaati sahajamgaa vacche lakshanaalato velugutoo untaaru. aa lopaalni veletti choopadame naa uddesyam. ikkada taguvu pettukovaalano, blame cheyaalano naa uddesyam kaadu, aalochinchandi ani cheppadame.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 18, Sep 2002 11:16:06 AM IST

1. Nissandehangaa cheppagalanu... naa chelli elaa undaalo nirnayinchukune hakku naadi kaadu... thanadi... And real life lo jarigindi kudaa adey... for ur information. ditto with my daughter. Ainaa nenemi andarnee nenu cheppinatlu unadamani bodhinchadam ledey. Evarishtam vachchinatlu vallu bathakaalani cheppaananthe. And sex gurinchi pillalaku bodhinchadam. Naa kavithalo aa prasthaavane ledey. Nenu naa comments lo cheppina vishayam entantey... text book lo unte leni thappu teach chesenduku maathram antha thappauthundaa? ani anthe gaani naa kavithaku aa vishyaaniki inkelaanti sambandham ledu. But I will answer your question. Mee sooti prashnaku sootigaane chepthaanu jaavaabu. Meeru ye lokam lo unnaro theleedam ledu naaku. Meeku problem emo kaani sex gurinchi saraina vayasochchina pillalaku cheppalsina vidhangaa cheppadaaniki naaku elaanti problem ledu. Naa akka pillalake kaadu. Naa pillalaku kuda. Kaavalantey mee pillalni kuda pampinchandi... chepthaanu. For your information, ma nannaku alaanti inhibitions levu kabattey naaku saraina age lo saraina knowledge vachchindi. Indulo anthagaa thala baadukovalsina vishayam naakem kanapaddam ledu. 9th classs biology text book lo human reproductive system ani diagrams to sahaa explain cheyyagaa lendi, oka thandri saraina paddathi lo aa gnanam pillalaku ivvadamlo elaanti thappu ledu. Idanthaa vaadinchadaaniki chepthunnananukuntey... mee ishtam. I don't have to prove it to the world. Ika mee stree swechcha topic: Nijangaa navvochchindi. Nenu raasindi meeru sarigga chadivinatlu ledu. It is not about sex madam. And it is not about freedom of a woman as well. It is about freedom of human being. Daaniki nenu enchukunna example oka aada, maga kalayika. Adi prakruthi sahajam kaabatti. Manaku ee vishayam meeda kaavalsinanni apohalu unnayi kaabatti. Anthey. Meeru mallee sex gurinchi, sex education gurinchi prasthaavisthe nenem matlaadanu further. It serves no purpose as far as this poem is concerned. Emannaru? premala valla mosaalu jaruguthunnayi... so pellayye varaku aagithe appudu parledannamaata... ade mosagaanitho...vaadu moodu mulleseyyagaane mosam cheyyanatlu... taravaata jeevithamanthaa vaadiki kahideega padi undadam. Chala baavundi. Can you just go through my poem and comments once again. I said something called 'people who don't believe in the institution of marriage'. Nenu akkada stress chesindi thamakishtamaina paddhathilo evarikee problem lekundaa bathakadam gurinchi. Meeru atuthippi ituthippi danni sex ki mudi peduthunnaru. nenu pelli gurinchi kuda ekkadaa naa kavithalo cheppaledu. Meeru kavitha kantey naa comments gurinche ekkuva alochinchinatlunnaru. 2. Meeku mee godave gaani edutivallu cheppedi pattinchukunelaa lerey? Meeru raasina vishayam asalu nenekkadaa prasthaavinchanu kooda ledey? Modata poorthigaa chadavandi. Nenu cheppindalla pelli meeda nammakam unnavallanu pelli chesukommani, leni vallanu kudaa chinna choopu choodaddani. Inthaku minchi nenu inkem cheppaledey? Pelli cheddadani nenekkadaa cheppaledy? Personalgaa I believe in the institution of marriage. Daanni inkokari meeda ruddaalanukovadam ledanthe. Naa close friend pelli chesukokundaa evarithonaina kalisi untey naalo maarpem undadu thana patla. Inthey nenu cheppindi. Mee vidhavaa vivaahalu, bhartha chanipothe malle vivaham chesukodaalu... veeti gurinchi nenu asalu anukonu kudaa ledu. Sheelam antey kevalam shaareerikam aney alochananu thappu pattaanu anthey. Meeru ekkadiko vellipoyaru. Dayachesi sarigga chadivi artham chesukunenduku prayatninchandi. 