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| Enti Kavali Surya
Posted by: Mr. Sreenivasulu Reddy P At: 23, Aug 2002 3:10:02 PM IST
good analysis sreedhar garu
Posted by: Mr. Surya Sambrani At: 23, Aug 2002 12:47:26 PM IST
I agree with Sreedhar garu, that was really good. I think that is how our generation should view love. Individual prema mukhyame kaani anduku mana parents and family premanu vadulukovatamu tappu. Mana peddavallanu kashtapetti, mana sukhamu manamu choosukogalamaa? True love wouldn't cause suffering to anyone.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 23, Aug 2002 10:08:49 AM IST
Well said Sreedhar..I like the way you explain.
Posted by: Mr. Raja Kumar At: 23, Aug 2002 8:28:35 AM IST
sorry the previous one is not full. i accidentally pressed the
send button....
Friends,
I donno much abt the love, thats why till now i was a silent reader
of this. But i too have in mind that i wanna share with u all.
I strongly second Niranjan garu, Madhavi garu and lalita garu.
Love means, teeyati maatalu, paatalu, etc., ante then its not
love. Infact i say this is cinematic or poetic, bcoz most of them show
hero heroine falls in love and finally a happy ending that hero and heroine gets married.
But none of the movie or novel never ever dared to depict the realities of life that how
the life would be after. to survive they have to do something, not looking into each others eyes, but looking
into the future towards their destiny. for better tomorrow, they have to think
how their love going to cost them.
when guy/gal started liking their counter part, they are more
concentrating on how to convey this, what the reply they are going to get,
how this going to work out which is truly infactuation or attraction. At this point if they go one more
step ahead and think abt their family, society and future, and then
decide whats right, whats wrong, what to do. Is that going to
mark their love as something else ? having a practical view is an obligation
for love ? After this thinking what ever decision they make that really carries
lot of weight which is the impression of true love. If they want to be together then they are confident abt
their future and they are going to live happily bcoz they
got a vision, they know responsibilities, thats obviosuly true love. Incase if they
incline towards remaining as friends, then also the love bet'n them is true,
bcoz they are sacrifying their love, there is no infactuation here.
But if they don't think all this and just love each other, naming their
love as true love, is notonly deceiving themselves butalso eachother.
"daham vesinapude bavi tavvukundamanukunte
kashtam kada...."
And also there is always something called responsibility under the shadow of love,
in the light of love (which is infactuation) there is high probability of ignoring it.
where as under the true love every thing is crystal clear.
the real love is may not be bet'n a guy and gal, but its be bet'n any two souls.
Love means a belief that there is somebody for u always in ur
happies and sarrows, good and bads, pleasures and blues.
Last but not the least, Is it worth neglecting the beautiful family love
under the shell of which u brouhgtup, for ur individual love ?
if u r neglecting means u r not true lover, bcoz if u know the meaning of
true love, value of true love and respect true love
then u never ever neglect it. if ur not neglecting means u r thinking abt that also, ie., u r
adding the practical view to ur love, so doesn't it clears and tells that true love also includes
practical view also.
Just my two cents....
Posted by: Sreedhar G At: 23, Aug 2002 6:56:55 AM IST
Friends,
I donno much abt the love, thats why till now i was a silent reader
of this. But i too have in mind that i wanna share with u all.
I strongly second Niranjan garu, Madhavi garu and lalita garu.
Love means, teeyati maatalu, paatalu, etc., ante then its not
love. Infact i say this is cinematic or poetic, bcoz most of them show
a happy ending that hero and heroine gets married. But none of the movie or novel
never ever dared to depict the realities of life that how they life would be after.
to survive they have to do something, not looking into each others eyes, but looking
into the future towards their destiny. so they have to think abt future
that means they have to talk.
the real love is may not be bet'n a guy and gal, but it may be bet'n any two souls.
Love means a belief that there is somebody for u always in ur
happies and sarrows, good and bads.
First of all, Is it worth neglecting the beautiful family love
under the shell of which u brouhgtup, for ur individual love ?
I don't think so
Posted by: Sreedhar G At: 23, Aug 2002 5:51:52 AM IST
I completely agree with you Niranjan garu. Nenu cheppalanukunnadi meeru chepparu.
Love oka andamaina feeling la vundali kaani daani kosamu manalanni inni years preminchi peddachesina mana parents ni marachipokudadu. Prema chaala goppadi. One thing I believe is that if it is true love then it will definitely succeed.
Kaani love koraku we cannot sacrifice our parents and family. Kottagaa premalo padninappudu manaku antha aa preme kanapaduthundi, kaani after some time you realize that there are other things that exist too and appudu you might want all those. So, premanu realityloki thisukavachi preminchandi, then everyone will be happy.
Nagesh garu,
Theeyati oohalu, andhamina maatalu, vedhinche edhuru choopulu, kalahinche choopulu unnapude adhi prema avuthundhi.
This is still possible in real life. Even if one looks for a guy/girl by going thru all the practical ways that I am saying, I think meeru cheppina theeyati oohalu.... are all possible. Endukante every one in this world will feel like that even if they met the person thru an arranged way. That is the beauty of love. Okari gurinchi okaru baga telusukunna tharuvatha modalaiyye prema chaala strong vuntadi and that will keep everyone happy. Aa premalo bhayamu vundadu, peddalu voppukoru anna problem vundadu.
