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It depends again it depends....!
- Mr. Kiran Kumar N**********

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Interestingly,whenever I try to decide future course of action or solve life problems, always my best possiblities used to arrive at the phrase 'It depends...!'; Though I applied different approaches, surprisingly, it used to reach the same phrase. My curiosity stuffed some questions in my mind, why every problem with so many solutions concludes at 'IT Depends..'. Are we unable to resolve to a conclusion,or do we need to adopt a different strategy, else, Is it the unique solution for all problems. Days and weeks of my pondering sarcastically left me same, of course funnily it got rephrased as 'Again...IT Depends...!'. After a while I had gone through a column written by a famous columnist, of course almost he too ended at the same phrase, this challenged me, and my battle ended in reverse engineering the phrase, the result is a simple and known fact, but by practicing it, it elevated me to a greater level of awareness. Let me share with you all,under the name of 'IT Depends..'. We get a different solution for a similar problem at different times or at same time for different people, because the conditions fluctuates or the people facing the situation changes though they may seem equal. At macro level,problems or people may seem equal; realistically, these only resembles, these are not equal. It doesn't mean these are unequal; precisely these are unique. Comparison arises between equal things,often we write or hear men are equal,which dominates the thought,but truly things or people are unique, equality is a myth. When the people and the circumstances are unique, naturally the solution will be unique,so we arrive at 'IT depends..'. though it is known, this simple reminder-enlightenment pruned my psychological barriers and lead me good. After honestly respecting uniqueness, I'm able to see friends, situations, priorities and others in different aspect with no or bare minimum comparison. Teasingly, this relieved my million dollar burden of breaking head over the mentality of my supposed to join life partner, because she is unique and she does have her own set of faculties under uniquely grown circumstances. The impact is good in career aspect also. I become more dedicated, practical and concentrating, because judging and comparing of others deeds and strategies reduced to a good level. Friends, when we truly respect uniqueness, there won't be any complaints, feeling of compromise, dislike and awful, there will be only understanding, respect of difference, love and every thing seems beautiful.

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