3. Prasanthi garu, prapancham chala peddadi. Andarikee chotuntundi. Nenu cheppina vishayam adey. Anthey. Meeru cheppinatlu 'those who believe in marriage' bramhandanga continue cheyyachchu. Evaroo balavantha pettaru vallani. Alaa ishtam leni vallaku santoshangaa bathike hakku ledaa mari? Mee personal abhiprayam pakkana petti kaastha alochinchi cheppandi. Mee matallo chala spashtangaa kanipisthondi preconceived notion. Manaku telsindey vedam... shataabdhaalanunchi vachchindey correct. Entha mandi bharyalu yanthraallaaga 'mogullaney' bandarallatho nisshabdhangaa, nisthejangaa bathukutunnaro... can u call it a successful marriage? Meeru dappu kotti maree chepthunna the great institution of marriage... if it is so great by nature, that it will ensure a happy life... then inni ghoraalu enduku jaruguthunnai... bharya, bhartha madhya avagaahana... friendship... vinadaaniki chaala baavundi. 100 kaapurallo enni meeranna 'ideal avagaahana, friendhsip' tho untunnayo cheppagalaraa? Kaneesam 10? Atleast 5? Inkemundi marriage lo vankaaya speciality? Prathi vishayam lonu manchi, chedu untaayi. Marriage kuda anthey. Andukani negative aspects choosi marriage aney concept ki thilodakaalu ichcheyyamanadam ledey... It is just a matter of choice. And certificate lo peru raayinchadam gurinchi alaa biddanu kannavallu alochinchukuntaaru. Adi vaalla problem. Valla nammakam mukhyamaa, leka certificatelo pilladi thandriperu raayadam elaa ani alochinchadam mukhyamaa anedi vallu thelchukovali. Adi naa samasya, mee samsya kaadu. Vallaku nijangaa antha problem aithe, endukuraa baabu ee godava ani pelli chesesukunevallu kadaa... Meeku viddooram anipinche vishayam marokariki anipinchakapovachchu. Everything is relative. Meeku nencu cheppindi nachchakapothe adi mee ishtam. Cheppanugaa... mee abhiprayam marchukomani cheppadaaniki nakelaanti hakku ledu. 4. vintapokadalu... mee drushtilo... relative again. 5. Samajam blame chestondi kadaa ani elaagoo aagarulendi. Nenu cheppedi vallakoo chotivvamani 'so called samajam' ni request chestunnaa anthey. 6. adi mee personal abhiprayam. Meeku nireekshana antha ishtam aithe... mee ishtam. Evadu aagoddannaru? :))) Nenu cheppedi naa laanti mamoolu manushula gurinchi. Meeru sex aney angle nunchi thappa alochinchalekapothunnaru. Nenu edabaatu bharinchalekapovadam gurinchi alochisthunnanu. Meeku thappanipishtey no problem. Evari abhiprayam valladi. 7.Raktha sambandhaalu, bandhutvaalu... nenu deeni gurinchi mention cheyyaledey. 8. Nenu cheppindi migathaavallaku sambandhinchina practicality gurinchi. Naaku sambandhinchinantha varaku naa ishtamochchinatlu nenu bathakadam practical vishayamey. I can't speak on others' part. Nenu first nunchi chepthondi adey kadaa. Evadi ishtam vaadidani. 9. pchch... papam! I wish ur avagaahana system works for every couple. (Lekapothe eternal bliss coaching centre pettachchu :)) Meeru inko 3 years taravaata ivey questions adagandi (appudu kooda meeku adagaalanipisthe). Thappakundaa answer chestaanu appudu kooda. Naveen PS: mee first commentslo edo annatlunnaru... "I won't participate in the controversy ani". Parledu lendi. Self contradiction is a human tendency. Meeku ee roju unna alochanalu inko rendellayyaka kudaa untey appudu oppukuntaanu lendi meeru cheppindanthaa correct ani.

