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Articles: My Thoughts | Inner, Outer Beauty
- Mrs. sharmila Sanka
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Heart is filled with happiness when it sees or feels something beautiful. There is magnetic magic in beauty. In general any one gets attracted by beauty. It might be an object, nature or a person. If a person goes for beautiful object or nature it will not change his life but if he goes for a beautiful person, then comes the situation of his life being changed.
Regarding marriage, it is satisfactory for us to look for beauty in the other person but always it is not good and healthy to go for outer looks. As we often hear the saying, “Beauty is skin deep”, we need to look for inner beauty also. When there is outer beauty, one’s mind is happy. When there is inner beauty one’s soul is happy. Only when there is a balance between these two can there be harmony at a place or between two hearts.
It is not always true that a beautiful person is beautiful at heart too and that there will be peace at home. Now a days, youngsters very easily get deceived by outer looks and they go ahead without pausing and very quickly get married prefixing this word with ‘Love.’ Later when they get used to that beauty, they start looking for inner beauty rather than outer looks. They repent for what they did without giving much thought. But all this repentence is in vain as they are already married.
Inorder to lead a happy life, inner beauty is very important. One can live with a lame or a dumb person. But one cannot live a life with a heartless person . For any life to be satisfactory or fulfilling, understanding is essential and primary. So if you want to marry a person just by getting attracted to that person’s looks, pause a little. Observe his or her qualities, mentality, behaviour for a while and then proceed. Never blindly take important decisions in haste.
Last but not the least, never compare with any person. No one on this earth is perfect. If you see a beautiful person, you think she is booned with happiness. If you see a person who is not that beautiful, you tend to feel sorry for that person. But what do you know? She or he might be leading a very happy life though not beautiful. So real happiness and satisfaction lie in a ‘Heart’ rather than ‘Skin.’
For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. - - - - - Sharmila Sanka
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