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| marE ... artham chEsukOrU
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 22, Jan 2004 7:22:33 PM IST
hmmm... thats what I'm saying. she may be willing to be little discipline. who knows? u may feel that allowing to wear micro skirts is liberty, some others may feel same with chudidar... LIBERTY... a relative term again... same with discipline. what you feel as discipline may not be same with others!
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 22, Jan 2004 7:14:57 PM IST
Hi..I am good aruna gaaru...How ru? :)
Posted by: Saleem At: 22, Jan 2004 4:13:23 PM IST
:)
hai raaj how are you???
Posted by: Mrs. Aruna At: 22, Jan 2004 4:06:34 PM IST
Discipline ('chudidaar' discpline ? ) destroyed the liberty in ur story....where is her 'choice'?
Raj 'confused' Palla
Posted by: Saleem At: 22, Jan 2004 3:56:21 PM IST
Discipline will certainly cost some liberty. It's upto the individual to decide how much discipline is required to be a good wife at what cost of liberty or how much of liberty is needed to retain at what cost of discipline. No one appreciates a fully liberal woman (in the sense, that she just go on her own way without caring a damn to the family) as a wife, atleast in India. Similarly, no one appreciates if she doesn't even speak a single word to the people who come to the house and always hide behind the kitchen curtain. Boundaries need to drawn at the descretion and reviewed as and when necessary.
I know a family where my friend's parents doesn't like their daughter-in-law wearing chudidars(discipline), though she's an engineering graduate. She likes to wear new and lovely dresses, again not the hi-style ones, apart from regular saris(liberty), once in a while(boundary). But my friend wanted her to take up a job. In the cities like Mumbai & Chennai, its so tough to go out for job in trains wearing saris, so my friend's parents allowed her to wear chudidars(review the boundary).
So, VeVa, discipline never destroys liberty completely.
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 22, Jan 2004 3:28:26 PM IST
elaa vunDaali annadi kooDaa konchem chebitE....tappakunDaa vEstaaru maralaa raayanDi.
Posted by: Mrs. Aruna At: 22, Jan 2004 3:08:35 PM IST
jharnA, pakkODi peLLAm rOl gurinchi mATlADutunnAdu saddAm
Posted by: Durga Prasad At: 22, Jan 2004 1:45:30 PM IST
I didnot understand your comment Mr. Saddam
Posted by: Jharna At: 21, Jan 2004 11:01:45 PM IST
inTi illAlu entO disciplined, attentive and cool gA unDakapOtE, aa inTlO Edee sajAvugA jaragadu. growth and development, looking forward, planning for the future anEvi vunDavu.
ninna madar inDiyA anE sinEmA choosAnu. chAlA bAgundi. kashTAlu manishini elA
kRungadeestaayi, manishi naitika viluvalni eTlA mArustaayi anE vishayAnni chAlA chakkagaa choopinchADu. oka manishiyokka maanasika sthayi tana paristhitulavallaeTlA maarutundi anEdi kaLLaku kaTTinaTTu choopinchADu.
oka ammaayi entO strong gaa , mentally, tanani tanu discipline lO unchitE tappa aa family happy gaa unDadu.
The female lead, Nargis in that movie, my aunt and many other women - they all held onto a certain event or a person or something in their life to keep them so strong-willed.
What did they hang onto?
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I have sent this to the share my thoughts section of TP.com but it was rejected as they think it is incomplete.
Please share your opinions.
Posted by: Jharna At: 21, Jan 2004 10:51:21 PM IST
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