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Articles: My Thoughts | Sex needs mind than body
- Viplove K
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The important thing which makes the world to exist is Sex. But we seldom talk about it frankly. It is considered as one of prime motive for many crimes. For Sexual pleasure wars happened in history. For this pleasure, women were dumped as prostitutes, raped. After all that is nothing but a basic biological need of every organism on earth. But, it leads to lot of perversions and almost spoils the goodness in the minds of people.
Human being is like every other animal according to biology. But the high intelligence in our brain made us supreme powers among living creatures. But it is so pitiable that being so intelligent many of us behave so stupidly when it comes to the matter of sex.
Humans are behaving worse than animals in this sex aspect. Sex has become a mean to get money, fame, popularity, influence, revenge, everything. The basic feeling of love in it is getting vanished. Sex, which is meant for reproduction, took quite a different shape, and new ways were invited to have sex without reproducing.
Many people that good bodies give lot of pleasure in Sex, and so good looking bodies, with curves, muscles, skin color, became a sort of assets to show off and to sell or rent. We all know of the high prices of some prostitutes, may be in modeling and film fields, who are branded as 'SEXY'. And men are also no exceptions, as there are male prostitutes too.
But what’s that making a person sexy? Tight outfits, exposure of all curves, heights and fragrance of bodies? If anyone of these bodily things are really SEXY and able to give pleasure to others, why they are not getting confined to that particular prostitute?? Why they still want to look at Sexy scenes and enjoy other bodies? If really a beautiful body can give lot of pleasure in bed, why many people who have beautiful spouses are still looking for other sexual contacts?
In life, we meet every kind of face and body. Many of them won’t look good. Parents or neighbours or classmates or colleagues, anyone of them may look ugly with squint or rashes over face or pimples, physically disabled, caries tooth etc, but still we like many of them. And we like to see the faces of many such, though we first started talking to them with an aversion to see them.
We always feel very relaxed when we see the faces of our mother or sister or brother, even if they look ugly. Then why we think that our spouses who share bed with us should be good looking? Can a beautiful body without a loving heart inside, satisfy us sexually? I don’t think so.
I feel there is a lot of pleasure in just lying on bed, hugging our loved one, than doing Sexual acts. A man needs to be hugged with love, when he finished his part in sex. A man can never feel the ultimate pleasure just by ejecting semen. He has to feel secured, he can’t get pleasure when he starts worrying about condom removal or paying money for that body. Unless he feels that he is like a baby for the woman with whom he is sleeping he can never feel good.
Similarly a woman needs to stay along with the man, listening his caring words, atleast his heart sounds and likes his caressing fingers over her forehead than actual Sex. This is what is called LOVEMAKING. But it is misunderstood that lovemaking means Sex. Every Sex episode is not lovemaking. And a man and woman are so close to each other in semidarkness, they see each other through their conscience than eyes, and for that sight the loved one looks very beautiful.
Just having a beautiful body is of no use at that time, it needs a beautiful mind which can love, give that love successfully and can be loved.
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