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Articles: My Thoughts | In the name of Love
- Ms. kiran A
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How To Know When It's Over...
There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.
Breakup signs are often very difficult to spot, primarily because the people involved often do not want to admit that the relationship has failed. And unless something comes along and hits them in the face, telling them it's over; the natural tendency is to try to work through the problems. This happens more so when the couple have been together for a while.
The question that remains, therefore, is at what point do you really know that it's over?
1.You argue non-stop about everything. You can't agree on anything.
2.You catch your lover in the act of having an unforgivable affair.
3.Your lover uses verbal, physical violence against you.
4.Your partner cuts you down, makes you feel bad about yourself, and constantly devalues your goals and ideas.
5.You find that you cannot stand their annoying little habits, and they won't change.
6.You find it impossible to be yourself around your partner.
The above are obvious, any of the three things occurring above, are sure signs that the relationship is coming to an, often abrupt, end.
Under no circumstances should anyone stay in a relationship that is bad for them, just because they feel that being in a relationship, even a bad one, is better than being alone.
The most common instance of this is when one of you is INTENTIALLY holding the other one back. When two people have separate dreams and goals, friction can occur, especially if neither of them are willing to compromise. In some instances, however, jealousy leads one of the partner's to be excessively controlling of the other. In these situations, if they are UNRESOLVABLE, it is better to leave than stay.
'If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you've made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.'
Some things are impossible .....just try to realise how much is possible !
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