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General Forum: Society | | Women are always carried away for petty benefits. | |
| I'm not against those women who complete professional courses and utilize it(utilization is, in my perspective, going for a job) properly. But what %age of women from those professional courses go for a job? I'm asking about those women who are BEs BTechs MCAs who sit at home, and this is the majority sector.
Also, why in professional courses, when the primary aim of reservations is to give Education(which is more than enough to eduate/guide their kids and suggest their hubbies) is also a question on which some light may be thrown.
I am 100000% against to the reservations on caste basis. It is the one which is completely misutilized and is one of the main reason for the current situation of our country.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 7:46:45 PM IST
how will u uplift women boss if u don't give reservation. why not women given chance in these course. Let them also work with us the way they r currently working in IT field. As long as our thinking won't change towards them it's problem.
We need to have system where employment can be created and more jobs are available. Will you give chance, when more employement otherwise they should take up Bcom,BA, Bsc.
In that way reservations in any way doesn't serve purpose, why do we need reservation on caste base.
Posted by: Mr. Sagar M At: 9, Sep 2003 7:40:09 PM IST
Development is not the thing I'm talking about Sir, I'm talking about the country like India where amount of un-employment is a major problem and women have reservations in professional courses and NOT UTILIZING it atleast. Education doesn't ONLY mean BTech/MBBS, right? Even BCom BSc BA etc is also known as Education, right? Anyways, why reservations for these professional courses and wasting seats? I'm not denying that women should be educated. But do we need to have 30% of seats in professional courses, which are the major way of getting a job, reserved for women(majority of those women stick to home) is my basic question.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 7:31:08 PM IST
DP if women is not devloped then u won't find healthy family. Your own family doesn't look like devloped. Whether she cooks or does job is immaterial but being imparting educations to women is very vital and essential for any country to be developed.
Even if she doesn't work she can develop her children very well. She will be in position to make decisions and give good health. In fact she might help her husband in making prudent decisions.
On broader aspects you can see more development only when women are educated.
Only men should work and help family then still we live in stoneage.
Posted by: Mr. Sagar M At: 9, Sep 2003 7:25:11 PM IST
I strongly object with /* women to take up higher education or making them educated.*/
What %age of women properly utilized the education system? We (now) have 30% seats reserved for them. What is the use? They take the seat, do nothing but cook & serve husband(again majority of women). If the same seat is given to a man, then an entire family would have been benefited(as he can go for a job with that degree, say BTech, and give a comfortable life to his parents, bro & sis and wife, and kids). But this woman who grabbed the seat under reservation, do nothing. Basically this kind of reservation in education, that too in professional courses, is not fit for country like India. It is a big topic again... but in a nut-shell, if a man gets the seats, one more family gets a job, if a woman gets a job, there will be two jobs in one family. Though I'm against to two jobs per family, I'm not a saint, so I won't leave the chance. This is out of the scope of discussion. Thanks
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 7:18:15 PM IST
Probably India as Country not devloped as expected in these 50 years due to depriving women to take up higher education or making them educated.
Probably the vision of our country has been changed from 1991 onwards and you find much more differences now.
You mean husbands compliments wife you did prepare delicious dishes is petty benefit for women am I right? you must tell what are those petty benefits women are always like and enjoy it.
Definetly gals taking up higher educations and their participations in development is very much required.
But still what are those petty things carrying women?
Posted by: Mr. Sagar M At: 9, Sep 2003 7:06:04 PM IST
/What's wrong if huband compliments her wife when she pretty dressed or deliciously cooked ?/
dishTi tagultundani
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 7:01:01 PM IST
marE, bIrbal kUDA adE cheppADu, gADidakEmi telusu mAmiDipanDu ruchi ani
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 6:42:32 PM IST
Puja garu, when other ladies here are talking about sitting in the driver's seat and you are asking men to take initiative to understand women!!! Its strange.
Anyways, I got something to tell here... though I cannot say all men, but many educated men now a days, who had some closely moving friends(both girls and boys) during their education/profession ARE trying to understand their wives. These men are more polite and gentle with their wives. Trying to understand their problems in their perspective(ladies view). Hence, the change what you are looking for, IS coming, might take a little time... but it is coming for sure.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 2:00:21 PM IST
Sagar, SP stands for Sound Pary or Stored Procedure?
Stored Proc, yes, fixed last night.
Sound Party, gave a suggestion to him but cannot be discussed here in public, as these ADa lEDIs will kill me. I'll whisper in your ears, come close to me.
* (gusa gusa) I suggested the guy just to enjoy life minus her, out of house. So, he can spend long hours outside the house, she can lead her own life during his absense and I gave him some hints to enjoy the life, like going to Pondy to freak out with cabaret for a week end bluffing at his wife that he's going to Bombay for some training, going to Covai for different taste etc , and bring her some gifts which look expensive but not really expensive(the petty things)(end of gusa gusa)*
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 9, Sep 2003 12:28:24 PM IST
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