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Can a guy and a girl be just friends??

i do agree... life partner oka manchi frn gaa undali. alaa ani manchi frns andaroo life partner avaleru kadaa.. i feel every relationship has its own boundaries..

Posted by: Mrs. Sandhya At: 11, Mar 2003 12:13:00 PM IST

baga cheppavu Raj..

Posted by: Mrs. Sandhya At: 11, Mar 2003 12:02:40 PM IST

Love is Romance, Passion etc. Friendship..just having a freind either Girl or guy... Both r entirley deiiferent :)

Posted by: Saleem At: 11, Mar 2003 11:59:07 AM IST

Please read the last line to, " If my best friend is a girl, and itz possible, marriage is the best way to accomplish that."

Posted by: urchinni M At: 11, Mar 2003 11:33:26 AM IST

Lovers tend to look forward to staying together for a life time, because they care for each other so much. And your social obligations call this living together, Marriage. In that sense, love leads to marriage, but not necessarily to satisfy JUST physical desires. They share a lot more than just that, and it is just an integral part of it. You look for something in your friend, to be friends. I am a realist and would like to have my friend, sensuous, caring, understanding, competetive, physically attractive, and who can complement most, if not all aspects of my life. Abundance of any one of these qualities certainly tend to makeup lack of other qualities. When needed, you can speak up 1000 words to mean that you are with him. But a close hug and a pat on back can do all that and much more. You can't deny the most natural and caring physical touch in your relation. It does't make any sense, to say that there is no meaning of friendship if they are married. They have reached another level of intimacy. True love and True friendship can happen any time in your life and any number of times. "Once in a life time" is a trash. You get good friends throughout your life. And finally, every aspect of life has influence on people. Thatz natural and expected. The theory of evolution just confirms it. Events and influences do happen in life, you as an individual stands out, by making sense of those influences and stand by your values and beliefs. Between a boy and girl, friendship extends to Love. Both are synanomous to me. I always love to live all my life with my best friend. If she is a girl, and itz possible, marriage is the best way to accomplish that.

Posted by: urchinni M At: 11, Mar 2003 11:29:04 AM IST

After reading all the postings i am happy to realise hte peoples pyscology. what is love...as all roads lead to rome..all love leads to marriage(may be this is the view in which u see mostly pysical relation which can satisfy once desire for another..and that so called desire is called sex...and after that so called desire is satisfied u feel its true love) what is a friend..a friend is who wish to share everything...if u cry he/she cry..if u happy he/she will be more happy seeing into ur eyes.And they r is no pysical attraction in their relation and never should lead to love... Most people say what is wrong if two good firneds love and marry....yes u can then there is no meaning of friendship its purely attraction...u need to satisfy ur desire and at some point u find the others weakness and find a way to love. A true love can happens once in ur life and a true friend can also happen once in a lifetime... Bcoz all minds r not same so different people may have different opinion.And some may influnced by movies[as most people do]. For me a friend is a friend,was a friend ,will be a firend.. Those 2 r like 2 rails.should not meet at all.

Posted by: Mr. M.S.Reddy At: 11, Mar 2003 9:11:28 AM IST

Ek Ladka or ek ladki dost nahi ho sakte.... (Dialogue from Maine Pyaar Kiya)

Posted by: Mr. Ramesh Terala At: 11, Mar 2003 3:45:33 AM IST

Well i cant say Yes and I cant say No. It depends on individuals perceptions. The way they reciprocate to things in which they share (whether it may be joy or sorrow)will obviously count. Its only because they see the world in different views and perceive them in their own way. one should feel free and have the freedom to share the experience and explore them together. thats it. raj rajendrainuk@hotmail.com

Posted by: Mr. Rajendra Rowthu At: 10, Mar 2003 11:51:42 PM IST

a guy and a girl defenetly can be a good friends if at all if they relationship as a good friend

Posted by: Mrs. Lohita vakkalanka At: 10, Mar 2003 5:56:26 PM IST

Existence doesn't substantiate differences. Alter ego!! They look different if you just look at them through your TWO eyes, but experience the their convergence at your heart.

Posted by: urchinni M At: 10, Mar 2003 2:49:32 PM IST

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