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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | Pre-Maritial Sex | |
| This is the most complicated topic you have given. Infact sex is a very important physiological need any living creature has. Nothing wrong in making pre-marital sex, but , one should not get carried away by this dangerous psychological desease. Means, sex between bride and groom, sex between matured men and women, sex between settled people, before marriage is more ideal than sex between teenagers or for teenagers. This is only because the teenagers should not forego their long run goals. By law, sex before marriage is illegal. But, it is no wrong in sex between committed people for marriage. Any way, no one encourages illegal sex after marriage,but , what is present trend is that illegal sex after marriage is growing fast. And we always say these rules
for others and we do not follow.
What ever it is, no one can control sex trends except discussion.
Posted by: Mr. niranjan.m.reddy mallu/reddy At: 4, Oct 2002 12:45:50 PM IST
Guys,
Be practical!!!
If you get the opportunity bfore marriage, to support urself, you may say pre-marital sex is acceptable. You may even say that you are not an hypocrat. Good. As u are longing for it, it doesnt mean that its universally valid. It might be a mistake, which every one does also. So, letz not apply democracy rules here.
Say, two paired up today and slept with "mutual consent".Tomorrow, they both get seperated again with so called "mutual consent". Say,the initial couple pair up with another two of which one might be ur father or mother. (Again with "mutual consent" of "new two".) Its very bitter to accept right?
some of the folks commented that culture, tratdion, ethics has got nothing to do with two individuals interests. Yus!!!But,what is the base for "mutual consent". Should n't it be founded on ethics and culture?
On what factors it stands? as Yugandhar pointed out, a woman may agree to sleep with one guy for money. Here also u have "Mutual consent". So, Aren't u trying to exploit
this argument?
Now u may say, 'I'm talking about mutual consent at emotions'.
One old but wild verse, perfectly fits in this context..
I met him, I liked him,
I liked him, I loved him,
I loved him, I let him,
I let him, I lost him.
The day will come when u do another posting on net saying
"Why one argument looks right today, becomes wrong after some time?"
Posted by: Mr. Saradhi Vedula At: 4, Oct 2002 12:22:20 PM IST
Yeduti vaallu "virgins" or not ani yelaa telusukovaali anadam haasyaaspadam. mari aadavaallakaithe "Virginity" tests unnaayi. magavaalla virginity kanukkunedi yelaagaa?
Anumaanam antoo vunte, yenni tests chesinaa podu. Vivaahaaniki kaavalsindi yeduti vaalla patla nammakam, gauravam, prema, abhimaanam. adi lekapote aa bandhaaniki artham undadu.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 3, Oct 2002 10:34:01 PM IST
I fully agree with Mrs. Raji, Mr. Madhu. evaru elaa unnaa, manaku konni morals undaali. Chastity anedi evari kosamo kaadu. mana kosam manaki undaali. evari certificates kosamo kaadu.
Asalu chesukune ammaayi 'virgin' kaadaa ane doubt yendukostundi? meeku ammaayilu asalu yelaa kanapadutunnaaru? How dare you to speak girls like this? Can you get the %?
Ika Fashion gurinchi. Fashion ki artham vicchalavidi thanamaa?
Sreenivas gaaru, deniki deniki link pettaarandi meeru? Skirts vesukovadam culture kaadaa? Dress yedainaa dignified gaa undaali, vesukone vaallaki comfortable gaa undaali. In fact, you better read my last para in that article. What I objected is the male's restriction on the girls putting restrictions on girls in the name of religion and any reason whatsoever.
How many people are giving values to tradition? What is this question? Asalu vere vaallato meeku sambandham yemiti? evari personal principles vaallaku undaali kaani, pakkana vaalla meeda base chesukoni mana ideas undakoodadu. evari individuality vaallaki undaali.
yevaru desam kosam sramistunnaaru ani "Sainikulu" anukunte chaalu, ye desamainaa aghorinchaalsinde.
Asalu yenta mandi boyfriends and girl friends are indulging in sex ani meeru anukuntunnaaru? May be in NOrth undemo?
Ekkadinunchainaa manchivi sweekarinchaale kaane, cheduni kaadu.
