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Articles: My Thoughts | aDigi telusu kOnDi.... AkshEpinchakanDi!!
- Mrs. kavita ganduri
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mEmu amerikA vachchi chaalA kaalam ayyindi. daadaapu nEnu inDiyaa lO gaDipinanta kaalam ikkaDa gaDipaanEmoa.... maa pillalu vaishNavi,viSWEsh pedda vaaLLu avutunnaaru...
aa madhyana maa bandhuvula peLLi ikkaDi lemont (chicago) Tempul lO jarugutOndanTaE mEmandaram veLLAmu.
ikkaDa ennO samvatsaraalaki kaanI peLLi choosE avakASam raadu. mooDELLakO , naalugELLakO inDiyAki vacation ki veLLinappuDu telisina vALLa inTlO peLLiLLu chaalA arudugA jarigaayi. alaa ennO kAvalasina vALLa peLLiLLu chaalaa mis ayyAmu. mA vaariki leev dorakkO,pillala chaduvula vallanO ,lEka antaku mundae vacation ki veLLi raavaDam vallanO...ilaa anEka kaaraNaala valla....
kanuka SubhalEkha raagaanE venTanE maa bandhuvulaki kaal chEsi cheppaesaanu...maa inTinunchi naluguram raavaDam khaayam....(bhOjanaaloo,inkaa anninTikii mammalni lisT lO vaesukOmani!)
anukunna aadivaaram vachchEsindi...nEnu chaalE excited gaa klaaseT lOni naa paTTu cheeralu teesaanu...avi 'innALLaki gurtochchaanA!....annaTTu naa vanka choostunnAyi'
alAgE naa nagalu kooDA .....same expression!
vaishNavini balavantangaa oppinchi teesukeLLAlsi vachchindi...kaalaeji vark vundani,frenDs inTiki sTaDee kOsam veLLAlani chaalaa kahaanIlu cheppinaa balavantangaa laakkeLLAnu...asalae mana daeSaanikI,janaalakI dooramgaa perugutOndi...mana samskRuti,saampradaayaalu kaasta telustaayani,naluguruu parichayam avutaarani...laakkeLLAnu...
daaniki function lannA,bandhuvulannA allergy vundani telisikooDaa...
daanikiShTamaina ghaaghrA teesi vaesukundi...boTTu peTTukOnani naatoa pedda argument! vaaLLa naanna vachchi,'enduku daanitO pratidaanikii vaadana let her do what she wants' ani annaaru. aayanni ee vishayam lO interfere avvaddanicheppi...daanini oka naalugaidu ganTalu peTTukOmani convince chesEsariki maa vaaru van start chEsi raeDee gaa unnAru...
naenu,infact mEmu,amerikaa lO jarigE manavALLa peLLiki veLLaDam idE modaTi saari...kaabaTTi, naalO ikkaDi peLLiLLu elaa chestaarO ani okaTE kutoohalam ! aalayam aavaraNalO paarking taeliggaa dorakalEdu...nEnu,pillalu guDi daggira digi maa vaarini paarking spot vetukkOmani cheppAmu...
intalO akkaDiki blaak limo(car brand) vachchi aagindi...maga peLLi vaaru,aaDa peLLi vaaru antaa andulOnchi digaaru...peLLi kooturu,peLLi koDuku 'appuDE' kalisi digaaru...naaku okka kshaNam kottagaa anipinchinaa...idi amerikaa kadaa ani choostoo vunnAnu...evarO mangaLa vaayidyam cd 'ON' chEsaaru...mooDu camcorders lO shoot chEstunnAru..kemEraalalO flash lu klik manTunnAyi! peLLi kooturu poolajaDa...ikkaDa dorikae variety flowers anniTitoa ...flower vase laagaa bhalE tamaashaagaa vundi! peLLi koDuku manchi Daabugaa vunDE salwaar kameej lO naart inDiyan laagaa merisipotunnADu (maLLi antaa mana telugu vaaraenanDOy !) vadhUvarula tanDrulu sooT lalO vunnAru...ippuDu panchalu avii annii old fashion ayipoyAyi kadaa! Tempul mundu andaroo groop phoTOlu digutunnAru (peLLi ayyAka maekap cherigi glaamar taggipOtundannaTTu!) madhyalO kaabOyae vadhoovarulanu nilichObeTTi antaa phoToalu,vIDiyO lalO paDipOtunnAru.....!
manDapam alamkaraNa kooDA peLLi kooturi poola jaDa laagaanE verayiTeegaa undi...ee daeSaalalO kaLaa kaaruloo,kaarmikuloo vunDaru kanuka,chaalaa mandi software,business professionals yokka 'creativity' aa seT lO kanabaDutONdi.
aahutulni soukhyamgaa koorchO beTTE bAdhyata kurrALLu teesukunnAru.kontamandi 'POPS' (cool drinks...saaree ikkaDa aa maaTanTE vintagaa choostaaru!) supply chEstunnAru.
