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Articles: My Thoughts | Breathe Failure to achieve Success - Mrs. sharmila Sanka
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Success is something which every being wishes to be crowned with. A goal, little or big when fulfilled at the end is ‘Success.’ The same goal when interrupted abrubtly with no conclusive end is ‘failure.’
Man gets disheartened when he comes across failure. Being human, it is natural by all means. Being human, he is also capable of overcoming this fear of failure and the way of dealing with failure in his day to day activities.
When your plan is to achieve your goal, it happens that some difficulties and obstructions crop up leading to failure. We are well aware that every failure is a stepping stone for success. Being practical, when you come across such failures, do not panic.
Failure is one failure, panicking becomes the second failure at such times. So inorder not to maximise the pain, be calm and positive. Being optimistic in pessimistic times is true optimism.
Firstly,learn a lesson from your failures. Secondly, try not to repeat that mistake the next time. Thirdly, take that failure as a stepping stone to reach goals higher and higher.
Every time you fail, take that failure as your advantage. Utilise the best from it. Every failure or every negative comment should turn into a new page in the chapter of your courageous ‘Life’.
A tough lesson in life is that not everybody wishes you well. For instance, if some one comments negatively about you, do not start ignoring and hating that person. Dig within to check if you are worthy of that negative statement. If not, ignore it. If you are true to yourself and if you are a person of ‘Conscience’, you will know if you deserve those comments. If so, give a start to rectify yourself.
Every moment you should breathe that comment of failure inorder to get over that bad habit. When you are aware of it, you will start improving. You will learn a lesson which helps you not to repeat it and grow further.
Be thankful to that person for giving you an opportunity to look within. Do not live in the failures. Move forward with the failures. To err is human, to knowingly live in the error is not
helplessness but foolishness.
Utilise all the failures out of courage or even helplessness and the life will be so smooth for you because you will actually be walking on the failures heading towards the success.
'I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.' A statement by Thomas Alwa Edison when he questioned about the no. of trials he made before successfully inventing the electric bulb.
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. Success without failure is not real success. Great failure is better than mere success because the former involves hard lessons which smoothen your path of life.
---Sharmila Sanka.
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