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General Forum: Society | | Equalization of Men n Women in current situations in the Society | |
| ko^LLule^vu ki^LLu le^vu baaTa bedaru edo^ alaa vraasaa
namaste^ ke.em`ji intaki jaani^vaakar` eppuDistunnaaru
avunanDi arjunagaaru anupamagaaru alaanTi vaaLLuku^Daa unDochchunu
Thank you kirtiji
aTlaane hari^ji
Thank you Yamakinkaragaaru
Posted by: Mr. Bhaskar At: 9, Feb 2006 10:03:24 PM IST
bhaaskar gaari po^sT chadivina tarvaata Troomen sho^ laa bhaaskar ni peTTi tiyyaalanipisto^ndi. :)
Posted by: Mr. Yama Kinkarudu At: 9, Feb 2006 8:05:39 PM IST
looks like some pulihora discussion here with a lot of pulusu!
IMHO...
parents ni chusukotaniki sons' responsibility elagu untundi so kootullu kooda enduku? anduke I think, from a Son-IL's point of view vaalla IL's ni choosukovataniki vaalla abbayilu untaarule anna dheemaa, its a different story if the poor IL's of SIL dont have boys then they should have planned their life accordingly or should have got an illarikam type bakra! Here I am talking about monetary support only!
okeez pulihora contest ki na entry kuda padinattena?
Posted by: చంటోడు At: 9, Feb 2006 6:28:51 AM IST
Hi Son Of God garu,
this is just discussion andi..take it easy..there is no personal arguments..
i wanted to see how people respond to such situations....
all ladies who look at this will think if they are not into...if they are..then they will give out positive views..
inka guys...so called hubby's also get the thought or try to discuss...
i have been seeing fun n entertainment topics going on here....for a change we shuld see how the views are on certain typical issues too...
so take it easy..
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 9, Feb 2006 2:46:15 AM IST
enni kOLLu lAginchAru bhAskargArU, intalEsi rASAru! A@m ippaTivarakU bAnE unnA
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 9, Feb 2006 0:19:12 AM IST
inne^LLaji^vitamlo^ attamaamalichchina kaTna kaanukalalo^ okka paisaa ku^Daa muTTale^du tanake^ vadile^saa ku^DabeDataaundi.....ni^ku kashTaalochchinappuDu AdukunTaa ane^ abhayaannimaatramistundi......kaTTukunna dharmaaniki.....po^shistu^ unnaa..unnantalo^ e^lo^Tu^ raakunDaa....tanu ku^Daa...tana saparyalato^...ruNamu ti^rchukonTu^...unnadi...okarikinkokaramu to^Du..ni^Da
hallo^ baaTasaari bedaru^ baagunnaavaa?
Posted by: Mr. Bhaskar At: 8, Feb 2006 11:46:15 PM IST
enduko^gaani chaalaa mandi vishayaalalo^ attaako^Dalu kalasi unDaru
inke^mundi ADo^LLu Dabbuchchi gurraanni konTaaru kaLLemuku^Daa che^tilo^ paTTukunTaaru i^ gurraanni attadaggiraki po^kunDaa tega jaagratta paDataaru (kondari vishayamulo^ nijamu kaakapo^vachchunu)
koDukulaki kanna tallidanDrulami^da pre^ma unTundi alaane^ baagaa Dabbunna attamaamalami^da ku^Daa pre^ma unTundi
ATlaane^ bhaaryaki puTTinTivaari mi^da ekkuva abhimaanamunTundi adi sahajam evari tallidanDrulami^da vaaLLaki abhimaanam unTundi
sare evari mi^da evariki abhimaanamunna attamaamalani tallidanDrulanu okave^La nissahaaya sthitilo^nunTe^ che^yu^ta nivvaali adi ku^Daa tanaki maalina dharmamu che^yaku^Dadu alaagani vaaLLani vadile^yamani kaadu bhaarya bhartaliddariki samaanamugaa kannavaaLLani chu^se^ baadhyata unTundi
bhartagaa ikkaDa talli bhaarya vishayamulo^ chaalaa jaagrattagaa unDaali talli kaani tanDrikaani bhaaryapai cheppina maaTalu vini vadile^yaali alaane^ bhaarya attamaamalapai cheppina maaTalani oka chevito vinaali inkoka chevito vadile^yaali okaripai inkokariki chaaDi^lu cheppaku^Dadu
talli daggaraki po^yi ammaa nuvvanTe maa AviDaki chaalaa ishTam ani cheppaali alaane^ bhaaryadaggiraki po^yi aTlaane^ cheppaali bhaaryaki e^dikonnaa talliki cheppaku^Dadu alaane talliki e^dikonnaa bhaaryaki cheppaku^Dadu antaa e^mi^ teliyanaTlugaa unDaali
ika ADapaDuchulaki mana saampradaayamu prakaaramu ento^ konta ivvaka tappadu alaanTappuDu bhaarya okave^La kaalallo^ kaalu peDite^ gi^to^pade^Sam cheyyaali
ni^ku mi^ anna dammulu kaanukalistaaru kanuka ne^nu maa chellellakistaananaali e^do^ oka vidhamgaa sardi cheppaali alaanTappuDu bhaaryaki ku^Daa edo^okaTi koni santRupti parachaali nityamu mana venTe^ unTaaru kanuka bhaaryaki ekkuvakaalamu kahaani^lu cheppale^mu