Ofcourse, this is a personal issue. No one deny that. But we should think about the morals too. anta ishtamaite pelli chesukondi.
chaalaa samvatsaaraala kritham 'chatura' lo oka novel vacchindi. aa kadha yemante oka couple America ki veltaaru udyogam meeda. oka roju wife Husband indulging with other women choostundi. chaalaa kopam vastundi. yelaagainaa atani meeda paga teerchukovaalani , she too indulges with another person. Upto that she haven't become mother. But then she becomes Pregnant. They return to India. But she felt very sorry when coming back thinking that I shouldn't have done like that. Ippudemaindi atani meeda kasito naa pavitratani nenu poguttukunnaanani baadha padtundi.
kaabatti chastity, morals, principles anevi yevariki vaariki undaali. enta modern ayinaa, values undaali.
Ika "avakaasam dorike varaku andaroo pavitrule" ane maataki nenu oppukonu. Though I hate males for so many reasons, I am still optimistic that every male is not like that.
avakaasam vocchinaa koodaa endaroo indulge kaarandi. There might be something wrong in the psychology to think like that.
"Seelam" anedi Sareeraanike kaadu, manaku sambandhinchindi koodaa.
I challenge how many of you males indulge if a very beautiful woman, intelligent, rich and what not , an embodiment of everything that a man wishes in a woman, offers herself to you? There is also an assurance that you will not get any sexual diseases either. You can give answer to yourself. Majority of you people don't because, Sex is something related to heart also. If it is not, there is no meaning in it.
I strongly oppose Pre-Marital sex may be with unknown people or with the person whom one loves.
Posted by: Ms. Prasanthi Uppalapati At: 3, Oct 2002 10:23:18 PM IST
Hi Mr.chandrashekhar I agree with U.....see now days it'sfashion rather than tradation.....how many people
are giving values for the tradation...may be a less people....it's fashion both nowdays maintain boy friend or girlfiend...
these leads some extant to go for sex before marriage...I have lots and lots examples in this aspect...
I will strongly condem Mrs raji words...cause the reason..it is very easy to say good words....but when it comes in
partical it is no way....the soceity is moving very fast and this generation is adopting it............
it's a fashion to ladies to condem this type of messages....see people..if they donot agree is the male what he can do
it's fault with boyh them
now the way of thinking is like ...we both r interested and we did...that's all..lot to say but i will give next message
Posted by: sasidhar sasi At: 3, Oct 2002 3:13:03 PM IST
Hi Mr.chandrashekhar I agree with U.....see now days it'sfashion rather than tradation.....how many people
are giving values for the tradation...may be a less people....it's fashion both nowdays maintain boy friend or girlfiend...
these leads some extant to go for sex before marriage...I have lots and lots examples in this aspect...
I will strongly condem Mrs raji words...cause the reason..it is very easy to say good words....but when it comes in
partical it is no way....the soceity is moving very fast and this generation is adopting it............
it's a fashion to ladies to condem this type of messages....see people..if they donot agree is the male what he can do
it's fault with boyh them
now the way of thinking is like ...we both r interested and we did...that's all..lot to say but i will give next message
Posted by: sasidhar sasi At: 3, Oct 2002 2:53:33 PM IST
I strongly object for that
Posted by: Mrs. rajeswari tirupathi At: 3, Oct 2002 12:01:01 PM IST
life, society & culture... antha bariga mataldu thunaru..
ekkada vunna vallalo evaru ani vidala chance vaste vadulukuntaru...
so take it cool... n enjoy which ever way life comes...
what to do you say.. women and gentlemen???
Posted by: Mr. Suman Kumar G At: 2, Oct 2002 9:42:12 PM IST
A good topic to discuss and introspect too...
but waat wud happen when a gal does that? I may be sounding crazy, but, Supposing I abstain before marriage, Obviously I would look for a gal of the same thought. But then How do I identify/prove it to myself?
From this school of thought comes a point that, DO Whatever u want and don't expect your spouse to be Sita/Rama?
deenini emanntaaru?
Posted by: Mr. Galeleo Venkata Narasimha Palaparthi At: 2, Oct 2002 8:01:31 PM IST
hi prasanthi garu,
as u quoted here its good of ur opion.but i think u forgot abt something beforewhat u wrote.some time back u wrote y shud people force girls not to wear skirts in schools and colleges.mari adi mana culture kademo.if we r going to follow western things(like whatever uwant to waer that too matter to indvidual in ur opion)so y shud have to think abt morals in this context.
what i want to say is dont forget in any context abt our culture.dont say that that is different from this.
sreeeni
Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 2, Oct 2002 4:58:22 PM IST
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