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General Forum: Love | | Marriage - Conditional or Unconditional love -- Part 2 | |
| Happened to read this some 7-8 years back and I still love reading it againa nd again .. some of the statements happento be my all-time fav. quotes
MARRIAGE - What it means for MEN?
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Life is indeed cruel to men. When they are born their
mothers get compliments & flowers, when they get married their brides
get presents & publicity & when they die their wives get the sympathy &
the insurance money. I sincerely believe that whosoever termed the
fair sex as the weaker sex has done an unfair thing since the weaker
sex is indeed the stronger sex because of weakness of the stronger
sex for the weaker sex.
The world is full of men who convert this weakness
into a lifelong bondage,euphemistically called 'MARRIAGE '.Alas, they
forget that as bachelors they were longingly looked upon by the weaker
sex as a thing of beauty and BOY forever & they roamed around like a
rolling stone that gathers no boss. But unwittingly, like fools, they
rush into a venture where even angles fear to tread. they are perhaps
too innocent to realise that marriage is the name of the game where
the man loses his bachelor's degree & the woman gets her master's
degree.
But different bachelors have different compulsions to
walk into this bondage. Sometimes stealing a kiss leads to
"life imprisonment " - a perfect example of crime & punishment . Some
others walk into this trap after calculating that it is cheaper to
marry a girl & keep her home than not to marry & take her out.
But those who marry in haste repent in leisure also.
It is true that marriages are made are made in heaven but when the
couple join hands on the earth it becomes just another union that
defies management. As the resonance of marriage recede into the
background the notes of discord start appearing and the better half starts
looking like the bitter half. it does not take long for the man to
wander what happened to the girl he married & for the girl to
wonder what happened to the man she didn't. But most often the discord
happens on account of the average husband's ambition to be able
to afford what his wife is spending. As it always happens in such
cases, the joint account is never over_drawn by the wife,it is always
under_deposited by the husband.
Old couples however say that such differences between
husband & wife are only spice of conjugal relationships; for where
there is no difference there must be a vast degree of indifference.
The harmony arising out of love is the essence that sustains
martial happiness. It has certain well defined secrets. To be happy with
a man you must love him a little & understand a lot. To be happy with
a woman you have to love her a lot & understand her a little.
Mutual trust & confidence is the other touchstone of martial harmony,
as every husband expects himself to be his wife's first love while
every wife hopes herself to be her husband's last romance.
In the ultimate analysis,however,marriage turns out
to be an American cafetaria : you choose what you like & pay for it
later.
What you pay & how much you pay depends upon your luck. For, it
take quite a bit of luck to make a wife out of a woman. Remember !
God created Woman after Man, and ever since then she has been after
man.
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Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 31, Oct 2004 4:24:33 PM IST
ohh shut up
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Posted by: Ananth Chivukula At: 28, Oct 2004 9:05:41 PM IST
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Posted by: Ananth Chivukula At: 29, Oct 2004 7:27:01 PM IST
Posted by: Jasmine Meera At: 29, Oct 2004 11:57:16 PM IST
"Hey! How could you manage multiple projects at a time?"
and I had to tell him "get married first .. you'll learn to manage anything on earth!"
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 30, Oct 2004 0:47:00 AM IST
@ROFL :-)
ee serious thread ni funny thread gaa maarchaaru kada chalaa anandam gaa undi ur g8 !!!!!!!
Posted by: Jasmine Meera At: 29, Oct 2004 11:42:53 PM IST
Meera jasmine gaaru silent ayipoyaaremitabba ee thread lo ???
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 29, Oct 2004 11:19:57 PM IST
Gee thx Priya .. tell u what! One day one of my colleagues asked me
"Hey! How could you manage multiple projects at a time?"
and I had to tell him "get married first .. you'll learn to manage anything on earth!"
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 29, Oct 2004 10:47:00 PM IST
Ramu Srinivas -- guess u are getting too personal .. Admin's eagle eye is watching ya...
shall I say "The End" too, before this explodes into another tussle at personal level?
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Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 29, Oct 2004 5:32:54 PM IST
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Posted by: Ananth Chivukula At: 28, Oct 2004 9:05:41 PM IST
Posted by: Jasmine Meera At: 29, Oct 2004 7:44:53 AM IST
Hot handle, you are too hot to handle!
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 28, Oct 2004 9:59:38 PM IST
Good one !!!!
@Malakpet rowdy gaaru!
Posted by: Jasmine Meera At: 28, Oct 2004 5:22:23 PM IST
Most of the arranged marriages these days are a failure because girl loves somebody in college, gets married to somebody else after college and doctors name that disease as "Multiple Personality". Atleast this is true for Indians. Girls parents are to blame in this matter as they fail to look who is there in their daughter's heart.
Posted by: Mr. Naaketeleedu Neekenduku At: 27, Oct 2004 11:45:20 PM IST
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