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General Forum: Society | | Arranged Marriage | |
| An individual wouldnt be bothered much if his neighbour is of a diff caste ,but ,he/she would be bothered if they were going to marry someone from "n"different castes
So what?
Posted by: Finch Atticus At: 28, Jan 2004 11:09:29 PM IST
Morning Scout:)
Posted by: Finch Atticus At: 28, Jan 2004 10:43:17 PM IST
Bobbili Puli,
/*Indians agree because they are well educated and wise.*/
NOpe, BEcause they lack Individuality.
/*They know that arranged marriages work better than other marriages. You will have piece of mind rather than worrying about finding a girl/guy every time you and your partner fight over petty things. We already have enough things to worry in our life like job,money etc. we can't afford to worry about marriage also.
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People dont fight in arranged marriages right?
Yugandhar,
/*yes,secondly ,no 1 gets a chance to abuse ur offsprings as cross breds.*/
Cross breds in what sense? intercaste or interrace?
Anyways, if not cross breeds , they will be called dot heads or accused them with their caste. There will be castists and racists every where and they wont stop abusing ONLY cross-breeds.
Hari,
/*In Arranged....everythig is ranged from relatives to families and money to property sharing...everythig is predesigned and pre-defined!!....its a settled document....and Love Marriage is unsettled document..it will done as the days and years passby in the Marriage!!!*/
What you said is true if marriage is a BUSINESS.
SPider Man,
I completely agree with you. It is indecisiveness and lack of individuality which makes them accpet arranged marriages.
And why do arranged marriages work better in India? BEcause women do not have financial independence and they are looked down up in society if they are divorced.
If the above factors are eliminated,arranged marriages too dont last long.
Posted by: Finch Atticus At: 28, Jan 2004 9:10:23 PM IST
I do not agree with bobbili puli. Arranged marriages need not work better than luv marriages. It depends on 2 people sharing a relationship. It depends on how they want to shape their life.
Worrying about finding another partner after every fight applies to both the arranged and luv marriages.
I don't think there is any hard n fast rule or formula that a particular type of marriage works. Even the educated people go for arranged marriages because it is easy. The person's parents do all the hard work of find the match and the person JUST have to marry. I have seen many people not able to decide on what kind of a person they are looking for. It is their indecisiveness that forces them to accept whatever his/her parents decide and think that is the best option.
Posted by: Mr. Spider Man At: 28, Jan 2004 8:20:22 PM IST
Hey, In Arranged....everythig is ranged from relatives to families and money to property sharing...everythig is predesigned and pre-defined!!....its a settled document....and Love Marriage is unsettled document..it will done as the days and years passby in the Marriage!!!
Regards,
Hari
Posted by: Mr. Hari.K At: 26, Jan 2004 3:37:31 PM IST
I would say: Indians agree because they are well educated and wise.They know that arranged marriages work better than other marriages. You will have piece of mind rather than worrying about finding a girl/guy every time you and your partner fight over petty things. We already have enough things to worry in our life like job,money etc. we can't afford to worry about marriage also.
Posted by: Mr. Bobbili Puli At: 17, Jan 2004 3:08:44 AM IST
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