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General Forum: Society | | Marriage ceremony has become a farce now a days wasting lot of money and losing its significance. | |
| Really ? No good returns ( gifts ) waste of food cost.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 2, Dec 2003 10:31:39 PM IST
On one side women fight for equal rights and on the other they are responsible to the demands of groom than the men folk.So if this practice is to be discouraged women leadres need to take the lead and encourage simple marriages.
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 29, Nov 2003 12:51:27 PM IST
Srujna,meeru cheppandhi correcte kaani problem ekkada ante..if see the history of dowry,it started as a "gift" from bride's parents according to their status.Slowly it became compulsory whether bride's parents r poor or rich..So marriage yentha grand ga chesina(again valla status ki taggatu..no appulu pls) dowry anedhi maathram unda koodadhu.
Posted by: విజయ్ At: 28, Nov 2003 3:44:57 AM IST
Evariki ela nacchithe ala valla valla pillalla pellillu chesukuntaru.. madhyalo manam evarimi cheppataniki? vaalla dabbu valla ishtam..
as long as its not forced upon... hey who cares????
evaraina.. pillala pelli bhramandam gane cheyyalanu kuntaru...
aakasamantha pandiri vesi...cheyyalani anukunte ala cheyyagala shakti unte alane chesukuntaru..
register marriage cheyyalanukunnavallu ala chesukuntaru..
gudilo pelli chesukovalanu kunna vallu gudilo chesukuntaru...
velli nalugu akshintalu vesi randi.... :)
Posted by: Mugdha At: 28, Nov 2003 2:11:28 AM IST
Celebrations; Loosing business.
In future festivals come under this category?
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 27, Nov 2003 5:29:48 PM IST
I think the best way to bring a stop to this farse is to encourage arranged love marriages giving priority to the couple involved rather than to the family heads of both the parties.
earlier when a middle class family member likes to improve his standard of living by marriage throwing the weight of providing everything to brides party and blame it on elders these so called middle class families only encouraged this practise hoping that they get their turn some other day. it has become a social status to spend lavishly in the case of affluent familes because they have means and the middle class families too followed that example in their anxiety to prove that they do not lag behind.Thus this has become a nessary evil to marriage ceremonies.
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 27, Nov 2003 12:13:35 PM IST
i don't know how many of the participants are serious about what they stated here but it is gratifying to note that majority feel that it is a waste of money as well as cumbersome to middle class families like the majority and why not we propagate against this menace and try to get a n ordinence passed with the effect that these unnecessary expenditure is a crime and one has to meet the punishment by way of penalty if one is found to be resorted to these anti social acts and if they are unavoidable due to obvious reasons let the groom party give donation of equal sum to the government in suppoert of some socially useful projects like mass marriages and house building projects to the weaker sections of the society? Let us know what others say?
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 27, Nov 2003 10:00:24 AM IST
ento janala pichi gaani. asalu pelli endukandi. hayiga samsaram chsukondi pelli lekundane evaru vaddantaru.
antha ekkuva spend chesi marriage chesukoka pothe ee medya chennai consulate lo H4(dependent) Visa ivvatam ledanta. normal register marriage chesukuni photos teesuku pothe meeku nijangane pelli ayyindaa ani adugutunnaaru anta. ento manishiko pichi mahilo sumathi ani.
Posted by: chantabbayi At: 26, Nov 2003 7:12:10 PM IST
dowry is a definte no-no. but the exhorbitant wedding expenses could be because of the familiar argument: that wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime thing, so we should share the celebration with as many people as possible
(i am not supporting this view, just stating it)
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 26, Nov 2003 4:05:32 PM IST
yes, u r right SDB. But even though everybody feels the same why things remain the same?
Posted by: Mr. jogarao pilla At: 26, Nov 2003 3:41:27 PM IST
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