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Articles: My Thoughts | RELATIONSHIP SECRETS
- Mr. Mohan
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DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's
throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences,
appreciate them.
FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The
longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful
that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still
the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot. Hear each other
out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be
worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of
the fight.
FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there
are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you
go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.
FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that
was there in the early days.
Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open
etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd
side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities,
adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.
GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your
bond intact if your views are complete opposite.
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