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General Forum: Life in USA | | What is easy and better with kids settling in USA or Going back to India for good. | |
| Grown up children else where can read and write in telugu ?
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 19, Feb 2004 7:49:37 PM IST
I heard several times(if not directly,thru news papers or thru friends etc) that people express they dont like this country culture or that country culture and so preferring to leave the place(MR Mahi sorry my commnets are not intended to anybody .As this culture word came up here in this thread , i felt that i wanted to share some of my views on this and definitely not to hurt any particular individual and i am very far from that thing(hurting).Its general talk).I dont know how far extent that was true and decisions are based on this thing.May be it could be true and they are not lying.I dont know .But my point is why shall we allow that thing in decision making matters.I feel dont think the matters that wont afect us directly like culture .If its bad or good we are not affected anyway.Its how we wanted to live this life is important to us,not the surrounding things.,either bad or good.We all matured and so we are capable to take decisions on our own and also we know what is right and what is wrong and go accordingly.God bless everybody.
Posted by: Mr. santhosh vemuri At: 19, Feb 2004 7:24:51 AM IST
It's sure that we don't like our education system at the same time we can't afford US or UK education.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 16, Feb 2004 8:02:41 PM IST
better when the childrens are grown up back to India, whatever you teach that wont, I am seeing so many indians how they are behaving!!!
Posted by: Ms. srise Srinivas At: 16, Feb 2004 7:30:51 PM IST
USA has Hire and Fire policy. I don't think there is much choice to think. If there is a balance move to CANADA.
Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 15, Feb 2004 9:17:13 PM IST
my mena mama decided to move to india .
he dint like the society in usa . he was not satisfied with the culture there .
hence decided to relocate . He did it at a crucial time when his kids were 12 years old.
For him he made his mind that all he earned in 10 years of his life in usa was sufficent . can you think the same ?
Posted by: Mr. MAHESWARA MAHI At: 15, Feb 2004 5:29:35 AM IST
I dont know actually from the kids point.I also dont know the reasons why many people like their kids to be brought up in india.I dont know the disadvantages of raising kids here.May be I heard as drugs easily available here than in india(i dont know its true or false),children will be drawn towards that and spoiled here.But i also heard that drugs usage more in india too.But law is strict here so kids will be careful in not chosing those things ,otherwise they end up in jails.I dont know what are the other problems for kids here.But whatever we have to teach kids respect(respecting everybody),how to stand on their own when grown up(independency),values,morals etc.
I think all places are same.I think Its an unnecessarily worry to think more as we cant predict kids future .Laws may change in due course of time,governments may change,system may change so schools and the school environment may change.So i dont say usa is better or india is better.may be india will be better in future or usa is better in future.But what ever as u are a parent u can tell about kids problems and educate us.If u tell the problems then i think i can give my rationale.I think u also have to take into consideration of yrs (parents) future whether better in india or usa ,in taking a right decision.But i feel lot of kids(americans) are raising here and i see their behaviour good when compared to indians with respect to respecting others,jealousy,following rules,crime etc.so then i feel they are raising in a good environment better than indian.As We see lot of bad things happening in india,then we cant say conditions are good there.I feel in india we control kids more and rub our ideas more,unlike in usa where they can chose the things they like.There should be limited control but not more and we should act like friends to kids rather than parents to kids.First we have to do in a smooth way to tackle the people,then the other techniques.Whatever i think i confused you.As i am not clear about myself what to talk as i am less knoweldgeable ,i confused you.sorry about that.But u use yr best judgement in taking decisions.As it is a good topic i wanted to particpate even though i know i cant give good advises on this(as i know little).
Posted by: Mr. santhosh vemuri At: 29, Jan 2004 9:39:58 AM IST
depends on what you what madhuri
Posted by: Finch Atticus At: 28, Jan 2004 11:23:16 PM IST
My kids are in 4th and 1st grade. Now I feel I need to decide of settling somewhere. When I think of it I am seeing two paths, settle in US or go back to home country.
Can anyone give there view about this so that it will help me think in all angles.
thanks
madhuri.
Posted by: Mrs. madhuri valiveti At: 28, Jan 2004 11:21:10 PM IST
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