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Articles: My Thoughts | Disappointment - urchinni M
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This article is not my own, but just a compilation from an article originally written by Joyce Sequichie Hifler, a book, Awaken the Giant within - by anthony robbins and a quote by edison.
At these times when we have planned for something and have our hearts set on our affairs going in a certain direction but they
fail to materialize, we are disappointed. If we have any faith at all, we must remember that one door never closes but another opens. That which once seemed the right thing to plan for may not hold all the things that would be for our good in the long run. It may have been right in the beginning, but as time passes and other events come into being, a change may be necessary
for the benefit of the over-all picture.
Sometimes we fix our attention so rigidly on one thing, one part of life, one person, that a change throws us into a state of
extreme disappointment. But disappointment, like all of the emotions, can serve to strengthen rather than take away. The attitude with which we face life can determine its outcome.
We can look with woeful eyes on the negative mental attitude and wallow in self-pity, or we can flip the mind to the upper side
and let the positive mental attitude bring us to the strength and peace we need.
Disappointment is something no one has escaped. The many plans we make sometimes fade like mist in the sunlight. A cherished
dream may take another shape and to lose that vision can throw a dim view on all of life. Because one tiny part could not be fulfilled, we are so tempted to let all of the rest go with it.
But if only we could wait a bit. So often we then come to realize the reason for our change in plans. Sometimes disappointment is the very thing that keeps us mounting the steps upward, keeps us stretching our minds to understand. And it may test our spirits. For is disappointment can make a
spirit better, the joy of accomplishment would have soon soured.
There's no joy in a disappointment, but it may be the thing to save us from a life of mediocrity.
Passing Thought:
English novelist Edward George Bulwer-Lytton wrote,
'Man must be disappointed with the lesser things in life before he can comprehend the full value of the greater.'
[ Article by Joyce Sequichie Hifler ]
'No matter how prepared you are, there's one thing that I can absolutely guarantee: if you are on the river of life, it's likely that you are going to hit a few rocks. That'z not being negative; that'z being accurate. The key is that when you do run aground, instead of beating yourself up for being such a 'failure', remember that THERE ARE NO FAILURES IN LIFE. There are only RESULTS. If you didn't get the results you wanted, LEARN from this experience so that you have references about how to make BETTER decisions in the future.' - Anthony Robbins (From 'Awaken the Giant within' )
'I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward' - Thomas Edison
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