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General Forum: Offbeat n Jokes | | what do u think about gals ? | |
| hey all and specially to Mr Gopi Krishna Akella,
Thats really nice to read your mesg, your conclusions and "your attempt for a logical reasoning " :-).
I belive that some of your statements are correct but the reason behind them are not thatttt applauding (atleast for a girl who can think about them). :-)
According to the data sample I have, its true that most of the girls do come for timepass. May be the reason is same as the one you gave that they dont belive in guys that easily. and it is NOT TO BE DEDUCTED from a old saying like "anumanam mundu putti adavallu taruvatha puttaru" etc etc. :-) We are not expected to belive in all such "old stuff" (though better to think of it) without any reasoning from ourside.
The reason I would like to give is, that most of the girls in the internet period, are intelligent enough to think that around 99.9% of friendships we find on net are NOT PRACTICAL. Well, there can always go an infinite discussion to prove the statement to be valid or not, but still if one can really think in a practical way we fidn out that its really difficult to keep up the internet friendship. :-) So the next obvious question is why???????
yeah! the answer is, 1) It takes a large amount of time telling about each other what kinda personality one is ==) high input of time and patience. (if at all we had these two things, we would have got enough number of friends in our neighbourhood who can keep us too busy to enter chat :-))
2) The other "obvious" difficulties are the ones that araise from 'long distance friendships'.......difficult to keep in contact and even if kept, its diffult to really express the feelings, emotions etc etc the way we can express if we had them before us. If we are that experts in communicating our emotions etc etc, you will have lot of crowd round you and you cant find time for others who are bit far.
and if I keep on saying, there are infinite things one can think of why its difficult. (Though all of these dont take into consideration that sometimes we can go right to face many "trivial difficulties" like time, communications etc etc if we really like a person. But its simple to see that there is a vicious circle,
------- to like a person we must have enough data about the person to think of them (I am talkign about people who think in terms of facts rather than emotions) -------- to have the proper details of a person we must have enough time to collect them---------- we just dont have enough time for everyone; we just have time for the people we like-----
sooooooooo........the thing I want to say is, I and most of my friends (girls) belive its really difficult to keep up a net friendship. And we, I believe are "intelligent" :-) enough to think about the practical aspects of things and react practically.
hmmmmmmmm! I kept on saying its difficult to make time for everyone and here I have so much of time to reply to some person I find on discussion forom. :-) well, this is not a contridiction because friendship requires a commitment to "make time" for a friend in all circumstances. Who cares to commit then? :-) Certainly not me, if I know that the new person can give nothing extra to what I have. (dont take it as selfishness......... hope u understand what I mean)
Thats the reason why though girls have so much of time to tease guys (which gives fun), have time to talk in discussion foroms(which gives timepass when time is adequate; (local adequateness)), or anything you can think of......... they dont have time for a "commitment" which is not practical. I belive this is the way most girls think, though there are people who successfully broke the "vicious circle" I mentioned above and found few guys "irressitibly intresting" that they can be serious in the net friendship too.
anyway, let me not eat your time! :-)
Enjoy!
A girl. :-)
PS: Though this is no way related to the topic I do like to mention it. I find many guys tooooooooooo senti than expected. They over use some words like "pleaseeeeeeee","love", "missing you", "awaiting for your response" etc etc. I many times think they do to just grab the attention. But I still doubt. So, can I expect some answers for why guys over use some words? :-)
Posted by: Ms Samatha G At: 29, Oct 2001 11:41:10 AM IST
Cant say dear,
Talking about indian gals, I can assure u that most of them are not serious about it coz of various reasons.
Good question..keep asking like this
Cheers
Murali
Posted by: Mr. prasanth N At: 28, Oct 2001 12:31:50 PM IST
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