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Articles: My Thoughts | Jealousy and Insecurity
- Ms. kiran A
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Alway remember ,, jealousy reflects self-interest and self-love, rather than mutual 'true love'.Being rejected doesn't mean you are no good.Be honest with your loved ones ,this honesty is usually the best way to handle jealousy.the most important thing to remember is: 'I am a valuable, lovable person regardless of whether Anybody love me or not. It hurts but I can handle it. I'll get on with my life.'
What is insecurity?
'There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up.'
Insecurity : an emotion of general unease or nervousness without obvious cause or purpose
Insecurity is Feeling of not being ``good enough'' to meet the challenge of a situation you face,
Sense of helplessness in the face of problems, conflict, or concerns.
Belief that one is inadequate or incompetent to handle life's challenges
Fear of being discovered as inadequate, ill fitted, or unsuited to meet responsibilities at home, school, or on the job.
Sense of always climbing up a mountain, never being able to reach the top.
Sense of lacking support or reinforcement where you live, work, or play.
Results from a sense of being unaccepted, disapproved, or rejected.
A person who is insecure lacks confidence in their own value and capability. This is not to be confused with being humble, which involves recognising one's failings but still maintaining a healthy dose of self-confidence. Insecurity is not an objective evaluation of one's ability but an emotional interpretation, as two people with the same capabilities may have entirely different levels of insecurity.
Insecurity may cause shyness and social withdrawal, or alternatively it may encourage compensatory behaviours such as arrogance, aggression, or bullying, a principle enshrined in the phrase 'all bullies are cowards ('this saying is in fact fallacious, as some bullies are not cowards, ).
Insecurity has many effects in a person's life. It nearly always causes some degree of isolation as a typically insecure person withdraws themselves to some extent. The greater the insecurity, the higher the degree of isolation.
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