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Articles: My Thoughts | In the name of Love
- Ms. kiran A
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Is It Love Or Lust?
Love is loyal.Love is wanting the best for the other person.Love is compromising and working things out in a way that you both can win. Love is finding common ground. Love is trying to come together in a way that makes the world a better place. Love is selfless. Love is caring about the other person’s emotional needs and feelings.
What Lust is…
Lust is self-gratification. Lust can be obsessive. Lust is usually tied to sexual gratification. Lust is selfish. Lust doesn’t consider the other persons wants and needs. Lust doesn’t care about how the other person’s day went. When someone’s in lust they aren’t interested in meeting family or friends. Lust is wanting something to the point that you don’t care who gets hurt. Lust manipulates, destroys and controls. Lust often involves raging. People who lusts may think they are in love, but the fire burns out quickly when they get the person or thing they lust for. Lust doesn’t last, but love can.
We all want to fall in love. Why? ....
We all want to fall in love. Why?....Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.'
As well as physical attraction, many people are drawn to someone who shares the same interests. All of us carry with us a psychological blueprint, holding details about our life experiences and the marks they've left. It contains information we often haven't acknowledged about our fears and anxieties and our coping mechanisms and defences.Each of us has an unconscious capacity to scan another person's blueprint. The people we're most attracted to are those who have a blueprint that complements our own. We're looking for similarities of experience but, more significantly, we're also looking for differences.
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