Posted by: Mr. Naveen Kumar Namboori At: 18, Sep 2002 1:50:29 AM IST

meeru mana samskrutini vyatirekistunnaaru kaani, meere cheppina mee bhaavalanu, mana samskruti yeppudu aamodinchakundaa poledu. kaakapote vivaahaanantaram eternal bliss ni korukomandi.ante. Vatsaayana kaamasootraalu mana samskrutilove kadaa. devaalayaala meeda bootu boommalani manam neecha vyaakhyaanam chestaamu. kaani mana vaallu bootu gaa pariganinchaledu. Dharma, Artha, Kama, Mokshaalalo okatigaa pariganinchi unnata staanaanni ichaaru. nagnatvamlo yeppudoo andam undadu. alaage iddariki maatrame sambandhinchina vishayaanni, nalugurilo pettakoodadane mana vaallu cheppaaru. aada, magaa sangaminchadam sahajam, kaabatti sahajatwaanni choopiste tappemitani choopiste adi samskrutaa? Reality naa? leka Creativity naa? Nissabdam chedinchabadaalsindi, couple madhyane. naaluggodala madhya, bharyaabhartalu inhibitions lekundaa charchinchukovaalane kadaa mana vaallu mari anni sootraalu kanipettindi. Lopam Samskrutilo ledu, mana nirvachanaallo undi.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 18, Sep 2002 0:24:26 AM IST

" Bhaarateeya samskruthi vivaham ichche mangalasoothram lo ledu. Sanaatana aachara vyavahaaraalalo anthakannaa ledu. Manalni manam eppatikappudu shodhinchukuni santoshamayamaina koththa prapanchaanni srushtinchukovadam lone undani nenu nammutaanu". Exactly. This is what I want to convey. But in other meaning. manam, mukhyamgaa Indians mi, mana praacheena samskrutiki, aadhunika bhaavaalaki madhya vaaradhi kaavaali. oka good fusion of both ki prateekalam kaavaali. manalni manam sodhinchukovaali annaaru, ade nenu cheptunnaa, mee aalochanani oka saari sodhinchukondi. Ippudu Caste, Religion , Property ilaanti differences valla pellini vyatirekinche samaajaaniki manam yeduru tiragavacchu. ante kaani, sparsha vishayamlo kaadu ani naa abhipraayamu. Ika muhurtaalu, gharbhaadaanaala gurinchi. konchem navvoche vishayame as far as couple are concerned. anta varaku mukku moham teleeni vaallaki pelli cheste yemiti artham. andukegaa chalam gaaru annaaru, nootiki thombhaitommidi paallu magavaallu aadavaallani rape chestaarani. As far as the custom is concerned, ento nigoodhamaina artham undi. Astrology ni nammakapote nenu yemi cheppalenu kaani, the impact of Planets on the couple ki importance icchi jaagratta teesukuntaaru. aashaada maasam ani veru chesedi koodaa induke kadaa. manam yedainaa oka aachaaraanni vyatirekinchadaluchukunte, asalu aa aachaaram undadaaniki gala moola kaaranaanni anveshinchaali. tarvaate ippati paristitulaku taggattu, moola bhaavam chedakundaa charyalu teesukovaali. mallee topic pellilla vishayamloki vaste, pelli ayina ventane, gharbhaadaanaalani kaakundaa, vaallu artham chesukunna tarvaata pedithe polaa? konni navvu vostaayi. ilaa maatlaadadam koodaa, kontamandi, bariteginchaarani nindalu vestaaru. Nijaalu yeppudu nishtooramgaane untaayi. aadavaallu nissabdhaanni antoo chedinchadam modalu pedite, magavaalla soudhaalu kookati vellato sahaa veliki vastaayi. Anduke aadavaallaku Nissabdam Nischayamaindi. (mallee purusha vyatirekata anukovaddu. naa sentence ki chaalaa meaning undi, oka magavaarilaa kaaka , neutral gaa, meeru cheppinattu rational gaa aalochiste).