maa ammaayi naa pakkanE koorchundi...vaachee vanka padE padE choosukunTOndi...naalugu ganTalu eppuDu avutaayaa ani! intalO maa doorapu bandhuvulaaviDa vachchi palakarinchindi..chaalaa samvatsaraalayindi mEmu kalusukoni... kaburlu modaleTTAmu...maa ammAyini parichayam chEsaanu...'hello aunty' andi. 'you look pretty' andaaviDa...adi murisi pOyindi. vaaLLiddaru Thankyou,welcome lu ichchi puchchukunnAru. aaviDaki iddaru ammAyilaTa. daadaapu deeni eeDu vaaLLE...aaviDa vaaLLani pilichindi.Sivaani,snigdha vachchaaru..maa ammaayi mohamlO velugu,naa mohamlO relief okEsaari chOTu chEsukunnAyi...andaram kaburlalO munigipoyaamu..
maa bamdhuvulaaviDa evarO pilustunnArani telisi 'excuse me' ani lEchi veLLindi..nenu manDapam vankachoostunaanu...pillala kaburlu vinapaDtunnAyi...vaaLLu kaLyaaNa manDapam,peLLi kooturu,peLLi koDuku,akkaDi kurrALLu...ilaa chaalaa vaaTi meeda comments chEsukunTunnAru!
sTaejee meeda 'aadhunika aandhra vivaaha mahOtsavam ' praarambhamayindi. purOhituDu smart gaa,dynamic gaa vunnADu...Drassing traditional gaa unnA , rich gaa kanabaDutunnADu 'Daalar ki rupaayaki unna taeDaa laagaa....!' chaalaa mandi directors unnAru sTaejee meeda...maeyin lisT lO phoTOgraapharlu kooDA unnAru..mantraalu maik lO daeSI bhAShalO vinapaDutunnAy kaanee, sambhAshaNalalO maatram antaa imglIshu,hindii... okaTi, ara telugu palukulu...!
sootradhAraNa samayam vachchindi..maa daggaraki evarO vachchi akshintalu ichchaaru...pakkana pillalu teesukObOtunTE vaddani cheppi vALLaki reasoning istunnAnu...intalO vunnaTTunDi mangaLa vaayidyAla hoaru,joaru perigindi...peLLi koDuku taaLi kaTTESaaDu!
Sivaani andi, 'All these Indian customs and traditions are ridiculous'
vaishNavi: 'yeah most of the times stupid'
snigdha: 'yup ...I'm with you...'
naaku baadhagaa anipinchindi....tarvaata alOchinchaanu....manaki teliyani vaaTi gurinchi alaa maaTlADaTam sahajam kadaa ani...!
aa sanghaTana naalOni aalOchanaa dhOraNini prErEpinchindi....ee rOjulalO pillalni penchaDam responsibility tO kooDu kOvaDamE kaakunDaa chaalaa challenges tO muDi paDi undi.... prateedee 'Y'(why) tO modalavutundi.pillalaki ilaa cheyyAli ani cheppeTappuDu logical reasoning lEka scientific explanation ivvAli.
nEnu baagaa aalOchinchaDam modalu peTTAnu...mana aachaara vyavahaaraala venuka kaaraNaalu telusukOvAlanna kutoohalam perigindi...mangaLa sootram , kaali paTTeelu, maTTelu,boTTu,gaajulu...ivannI dharinchaDam mana tarataraala saampradaayam...kaanii ee taram pillalu sampradaayam, sadaachAram venuka vunna asalu uddESam telusukOvAlanukunTunnAru..peddavALLu cheppinadaaniki 'DU DU basavanna laa tala oopamanii,peddavALLu chEsinadi guDDigaa anukarinchamanii anTunnAru'...
alaa modalayina naa kutoohalam chaalaa nelala pariSOdhanaku daari teesindi...naaku telisina peddavaaLLanu kalisinappuDu,inTar neT lO chadivina articles aadhaarangaa samakoorchina informaiton ni andaritO panchukOvaalani anipinchindi!
vaishNavi puTTina rOju paarTi ki, Sivaani,snigDhalani kooDaa aahwaaninchaamu. paarTii ayidu ganTalakayitE,mooDu ganTalakallA, pillalni maa inTlO drop cheyyamani vaaLLa ammagaaritO cheptE, aaviDa alaagE chEsaaru.
vaishNavi vALLiddarinii tana roomki teesuku veLLindi.
nEnu Pops,snacks pampinchaanu...kaasepayyAka,nenu vALLa gadilOki veLLi,mana traditions gurinchi vALLatO mATlADAlani anTE,vALLu great! anTuu Sraddhagaa vinasaagaaru...
'manam EdainA custom follow ayyEmundu daani venuka unna reason telistE entO santOshamgaa,ishTamgaa follow avvachchu...adE guDDigaa mana peddavALLu cheppAru kadaa ani chEstE daani meeda anta interest unDadu...pratee custom venuka scientific reason unTundi...adi teliyaka manam , 'Blind Superstition' ani koTTipArEstunTaamu!'
