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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | spandinchanDi....spandana avasaramu.... | |
| konchem sAdhana tO tolisArE sariggA vrAyagaligE nErpu sampAdinchukOvachchu.
alanADu janghAla pApayya SAstri gAru annAru, oka telugODu telugu rAdani cheppina nADu, telugulO rachinchina mana kAvyAlu itihAsAlu purANAlu anninTinI kaTTagaTTi bangALAkhAtamlO paDEYAli ani. dayachEsi ennaDU telugu rAdu ani anakanDi. adi atyanta siggu paDAlsina vishayam ani gurtunchukOnDi.
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 22, Apr 2004 11:00:11 AM IST
mari nEnunDEdi prastutam vAru udhdharistunna dESamlOnE kadA!
vEvA, A ArTikal dEnigurinchO cheptE dAnnibaTTi chadivi taristA.
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 22, Apr 2004 10:55:47 AM IST
cheyyani tappuku enduku kshamaarpaNa?
baaNamEstE
eeka kanapaDakunDaa
guchchukupOvaali
kowgilistE
emukalu
paTapaTa virigipOvaali
atikistE
atuku teliyanaTlu
kalisipOvaali
vraastE
bhaavam ardham kaavaali
mari bhaashalO
Emi undi?
Posted by: chinna dolly At: 21, Apr 2004 7:34:23 PM IST
hAhAhhahhA bhalE cheppAru. ainA, vEvA 'cheppindi' nijamE kadA, andarikI telsindE kadA, andulO pratyEkangA etti chUpAlsindEmi undi?
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 21, Apr 2004 4:34:06 PM IST
manam (anagA nEnu) eduTOLLa tappuledakaTam lO fasTu kadA! hihihi
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 21, Apr 2004 4:19:24 PM IST
pAvanIgArU, kaTnam tIsukOvaDam nEramE aitE, nEnu garvangA cheppukunTA, nErasthuDinani! vEvA gArU, mIru telugulO pOsTakanDi. okavELa pOsTinA, prIvyU chUsukuni chadUkuni pOsTanDi... mI telugu chUstOnTE, konni padAlu chAlA ibbandikarangA unTunnAyi chaduvarulaku.
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 21, Apr 2004 4:01:32 PM IST
varakatnaalu poyi chaala kaalam ayipoyindi..idi
paata chinta kaaya pachchadi lanti godava.girl ki kooda equal share undi kadaa
intaa ee varakatnaala godava emiti ? malli venaka taraaniki potunnaaru.
Posted by: chinna dolly At: 20, Apr 2004 10:14:39 AM IST
lEdanDI, prastutamu A paristhiti mArutOndi anE nEnanTunnAnu. kaTnAla bAdhalu taggutunnAyani cheptunnAru. ikkaDa kaTnAla bAdhalu anTE kaTnam tIsukunE vAri sankhya ani mAtramE kAdu. ippuDu prEma peLLiLLU ekkuvayyAyi. akkaDA kaTnAla vishayam taggutOndi. kaTnam gurinchi ekkuva DimAnD chEstE "vIDu nAkoddu pHommanu" ani cheppE ADavALLa sankhya kUDA perugutOndi. ippuDu vEvA gAru cheppinaTTu ADALLu kaTnam pai tiragabaDaTam modaleTTAru. kAdanTArA?
ika kaTnam - samAnatvam . renDU vErE. mIru cheppindi nEnu anTOndI samAnatvam gurinchE. kaTnAnikI samAnatvAnikI unna sambandham ati svalpam . samAnatvam pai charcha sAgaTam manchidE. endukanTE inkA mana dESam lO samAnatvam pUrtigA rAlEdu. oppukunTunnA. alAgE vErE samasyalu kUDA unnAyi. vATinI charchinchachchu, vyAsAru vrAsi chaitanyam teppinchE prayatnam chEyachchu. kAnI kEvalam varakaTnamE anni samasyalakI mUla kAraNamanTE nEnoppukOnu anE nEnu ghOshistOndi. bahuSA mIkainA nA ghOsha arthamaindanukunTA anupamakkA
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 20, Apr 2004 9:56:15 AM IST
VeVa,
"vyaktigatangA vEletti chUpinchi cheppindi kAdu" anTUnE nannu DairekTugA tiDutunnAru. pOnIlEnDi, nAvaraku nAku mI tiTlu anta ekkuvagA anipinchavu. dAnikannA, "kaTnam vaddanTa vIDiki EmainA mAyarOgAlunnAyEmO" anE pulla virupu mATalE ekkuva bAdhistAyi, nAku avi tappAyi. kEvalam mIrokkarE nannu tiDutAru. As long as you are not trying to admit the facts, you'll keep pointing me out. If you are not ready to see the reduction in dowry problem, I can't help it. If you still feel that your domain is limited to katnam, I'm sorry, I cannot read your articles, its waste of my time. 'coz I was sold(per you).