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 17, Sep 2002 11:47:50 PM IST

Naveen garu, nenu mimmalni, mee abhipraayaalanu baagaane artham chesukunnaanu. kaanee konni prasnalni gurinchi meeru tappinchukoleru. ivi nene kaadu evarainaa vestaaru. 1. Stree Swechaa: Nenu okarni preminchaananukondi, atanito meerannatlu manaku kalige feelings lo, iddarilo evarainaa express chesaamanukondi, paryavasaaanam? ee rojullo premalne mana vaallu nammatamledu. yenno mosaalu jarugutunnaayi. mari alaantappudu ika srungaaram koodaa jata koodithe, aksharaalaa aidse. Ofcourse, maturity undi, khachitamgaa vaallane pelli chesukune sangathi nenu cheppatledu. alaa aalochinchinaa koodaa, vivaha bandham tarvaata yedaithe andamo, adi munde anubhavinchaalanu kovadam bhaavyamaa? mana population taggadaaniki, aalasya vivaahaalu, pelli ayyaaka koodaa rendu samvatsaaraalu pillalu puttinchukokoodadu ani naa abhipraayamu. alaagaithe mana population konchem control avutundi andaroo paatiste. mari alaantidi pelli kaakundaane, ilaantivi mari support cheste paristithi yemiti? Western culture ide kadaa, induke mari akkada anta mandi teenage mothers unnaaru. mimmalni sootigaa oka question adugutaanu. Stereotypic question ani anukovaddu. mee chellelo, leka mee kooturo ilaanti bhaavaalni vyaktapariste meeru angeekarinchagalaraa? vaadana kosam cheppaddu. aalochinchandi. meere oka maaster ayithe, ledu vadileyandi. mee akka pillalako ledaa mee bandhuvula pillalako sex ni gurinchi explain cheyagalaraa? future lo meeru father avuthe, mee pillalaki daggarundi cheppagalaraa? 2. aadavaallani himsinchey antunnaaru kaanee , ikkada generalisation ledu. nijamgaane. nenu preminchina vyakti nannu preminchaledu anukondi, nenu jeevitaantam ontarigaa undaalani korukuntaane kaani vere vaallani pelli chesukovaali anukonu. mari ikkada nannu evaru saasistunnaattu? samaajamaa , tallitandrulaa? idi naa maanasika paristiti, naa vyaktika anubhooti. alaage widow remarriages vishayamlo koodaa. saadhaaranamgaa aadavaallu ishtapadaru enduko telusaa, bharta meeda prema oka kaaranamaithe, magavaalla dwaidee bhaavaalu rendo kaaranam. bhaarya chanipoyina vyakti rendo pelli chesukunte , tana chanipoyina bhaarya gurinchi kotta pellamto cheptaadu, aamenu ishtamainappudu taluchukuntaadu. kaani oka aadadi alaa cheyagalugutundaa. yemi aameki maatram chanipoyina bharta meeda prema undadaa? vaidika niyamaala prakaaram, samskaaram chese hakku bhaaryaku lekapoyinaa, manasulo prema undadaa? mari ee nijaanni digest chesukone samskaaram unna magavaallu enta mandi? anduke aadavaallu