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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | Andhra girls are cool about dowry! - (A column from Times of India) | |
| please dont take my comments personally. meeru adigaru kabati meeku answer direct chesane tappa, maremi ledu. i do appreciate the fact that u know ur own problems and sentiments better than i do.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 7:44:17 PM IST
mr. spiderman, nenem mimalni dowry tiskovadu anatledu. verevalaki em cheyalo chepe antha right gaani, knowledge gaani naku ledu. i only know myself and my own strengths and weaknesses. nenu katnam ivakunda, repu naaku koduku pudite vaadiki katnam tiskokunda, ee society na side nunchi chese chinna contribution cheyaladalchukunnanu.
meeru mee "kashtalani" overcome avaleremo, so adi andariki kastam anukuntunaremo. sare, meeru anatu matalo emundi lendi, no proofs.
//matallo entha easy ga cheppagalam. Dowry ivvakunda pelli cheyyadam chaala kashtam ani. //
//excuses vetikevalaki veyyi untayi. cheyaladalchukuna valu entha kastam aina chestaru//
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 7:40:20 PM IST
Sunitha! okka aadapilla pelli chesi choodu. appudu thelusthundi. Nenu okappudu anukune vadini, dowry endukivvali? enduku theesukovali? ani. Oka chelli pelli chesintharuvatha kaani artham kaadu, matallo entha easy ga cheppagalam. Dowry ivvakunda pelli cheyyadam chaala kashtam ani. So called young generation girls dowry ivvam ani chepthune, adapaduchu katnam mukku pindi vasulu chesthunnaru. ippudu maa chelli naa pellaithe thanaku vachche adapaduchu katnam gurinchi alochinchadam modalettesindi..
Posted by: Mr. Spider Man At: 15, Jul 2003 7:26:57 PM IST
i am glad you did mr.yugadhar
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 7:15:53 PM IST
whether it will be eradicated or not depends on how willing we are to change our attitudes towards it. excuses vetikevalaki veyyi untayi. cheyaladalchukuna valu entha kastam aina chestaru.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 7:14:13 PM IST
//such deep-rooted attitudes in a society as old as ours cannot be changed overnight.
our generation may not live to see such 'no dowry' situations. but if atleast we think of what WE can do instead of challenging OTHERS to do it, then perhaps it will be the beginning of laying of a foundation for a better refined cultural future//
this is what i said. i do not want this dowry system to be a part of the new age. because ee system pettinapadu society phase vere, ipdu vere; apati needs vere, ipati needs vere. so dowry system eradicate avali antuna. kaani i recognize the fact that centuries nunchi ostuna ee system suddenga abolish aipodu. manam ipdu cheskune self values ni bate future untundi. entha sepu "nuv dowry ivakunda chupinchu, nuv dowry tiskokunda chupinchu" anakunda, "nenu dowry ivakunda unta, tiskokunda unta" ani anukuni, inka vere vala gurinchi chudakunda, manam anukuna dani follow ayithe that would be a good beginning.
i am saying it again, the implication of my words is not an expectation for a sudden, easy and radical change against dowry. that is improbable. but melaga tapakunda eradicate autundi.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 7:10:31 PM IST
It all depends upon u all chaps not we (gals).we always opposed, oppose and will oppose dowry.
Posted by: Ms. Mallika Reddy At: 15, Jul 2003 7:08:53 PM IST
ya i expected it to be confusing for you.
well, i meant we r in a transition phase. from an age old civilization towards an educated modern society. as in generally all transition phases, there r bound to be such issues, wherein we cannot break the old bonds, yet we want to emerge as modern - for the sake of development.
i hope it is less confusing now.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 6:56:31 PM IST
yep. young country with respect to modern thoughts. and old with respect to traditions and attitudes towards those traditions.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 6:48:45 PM IST
//I too am against the dowry system. I just talked about the present situation..//
everyone is aware of the situation, mr. spiderman. there is no dispute abt 'what is the situation'
the issue should be what can be done to change the situation.
anyway, such deep-rooted attitudes in a society as old as ours cannot be changed overnight. it takes generations to change it. we r still a pretty young country with just 56 years of modern history and independence.
our generation may not live to see such 'no dowry' situations. but if atleast we think of what WE can do instead of challenging OTHERS to do it, then perhaps it will be the beginning of laying of a foundation for a better refined cultural future.
Posted by: Ms. G Sunita At: 15, Jul 2003 6:39:32 PM IST
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