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Articles: My Thoughts | vaivaahika jIvitam vijayavantam chEsukunEdelaa?
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'peLLi' anEdi strI purushuliruvurikI tama bhAvaalu panchukoni, kashTa suKhAlalO pAlupanchukoni, okarikokaru AsarAgA nilabaDEnduku jIvitAniki avasaramaina tODu. peLLi chEsukonE prativAru tamaku onTaritanamu nunDi vimukti kalugutundanO, nA anipinchE vyakti dorukutundanO, ardhikamugA , maanasikamugA AsarA labhistundanO ASistAru. vaivaahika jIvitamulO suKha , SAntulu unDETlu chEsukonuTa sulabham kAdu gAni sAdhyamE..anduku avasaramaina aidu mukhyamaina vishayAlni ikkaDa charchinchadaluchukunnAnu.
1.prEmaabhimaanamulu (mutual love and respect)
bhAryAbhartaliruvuri madhya eDategani prEmAbhimAnamulu chedarani viSvAsam unDaTam anEdi chAlA avasaram. A prEmAbhimAnAlE vAriruvuri madhya gauravam , snEham penchututAyi. bhAryAbhartala madhya eppuDU mUDO vyakti pramEyam unDarAdu. okka trATi mIda naDichE aikamatyam unDAli.aDugulu renDu naDaka okkaTi, manasulu renDu mATa okkaTilA unDAli.
2.Orpu (forbearance)
tana bhArya/bharta nUTiki nUru SAtam karakTugA unDAli, E vidhamaina avalakshaNAlu , lOpAlu lEni AdarSavantulai unDAli ani ASinchaTam KachChitamgA ASAbhangAniki dAritIstundi. endukanTE prati vyaktilO manchi,cheDu renDU unTAyi. nityam eduTivArilO tappulu vetikEvAru manam E dOshAlu lEni vAramai unnAmA ani tamaku taamu praSninchukOkapOvaTamE vaivAhika jIvitamlO samasyalanu konitestundi. vivAhamaina kottalO annI bAgAnE unnaTlunTAyi.nemmadigA okari lOpAlu okariki teliyaTam valla asalu samasyalu talettutAyi. nIvu goppA lEka nEnu goppA anE vAgyudhdhAlu modalavutAyi. oDiduDukulatO UgisalADE samsAra sAgara taTam pai kUrchoni kaTTukunna isuka bommarinTini samasyala keraTAlu urakalu vEstU nElamaTTam chEstunTE nirASapaDaka edurkonuTaku chAlA Orpu avasaram.
3.naitika samardhana (Moral support)
kashTAllO unnapuDu, paristhitulu astavyastamugA gOcharinchinappuDE okarinokaru ardham chEsukoni, eppuDU tODugA unnAmanE manO sthairyAnni ivvagalagAli. aikamatyamE balamannaTlu iruvuru kalisi enni samasyalanaina avalIlagA edurkonavachchu. kashTAlalO iddaru kRungipOyinaTlayina A illu narakamE avutundi.
4.maaTallO prEmanu vyaktaparachaTam ( communication or convey )
appuDappuDu manasulO okari pai okariki unna prEma, gauravAnni bahirgataparachaTam chAlA avasaram. alA chEyaTam valla vaivAhika jIvitamlO sthabdata unDadu. okaru lEnidE marokariki jIvitamE lEdanna bhAvana vAri aikyatanu penchutundi.
5.bAdhyatalu panchukonuTa (Sharing of responsibilities)
bhArya bhartaliruvurU kuTumbamulO kala bAdhyatalapai sariyaina avagAhana kalavArai tama vantu bAdhyatalanu sakramamugA nirvartinchAli. A bAdhyatA nirvahaNalO kUDA okarikokaru mitrula vale vyavaharistU salahA sampradimpulu chEsikOvaTam entO avasaram. avasaramaitE nI, nA anE bEdham lEka bAdhyatalanu ummaDigA kUDA panchukonagalagAli. eppaTikappuDu bhAryagA / bhartagA, tamatama bAdhyatalanu sakramamugA nirvartistunnAmA lEdA ani evarikivAru praSninchukoni tana lOpAlanu gurtinchi tAnugA sarididdukOgalagAli. oka vELa okarikokaru cheppadalachukunnapuDu nindApUrvakamugA kAka lAlanagA hitavu cheppinaTlu mAtramE unDAli gAni vAri ahAnni kinchaparachinaTlu unDarAdu. gAyapaDina manasulO dvEsham peruguTa kashTam kAdu. A dvEshamE anni samasyalaku mUlam. anduchO gAyaparichETaTlu, eduTivArini sAdhinchutunnaTlu mana panulu, mATalu unDarAdu.
VaivAhika jIvitamlO samasyalu talettuTaku oka rakamgA paina udaharinchina vishayAllO ekkaDO lOpam jarugutunnadanE. inkA ikkaDa nEnu udaharinchani kAraNAlu kUDA ennO unDachchu.
chivarigA nEnu viditaparachadaluchukunnadi peLLanTE pandiLLU ,lOgiLLu ,tappeTlu ,tALAlu ,talambrAlu , mUDE muLLu, EDE aDugulu, mottam kalipi nUrELLE kAka prEma , sahanam , anyOnyata , bandhAlu , bAdhyatalu kUDAnanna vishayamE.
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