Madhu garu and Nagesh garu, meeru cheppina prema chaala andamaina kalaa, adi andariki saadhyamu kaadu. So, that is why thinking reality and in a practical way is very important.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 23, Aug 2002 3:49:12 AM IST
After reading all the discussion what I understood is
Madhavi/lalitha/niranjan garlemo premalo (ippati) entha practicality Vundho/vundhalo gurinchi cheputhunnaru.----Con
Madhu garemu Premalo (ippati) practicality Vundha koodadho gurinchi cheputhunnaru.------Pro.
I am taking Pro. Madhugari side. My opinions are like this
Oka vyakthini(aada ayina/maga ayina) choosi okaru ledhu eddaru istta padatharu. intha varaku baagundhi. but okarinokaru preminchukunnaru (prema padam) ani analiante. evarinina preminchamu ani cheppamu ante. manki practicality alochana raakoodahu. Ala alochinchi istapade vaaridhi prema kaadhu. Adhi anubandham (pelli tho kudiredhi) maatrame.
Theeyati oohalu, andhamina maatalu, vedhinche edhuru choopulu, kalahinche choopulu unnapude adhi prema avuthundhi.
ikkada, andham, ayiswaryam,andthastu edi prasakthi ledhu.
Idhi pelli tharuvatha jarigindhi anukondi. Adhi anubhandham avuthundhi. Prema kaadhu.
avathali vyakthi gurinchi theeyaga alochistham (telise varaku), andhamina maatalu paatalutho alrishtaru (maata/paata vasthe).
Idhe pelliki mundhu jarigithe manamu alochinchamu. manaku theliyakundane pushtaakam jaaripothadhi. manaku theliyakundane karukina vaallu churukina padalu vupayogistharu.
nenu jeevitham lo prema lo theyadhanm kante Anubhandham lo vechchdanam vipe mogganu.
but naaku edhurina anubhavlu maatram prema lo practikality ekkuva vundhi. Almost idle premalani kooda choosanu. Andhuke Prema meedha nammakam poledhu.
My conclusion is Premaki ledha premiche vaallaki praktikali vundha koodahu.
It is my opinion.
Ardham chesukoroooooooooo-----Bhanupriya (swarnakamalam)
regards
Nagesh
Posted by: Mr. Nagesh Babu Adari At: 23, Aug 2002 2:18:43 AM IST
Madhu garu,
Meeru cheppindi correctee, but I think you are talking about love in fantasy world where only love exists and nothing else. That is very beautiful, kaani unfortunately it doesn't work that way in real life. So, one has to have a realistic approach to everything life and that includes even love. And actually one has to be more cautious in love because it is very easy for one to ruin their life because of love. Andukani I said about ego clashes and reputation. I am sure there are lot of people who really do love each other kaani ego valana leka chinna chinna misunderstandings valla vidipotharu. Evarikayina thana self respect and dignity chala important. Meeru ichina definition of love that there should be no ego clashes chaala correct, I completely agree. Kaani real lifelo how often do we see such true love?
Ee manishikayina ego ni champukovadamu chala kasthamu. Yeah if you are in love, you can control it but only to a certain extent. Eventually, one or the other time your ego is going to show. One cannot hide their personality for too long.
Again, as I mentioned earlier, I am giving a generalized opinion. That is why I said in general girls are more sensitive. But I am sure there are guys who are far more sensitive but wouldn't accept. I agree that there are girls who could break a guy's heart and move on kaani adi chaala thakkuva, especially in our culture.
Meeru chepparu kadaa that girls pelli ayina tharuvatha anni marachipotaru ani. That is not true. I think they do remember their love, kaani adi thalachukoni vallu baadha padi eduti vallanu baadha petta leru kadaa. Mana sampradayamu lo pelli anedi chaala goppa. Prema mukhyame kaani okasari pelli ayina tharuvatha one has to be abide by the marriage. Okavela pelli ayina tharuvatha if the girl talks to the guy whom she loved before, can you imagine the consequences, especially in our society? Society is a big influence in our lives. Premalo padi naaku ee lokamu tho pani ledu anadamu chaala kashtamu and I think it is bad to say that. Just a scenario - if a girl after marriage to some other guy, would break all the rules and traditions and goes to the guy whom she loved, do you think the guy would accept her? If he does, is that right or wrong? How would the society react?
I agree with you that once married one should love their husband/wife whole heartedly and that is how real life is. Adi ardhamu chesukoni, lifetho compromise avvali. Anthe kaani inka aa lover gurinchi alochinchadamu thappu.
This is just my opinion, I didn't mean to hurt anyone.
Lalitha garu, thank you for agreeing with me.
Niranjan garu, I agree with you that there are girls who are not sincere to guys what how often does that happen in our culture. Again I am talking in general, there are always exceptions.
Posted by: Miss Madhavi Madhavi At: 22, Aug 2002 11:58:11 PM IST
I think I agree with madhavi.Love is blind.Initially you over look mistakes in your pertner.Later on these same mistakes you noticed in him or her looks very bothersome and leads to all kinds of problems.
Chala mandi mogavaru gals are more educated ayithe nacchkoru.Basically ego problem.To with their mindset.
Finally mana indians chala western ga unnaru.Movies are responsible.
Lalith
Posted by: Mrs. lata v At: 21, Aug 2002 3:38:48 AM IST
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