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Articles: My Thoughts | To all my beloved girl friends
- Ms. Nayana D
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Dear Friends,
This is so true! Wanted to tell u all how important u r for me!!
I am sure u will agree with what's written......won't u?
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Then start to read and tell me your's opinion..
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
'Don't forget your girl friends,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you'll have, you are still going to need girl friends. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them. And remember that 'girl friends' are not only your friends, but your sisters, your daughters, and other relatives too.
You'll need other women. Women always do.'
'What a funny piece of advice,' the young woman hought.
'Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake, a grownup, not a young girl who needs girl friends!
Surely, my husband and the family we'll start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her mother; she kept contact with her girl friends and made more each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mom really knew what she was talking about.
As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, girl friends are the mainstays of her life. After 50 years of living in this world, here is what I know about girl friends:
Girl friends bring you chicken curry and scrub your bathroom when you need help.
Girl friends keep your children and keep your secrets.
Girl friends give advice when you ask for it. Sometimes you take
it,sometimes you don't.
Girl friends don't always tell you that you're right, but they're usually honest.
Girl friends still love you, even when they don't agree with your choices.
Girl friends laugh with you, and you don't need canned jokes to start the laughter.
Girl friends pull you out of jams.
Girl friends help you get out of bad relationships.
Girl friends help you look for a new apartment, help you pack, and help you move.
Girl friends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby, in whichever order that comes!
Girl friends are there for you, in an instant and when the hard times come.
Girl friends listen when you lose a job or a friend.
Girl friends listen when your children break your heart.
Girl friends listen when your parents' minds and bodies fail.
Girl friends support you when the men in your life let you down.
Girl friends help you pick up the pieces when men pack up and go.
Girl friends rejoice at what makes you happy, and are ready to go out and kill what makes you unhappy.
Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call when they say they will.
But girl friends are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
Share this on to the women who help make your life work.
I just did :-)
Hope u too will do
wat u say?
:-)
Nayana
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