chaalaa varaku bhaaryaki inTiki sambhandinchina Dabbu vyavahaaram vadileyyaali alaa ani mari^ amaayakamgaa unDoddu appuDappuDu talli danDrulakivvavalasi vastundi kanuka konchem prakkana peTTuko^vaali ji^tam techchi baarya che^tilo^ peDite^ e^ goDavaa unDadu
magavaaLLu Dabbu vRudhaa che^staaru ade^ ADaaLLaite^ Dabbuto^ kashTakaalamlo^ panikochche^ve^ che^staaru ammo^v` i^ bhartane^To^Du ji^vitaantamu unTaaDani nammakamule^du appuDu samsaaramelaa gaDavaali ani tega Alo^chinchi tega ku^DabeDutunTaaru Dabbulu ante^ anta jaagrattagaa unchutaaru
ika Dabbulu sampaadinchina ammaayila gurinchi cheppanakkarale^du jara pantam mudirite^ nuvventa anTe^ nuvventa anTaaru
baagaa alasipo^yochchinappudu manako^sam eduruchu^si ni^LLaglaasuto^ pratyakshamai su^Tke^s` andukone^ bhaaryalunDaTam nijamgaa adRushTam
koDuku ko^Dalaki udyo^gamunDi inTiki tirigochchinappuDu talli kaaphi^ kalipi iddariki iste^ ento^ Anandamugaa untundi
alane^ evaru^ to^Dule^nappuDu iddariki udyo^gaalunnappuDu okarinokaru baagaa ardhamu che^sikoni sahakarinchukonTe^ ade^ swargam
bhartaki udyo^gamu le^kunDaa bhaaryaki unnappuDu tu^lanaadakunDaa ento^ o^rputo^ unnappuDu ku^Daa samsaaraalu chakkagaa unTaayi
bhaarya puTTinTikeLLinappuDu attamaamalaki baTTalu koni ti^sukeLLamani bharta anaali
e^ samsaaramainaa chakkagaa chilakaa go^rinkalalaa saagaalanTe^ okaripai inkokaru achanchalamaina nammakaanni e^rparachukoni manchimanasuto^ kashTa sukhaalalo^ paalu panchuko^vaali elaanTi paristhitulalo^nu anumaanaalaki taavi^ya ku^Dadu cheppuDu maaTalu vina ku^Dadu
e^magaaDainaa bhaaryalani Dabbuko^samo^ andamugaale^dano^ paraayivaaLLamundu he^Lana che^yaTam koTTaTam avamaana parachaTam cheyyaku^Dadu alaa che^ste^ che^tagaanitaname^ avutundi maa AviDa alaa ilaa ani pogaDaali peLLi ane^ pe^ruto^ kannataLLi danDrulanu vadali manavenTa vastaaru kanuka ento^ anDagaa unDaali elaanTi paristhitilo^nu vaaLLa manasu noppincharaadu alaagani chinna chinna koTlaaTalu unnaa eDjasT`u ayyipo^vaali
appuDappuDu bhaaryani sinimaalaki shikaarulaki manchi hoTaLLaki de^vaalayaalaki ti^sikeLutunDaali
appuDappuDu Morning Walkki ku^Daa ti^sukeLLaali le^kunTe^ laavayyipo^taarulol
alaane^ bhaaryaluku^Daa magani sampaadanabaTTe^ tamakunna ko^rikala kaLLaalu vadalaali avagaahana che^sikoni paristhitiniardham che^siko^vaali irugu porugu vaaLLu cheppinamaaTalu vinaDamo^ itarula sampaadanato^ po^lchuko^vaTamo^ cheyyaku^Dadu okkokka inTiki okkokka paristhiti unTundi
ammaayilu abbaayilu mi^ amerikaa vaaLLakilaanTi paristhitulunDavanukunTaanu
naa ji^vita anubhava pu^rvakamgaa vraaSaanu
pratiro^ju paata chintakaaya pachchaDe^naa anipinchinappuDu alaa alaa swe^chchagaa viha............
Posted by: Mr. Bhaskar At: 8, Feb 2006 11:28:04 PM IST
IDETautAndI?
samAna hakkula gurinchEnA? nEnU konachchA pAlu?
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 8, Feb 2006 10:26:24 PM IST
Yes Ego is the main problem with MIL's.
In most of the cases in 99%, MIL acts so strict n shows un-friendly behaviour, that one cannot discuss the parents issues n inform her your role of participation in them.
I have seen 99.999% of the In-laws want their DIL to be strictly upto their house...n no more a part of her parents house.
So reporting or CC ing her will not just be that simple....the Issues will start at the step
thats why i got this discussion..as to see how all you respond to such situations.
Posted by: Mrs. anu anu At: 8, Feb 2006 9:41:10 PM IST
so most husbands' wouldn't have a problem as she is not dipping her hands in his pockets kada, methinks neway.
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Donmt you think dipping her hands in her hubby's pockets is her right?
About in-laws I dont like to take a very strong position here. As I see it, correct me if I am wrong, most of the issues here are related to ego. If the gal's Mother in law feels bad when she is not even being informed about the girl helping the parents, there is nothing wrong in putting a word across to her - in her view its taking her permission but in the girl's perspective its just like informing her - nobody is hurt and the work is done!
(Gone are the days when the elders used to get actively involved in their kids lives. It's an individual's independent world now)
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 8, Feb 2006 8:49:42 AM IST
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