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Articles: My Thoughts | Expectation leads to Disappointment
- Mrs. sharmila Sanka
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As said by a wise being, there are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. In order to make every moment in life a miracle, man thinks fulfilled expectations play an essential role and that he has every right to expect from his kith and kin.
Expectations are imaginations or thoughts on our part that the other person whom we do respect, love or care fulfils them undoubtedly. Nothing is wrong in having expectations. After all, life is an ‘Ocean of Expectations’ to an Optimistic man. He assumes his friends, dear and near should play a vital and encouraging role in his dramatic life. But when his expectations shatter when not fulfilled by them, he goes down to the level of utter disappointment. He goes to extreme ends thinking he should not expect anything from any person in the whole world. He slowly acts as a break to his good relationship with his friends and from then onwards misunderstanding occupies his heart and his mind with ego. Misunderstandings always welcome a human being’s life.
Is it wrong not to live up to another’s expectation? When one person has the right to expect from others, doesn’t the other person have the liberty to forbid himself from doing certain things? After all, life of a man is always towards and for freedom and choice. To cite few examples, a wife expects from a husband, friends from their friends and parents from their children. If they don’t live up to their expectations, they should not get raged with them. In fact they should learn a lesson to live a life not full of expectations as they lead to disappointments. Instead they have to move forward. If one is used to expectations and their fulfillment, he tends to become lazy and ungrateful.
Do not let your lives stop with disappointments. Step on to the ladder of disappointments in order to make your life a Success. Expecting should not become a habit. Every experience should be a lesson. Every lesson should be an addition to our miraculous chapter of life. Only then will the book of Realization occupy a little place in each and every heart in the world spreading happiness through out. One’s expectation need not be a necessity to the other. As it is often said, bad planning on my part does not necessarily constitute an automatic emergency on your part.
“Man’s one and only expectation should be God’s Eternal Love.” -Sharmila Sanka
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