Sivaani:exactly aunty! meeru cheppindi chaalA correct! ani nannu encourage chEsindi.
udaaharaNaki, manamE kALLaku paTTIlu peTTukunTunnAmu?magavaaLLu enduku peTTukOru? Accupressure theory prakaaram - mana naraala chivarlu paadaalu,arachEtulu daggira unTaayi' kaali maDima daggira female reproductive organ nerves enD avutaayi.kaabaTTi paTTIlu vaaTini aarOgyamgaa unchaDaaniki help chestaayi! alaagE bangles/bracelets kooDaa...mana chetula wrist daggira uterus,inkaa vaerE reproductive organs enD avutaayi...so gaajulu kindaki paiki kadili nappuDu ee organs ni aarOgyamgaa unchutaayi annamaaTa! andukae peLLi ayina streelu eppuDU gaajulu vEsukOvAlanTaaru.
ika mangaLasootram vishayaaniki vastae...daani design prakaaram , daani poDavu chest krindi bhaagam varaku unTundi...aa pradaeSaanni solar plexus anTaaru....seat of emotions! manalOni chaalaa emotions ikkaDi nunchE puDataayi....jealousy,sadness,hatred iTuvanTivannI....
aaDavaarilO emotions ekkuvagaa vunTaayi...meeku telisE unTundi,chaalaa iLLaLLO attAkODaLLa madhya goDavalu jarugutoo unTaayi!
vaishNavi: avunammA....nEnu chaalaa dESI sinimaa lalO choosaanu!
kaabaTTi,mamgaLa sootram streelu emotional gaa break avvakunDaa help cheyyaDaaniki design chEyabaDindi...anduchEtanEmO, inDiyaalO divorce rate amerikaa lO kanTae takkuva!
ika boTTu vishayaaniki vastE....
snigdha: aanTee,chaalA saarlu maaku ee anubhavam eduru avutoo vunTundi...oka amerikan old lady vachchi,'what is that thing on your forehead? why do you put that? ani aDugutaaru. nEnu idi maa tradition lO bhaagam ani cheptunTaanu.inkontamandi peLLi ayitae aa 'DOT' vastundaa ani aDugutunTaaru...nEnu, kaadu adi ammAyi puTTinappaTinunchII peTTukunTindani cheppAnu...asalu boTTu enduku peTTukunTaarO cheppanDi aanTee!
tappakunDaa pillaluu...boTTubiLLallO ee madhya chaalA Dijain lu vachchaayi kaanee,(konni Dijain lu asalu boTTu undaa lEdaa annaTTu unTunnAyi!) idivaraku rOjulalO padipaisalu (daadaapu U.S.quarter saizu) anta saizulO boTTu peTTukunEvaaru...asalu boTTuni forehead meeda kanubomala kalayika paina peTTukunTaaru. ee sthAnam prAmukhyata emiTanTE,idi aajnA chakram (third eye anTunTaaru) bhaagam.Scientific gaa ayitE idi mana intutive center....6th sense ani anTunTaamu kadaa! manalOni creative energies,kOpam ikkaDa nunchE puDataayi.
oLLu teliyani kOpOdrEkam , eersha Asooyalu vanTi teevra bhaavaala nunDi streelaku rakshaNagaa ee kumkuma dhaaraNa erpaDindi.aaDavaarilOni sowjanyam , sowSeelyam , sowmyata ivE kadaa 'sweet home' ki aadharam ! aaDavaarikE kaadu magavaarikee ee tilakadhaaraNa aachaaram , aavaSyakata vundi.
'enta reasonable gaa chepparu aanTee!' ani snigdha mechchukundi.inkEm naalOni bhAvaavESam pellubalikindi.
upanyAsa dhOraNi vachchEsindi...mRuduvugaa gambheeramgaa modalupeTTAnu...
anduchEta ammAyiluu..meeku teliyani vishayaalu aDagaDaaniki mohamaaTa paDakanDi.maaku telisinavi mEmu cheptaamu.meeru mee ammamma,nAyanamma nunchi chaalA vishayaalu aDigi telusukOvachchu.meeku manchii,cheDDaa teliyajeppaDam maakentO santOsham.bhAratadESamlO prajalu moorkhulu,vaarivannI mooDhanammakaaluu,arthamlEni aachaaraalu anukuni teesipArEyakanDi.science and technology,customs & traditions, unnatamaina neitika,saamaajika viluvalni (values) taruvaata taraalaku andajEsina unnatamaina jaati manadi.ee vaarasatvaaniki manam garvinchaali.roopayitOnO,DaalartOnO lekka kaTTalEni ee sampadanu manam sam rakshinchukOvaali.manam kaapaaDi,mana future generations ki appacheppAli. 'stupid and rediculous customs' ani teesipaarEsE vaaLLaki OpiggA,artham ayyElaa cheppAli.adi mana duty.
naakayitE inkaa cheppAlanE vundi kaanii,ippaTiki idi chaalu samdarbham vachchinappuDu maLLI cheppavachchunani oorukunnAnu.
okaTE chappaTlu....
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