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 20, Apr 2004 9:46:03 AM IST
Saleem,
Parents of a boy are demanding dowry, for some reasons. Its a long long story, we cannot go deep into those reasons. Let it be a custom or what ever. We in our current society, are following it. There were so many incidents that girls' side questioned with horrible words to that boy when a boy didn't asked for dowry. You might have seen/heard of such stories. I have seen many girls are demanding(rather expecting) lot many things from her father after marriage, even now a days. No one denies that dowry is a social evil. But affordability towards dowry is also increasing and hence, the impact of dowry is lessening. Also, the awareness has already began. It is continuing.
Coming to the scenario, I'm not supporting the husband's side burning his wife alive. Infact, I support hanging his family in public. But, when there is a chance of such threat, why do you try to face it at all? If you can't afford the dowry that a boy demanded, why do you go for him and invite troubles? That was my intention. Here, there is no argument. I'm posting my views. You are posting your counter-views to mine. It should be a healthy discussion. I was trying to say that why do you need to invite troubles? You are saying that am I supposed to burn the girl alive. There is a big difference in our sight. You are looking at one angle and I'm saying the other angle.
Have you ever come across the families where women give enough torture to their husbands? Have you come across the broken marriages that are NOT due to man's cruel nature? Have you come across a working married woman having an affair with another married man and ultimately led him to go for a divorce? Where are these women coming from? From our society. What is the base reason? kovvu. (Sorry for this word, but I cannot use the word that is in my mind and I have no other appropriate word) And where did they got that fat from? Thats the question. strI ki Arthika svEChCha avasaramE, kAnI adi tama kuTumbAnni viChChinnam chEsukunEnta kAdu. vAriki A svEChCha vachchina daggarnunDi vErE sAmAjika samasyalu utpannam autunnAyi. peLLi kAkunDAnE SArIraka sambandhAlu, oka goppa upAyam vEsi Dabbula kOsam kondaru abbAyilaki vala vEsi peLLi chEsukunE ammAyila sankhya rOju rOjukI perutundi. enduvalla? viNgNjulaina mIrE AlOchinchanDi. Do you think that all these things are happening only in cities? May be yes. When you take the case of villages, yes, there is the negative impact of dowry and it is strong. But that count is coming down.
My point is, is it really necessary to hang on to one problem that started its downfall or to concentrate on another problem? If you still feel that dowry is the major problem and there are no other problems that are bigger than it, OK go ahead. I don't feel that dowry is the biggest problem in our society anymore.
I don't really agree that dowry and woman-equality are inter-connected. They are still different. oka chaduvukuni udyOgam chEsukunE ammAyi peLLaina tarvAta meTTininTikeLLAka, "nAnnA, nuvvu reTairayyAka nIku bOleDu DabbulochchAyi kadA, nAkO renDu lakshalivvu, mI alluDu gAru kAru konukkunTAraTa, rOjU AfIsukeLLaDAniki chAla kashTapaDutunnAmu" anE kUtuLLani chUDalEdA mIru? vILLa sankhya takkuvani cheppoddu, ekkuvE undi. varakaTna durAchAram valla bAdha paDAlsina ammAyilakE lEni bAdha manakendukanDI I rOjullO? We are almost some 6 persons who posted strong comments in this dowry discussion here till now. How many of us are really ready to get married without dowry? I find only VeVa who publicly announced that he will not take dowry. And I strongly feel that he'll stay on his words. I am not. I have already taken dowry.
I would appreciate any article by VeVa point to other problems than dowry.
Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 20, Apr 2004 9:35:42 AM IST
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