ishtapadaru. ikkada evaroo balavantam cheyaru pelli chesukovaddani. meeku sawaa laksha examples dorukutaayi. nenu widow remarriages ki against yemi kaadu. kevalam meeru cheppina, baadhapette samskruti gurinchina naa avagaahana. ante. 3. ee madhya marriage ane institution nammam ane vinta pokada. naaku asalu artham kaadu. ofcourse I don't want to blame anyone. But this do not give any correct message to the society. manam maatrame kaadu , samajam lo chaalaa mandi unnaaru. mana future generation vastundi. mari vallaki manam icche message yemiti? Society lo oka order anedi lekundaa potundandi. Western culture intalaa digajaaradaaniki kaaranam ilaanti oka sweche kadaa? iddaru kalisi undaalanukonte, taali yenduvalla, ye rakamgaa addu? samaajaanni antagaa lekka cheyani vaallaki, voddu anukunte divorce lekapoyinaa vidipovacchu kadaa. adige vaarevvaru. mari taali kattam , kattinchukom anadam viddoorame kadaa. mari pillalu pudte, school certificatelo yemi vraastaaru? marriage jaragakapote, can we name them as father? Ofcourse, DNA tests may prove so. 4. manushullo hypocrisy. yelaanti manushulanainaa maarchacchemo kaani , ilaanti neecha buddulu kala vaallani maarchalemu. kontamandi ante maararu. manaku yeduti vaalla standard ento artham ayyaaka, ika vaallani pattinchukovaalsina avasaram undaa? vaallani vyatirekinchaalani, vintapokadalu povaalaa? 5. samaajam yeppudu evari jeevitaalani saasinchadu. idi kevalam manushulu pette niyama nibandhanale. kaani manam aalochinchaali ye niyamam manchidi, yedi kaadu ani. ikkada evary definitions vaariki untaayi anukunte, mari blame cheste koodaa kungipokoodadu. evari daarilo vaallu velladame. 5. oka muddu kosamo, oka kougili kosamo annellu yeduru choodaalaa, ante mari vaati viluva anta goppadane gaa artham. yeduru choosi, vechi vundi, kaavalasina daanni pondinappudunde aanaandam, yeppudu kaligina bhaavaalni appudu teerchukovadamlo untundaa? 6. Inni dandayaatrala taruvaata koodaa, inni vela samvatsaaraalu mana samskruti managaligindante, inkaa rakta sambandhaalaki, bandhutvaalaki manam viluva istunnaamante, ilaanti vidhi nishedhaala valle kadaa!! aalochinchandi. 7. Practical gaa kudurutundaa anedaaniki naa daggara javaabu ledu annaaru. mari aa lekapovadamloni soonyaanni artham chesukuntaaraa? 8. Prema valla kalige eternal bliss. This is what every person either male or female wishes about. mari ilaanti aanandam dorakaalante, dampatula madhya oka avagaahana undaali. adi kalagaalante, mundu snehitulugaa melagaali. yeppudaithe maanasikamgaa daggaravutaaro, appudu automatic gaa inhibitions undavu.

Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 17, Sep 2002 11:08:46 PM IST

Nenu cheppalsindanthaa kavithalone cheppaananukunnaanu...:))) Interpretations naturally differ from person to person and it is the most interesting part to see how different people perceive the same thing differently. It was interesting to read your review. Kaanee naa asalu uddesham veru. To discuss about sex education or about whether sex before marriage is good or bad was not my intention at all. Ee kavithaku mukhya vasthuvu manushulloni hypocrisy, inhibitions, ignorance. Bhaarateeya samskruti peruto iddaru santoshangaa batike manushulni veliveyadam naa drushtilo moorkhatvam. Suppose nenu, inko ammayi ishtapaddamanukondi. Assume that we don't believe in the institution of marriage. Kaanee kalisuntaam anukondi. Samaajam mammalni veliveyyadaa? Oka doctor oka nurse pelli chesukokundaa kalisi bathukutunnaranukondi. Valla duty vallu perfect chesthunnaa kooda, samajam veleththi chooputhundi. Thama pillalni kaapaadina doctor ni athani skills parangaa choodalsindi poyi... athani personal life ni evaluate cheyyadam daarunam. Why don't we give a chance to live happily for the people who don't believe in religion or marriage or whatsoever? Ikkada thappoppula prasakthi ledu. Evarikedi ishtam anedi maathramey question. Inkokaru elaa bathakaalo nenu shaasinchadam stupidity. Inkaa nenu cheppalanukunnadi - about living freely, without any restrictions, inhibitions and hidden agenda. Antey publicgaa srungaaram jarapadam kudaa OK naa anadigithe nenem cheppalenu. Ikkada naa uddesham kevalam sex gurinchi mathrame kaadu. Freedom of expression. Freedom to live your life on your own terms. Naa preyasini sprushinchadaaniki desha, kaala, saamajika, aarthika paristhithulu bereeju vesi, vaaram, varjyam choosi, maa amma, nanna, inkaa samaajam nunchi permission theesukuni, pelli chesukuni - aa taravaata alochinchaala? Naaku ee nimishamlo kaligina gaadhamaina korikanu, premanu, vyaktam cheyyadaaniki konni samvatsaraalu aagaalaa? Sahetukamaina kaaranamuntey enni yugaalaina vechi undochchu... Freedom unnachota nijamaina prema untundi. Alaanti premaku logic undadu... bhaavodvegaalu thappa Ye bandhanaalu undavu. Alaanti prema valla kalige eternal bliss ruchi choosthe mana prapanchamey maaripothundi. Appativaraku nammina siddhanthaalannee gaaliki kottukupothaayi. Shareeram, manasu, aatma veru verani anipinchavu. Kevalam sareeraaniki sheelam antagatti sthree jaathini ghorangaa himsinchey dikkumaalina samskruthi undadu. Bhaarateeya samskruthi vivaham ichche mangalasoothram lo ledu. Sanaatana aachara vyavahaaraalalo anthakannaa ledu. Manalni manam eppatikappudu shodhinchukuni santoshamayamaina koththa prapanchaanni srushtinchukovadam lone undani nenu nammutaanu. Andukegaa enno dandayaathrala tarvaata koodaa ee desham anni samskrutulanoo thanalo imudchukuni saagipothondi. Ika annitikante mukhyangaa cheppalanukunnadi... manushulloni daarunamaina hypocrisy gurinchi, apohala gurinchi, agnaanam gurinchi. Marokari korikalanu manam niyanthrinchadam gurinchi. "Choodu vaadu... intha vayasochchindi ippudu vaadikoka pellaam kavalsochchindi.. pellaam kuda kaadu. unchukunnaadu"... akkasu vellagakkuthaadokadu "Aa pilla lechipoyyindi raa. Vaadu vadilesthey venakkochchindi. Kadupu kooda theeyinchukundita" antaadoka aadarsha purushudu... 'arey manaku aa avakaasam dakkalede' ani lopala anukuntoo... "Maa inti pai portion lo unna abbayi kosam rojukoka ammayi vasthontundi... naku asahyam ilaantivantey" ani antundo pativrata.. lopala aa abbayi meeda korikunnaa... If this is the culture we are talking about... I don't want to be part of it. Naa kavitha mukhyoddesham adey. Unnadi unnatlu cheppagalige avakaasanni, naa anubhootulni svechchagaa prakatinchagala avakaasaanni naakichche samskruthi naakkaavaali. Ee kavitha kinda naa comments - just to relate my real life experiences to the situtation prevailing. Anthegaani adey mukhya uddesham kaadu. Nor I'm against the institution of marriage or religion or the society as such. All said, idanthaa practicalgaa aacharaneeyamaa kaadaa anna prashnaku naa daggara javaabu ledu. Adi evariki vaaru nirnayinchukovalsina vishayam. choodandi... oka kavitha konni vaakyaallo cheppina vishayanni mamoolu maatallo entha elaborate cheyyalsi vasthondo.... :)))

Posted by: Mr. Naveen Kumar Namboori At: 17, Sep 2002 6:43:59 PM IST

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