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Articles: My Experience | Teenage Pervertions - How Do They Affect Your Life?
- Mrs. manjari
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As a child grows into teen age, they are bound to have some physiological and mental changes which is natural. It is Body Chemistry.By the time a girl or a boy attain the age of 13 he is generally in 8th or 9th standard and he will find himself growing in all respects. At this age, they will have more influence from the environment they are growing and the school they are going and the company they keep with. We see many children getting into wrong things and spoiling their education and lagging behind in the class and becoming morose or perverted, if they are not guided properly by teachers and especially parents. These days, parents are becoming so busy in their lives, they hardly get time to know what their child is undergoing, because most of them are working parents. So, this leaves the child to himself or herself. Earlier children used to become TV addicts and now most of the children are becoming net-savvy. It does not matter, as long as they use it for their benefit. But in reality the chatting and net friends are so mis leading and this is the time, these kids get into all sorts of things. So, the result is their studies get affected and future becomes uncertain.
There are a bit more grown up children especially in foreign countries, they just use the freedom given to them and they start dating at an young age when they have to really work hard and build up their future. Here in foreign countries, parents have no right to punish their children because police come into picture. Children take it as an advantage. I heard a small child of 4 years threatening his grand father “if you yell at me, I will call police”. This is what spoils the basic discipline procedure. So, in that case, parents have to be more careful from the beginning and have time and patience to explain their children why they want them to do this or not to do that. We should never try to show our authority on children. It is difficult at times. But to mould their future, I feel one of the parents definitely should try to be close with children and spend time with them. They should act like friends and guide them. Children imbibe more things and without questioning when they are small. Once they grow they start questioning. So, let us all make a try to explain them things and they should be convinced about our principles and values and then only they will not become rebellious.
Secondly, for teenagers, my advise is draw your goals and work for them. Enjoy life in your limitations and do not overboard and do things which are against parents wishes. Parents are the only people who wish all the time good for children. Even if they get angry, it is for your own good. So please realise that and give respect and love to your parents efforts and their expectations about you. If you find your parents are expecting beyond your capacity or against your will, try to sit and talk to them. Explain them your interests to them and finally give them assurance that you are going to make your life a success and parents will feel more than happy. As a normal human being at every stage, we may have perversions or diversions but think twice before you are doing something different from the set standards and values or against parent’s wishes. See the child prodigies who are making mark in our country. For example Mr Suhas Gopinath who became a CEO at the age of 17 in Bangalore recently and leading a team of 350 employees in his company. It is all because he has used the cyber café for his fast growth and may be he is a specially gifted child. So our brains have so much capacity if we utilise them rightly and at right time.
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