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Articles: My Thoughts | To marry or be merry?
- Mr. Siri Siri
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The most haunted question today for any bachelor or spinster is 'Are you married?' why not? Is it that one can't be happy without getting married. It is like to be kissed in maternal bliss or be kicked out of bachelorhood. Though not very averse to the idea of getting married but then it takes a lot of searching to find your better half lest it become your bitter half.
It is just not a coming together of 2 souls but it should be music in harmony not out of tune.
Then there always remains the fine line of what you are looking for and what is to be compromised upon.
I, like any other guy to break his bachelorhood, started my routine to check girls out. The avid question put forward is why are you still a bachelor. I had my obvious reasons but prefered to check out if the girl appreciated my sense of humour. Since I was the kind always to reply back to every question I had devised many answers to this obvious question.
Q. So why are you not married yet?
A. I thought I could be gay all this while and now I want to get married to prove myself wrong.
Another one could be::
My father after marriage might come up and ask me 'You always get kissed by my wife now I want a kiss from your wife.'
Getting married is a good thing and it should be religiously followed. You reach a stage in life when you need someone more than a friend to share your thoughts, feelings and secrets (not leaving out taking out your frustrations too.) A good friend in your spouse is what is essential. If you can't be friends, you can't be life partners. There has to be a good and smooth communication. There has to be chemistry involved too. The presence of the girl and boy should give a chemical reaction not just produce results of salt and water.
They say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. But the fact remains that looks do matter say whatever and your partner has to be appealing enough too.
Definition of a heavenly marriage: American salary, Indian wife, Chinese food and British accommodation.
Definition of marriage in hell: American wife, British food, Chinese accommodation and Indian salary. Need more?
It is also said that divorce is the future tense of marriage. But if you want to live out the marriage, live in the present and forget the past and keep out the future. It is therefore wisely said that if you lookout for what you want in your partner you will never have to look at the future tense of marriage.
Love marriage or arranged marriage?
Love marriage is good but arranged marriage is better. The most defeating factor of a love marriage is if the girl has fallen in love with you to go for a love marriage, there is always a probable chance of she falling in love again. In case of love marriage it would be difficult getting the parents to agree to get you married again. At the end of the day a marriage that works is good.
The grass is always greener on the other side. After committing a person feels that he could have got something better and there are always more expectations out of him/her. Don't go ahead with a decision assuming that the person will change and that you can bring about that change.
Nature has its own law and according to law of nature man is a social animal. So a man is expected to marry as it legitimates a sexual relationship.( According to the dictionary meaning of the word, marriage).
So go ahead muster the courage and marry.
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