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Articles: My Thoughts | Love or Arranged Marriage?
- Mrs. sharmila Sanka
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Love and Arranged Marriages are two paths leading to the goal of Married Life.Path is quite different for both.Love is so full of love and sacrifice but it should not sacrifice love itself for someone else.
People who are for love marriages-Loving at first sight is not great.If you are really daring,only then go for love.Falling in love is not great.Living in love is all that matters.
If you are so sentimental and a person who cannot convince your parents regarding love marriage,then do not go for love marriage.Inner and outer looks are important for any life in general.Just do not go crazily for outer looks alone.Those will not feed your heart and soul your entire life.Inner beauty does so.At last if you are one who really lives love ,who is daring ,who can be her security her whole life especially in her inlaws' house.......it's then you are worthy of loving a person whom you can make her your life partner.
People who are for arranged marriages.....well and good.You might not have any problems(from your elders)as your marriage is fixed by your parents.Here love lasts long as it is not 'love at first sigh't or infatuation.Love at first sight is true but it is more meaningful and fruitful if that first look lasts till the end.
In conclusion please don't mind me saying this......
Love marriage = Digging one's own pit
Arranged marriage = Parents' digging your pit.
Pit here doesn't mean hell or anything....it means responsibility...who is responsible for what at the end. So inorder not to make it a tough pit,it is always better for both husband and wife to follow certain DO's and DO NOT's to make each other's life happy.
-No matter what level of education or wealth couple is at.Remember they are the same at heart.
-Never compare with any other couple (we always see only good in that couple and bad in ours and viceversa regarding that couple) Each one has good and bad .
-Never have any grudge or ill feeling towards inlaws(very uncommon but).Even if you have do not express it or tease each other's inlaws.After all you both is all that matters .
-Especially working women,never say 'my money,iam earning too'.Never a true husband complaints about he earning with great effort or hard work.Money is same who ever earns.
-The best way to enter husband's heart is through stomach(women-relish the moment by cooking well and earning a little praise)
-At last just imagine your life without each other.That is the real hell.We need each other to share happiness, sorrow, laughter, life, love of children and so on and so forth.
So live every day not to hurt each other and to make each other's life happy atleast not hurting.At the end of the day think for your self 'did i hurt him/her today?if so how can I be little careful not to repeat it the next day?Then i'm sure life is good any time for both of them at any circumstances good or bad.
Smile at each other so that together you can smile at life no matter how life cries.
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