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General Forum: Love | | ****** HAPPY VALENTINES DAY ****** | |
| mI prEmajIvitAllO I dinam gampeDu samtOshAnni nimpAlani kOrutU..
SuBAkAmkshalu amdachEstunnAnu
!!!!!!!!!! LOVELY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL !!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 14, Feb 2005 6:59:40 AM IST
something to reflect on . . . happy valentine!
A Soulful Relationship:
(If you're not married yet, share this with a friend. If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples...and reflect on it.)
An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye."
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individuals who have decided to share a life together.
Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best of each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter him/her. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life," you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.
Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
What keeps a relationship strong? Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note). Leave a nice message on their voicemail or send a nice email. Sharing common goals and interests.
Growth is important.
Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don't put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.
"Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think."
Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight.
Always try to be a little kinder than is necessary. The difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where you put the i.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Happy Valentine's Day!
Posted by: Mr. Soorya R At: 15, Feb 2004 8:12:42 PM IST
hey ikkada nato chat cheyyataaniki evaraina gals vunnaraaaa please..
Posted by: Mr. Pavan Kumar At: 15, Feb 2004 7:44:11 PM IST
valentine day is a valentine day!!!!!
lol
Posted by: Ms. srise Srinivas At: 15, Feb 2004 5:20:36 PM IST
HAPPY VALENTINE DAY TO ALL OF YOU
Thanq,
sree
Posted by: Mr. Mandava At: 14, Feb 2004 10:40:14 AM IST
HAPPY VALENTINE DAY TO ALL OF YOU
Thanq,
sree
Posted by: Mr. Mandava At: 14, Feb 2004 10:39:15 AM IST
happy valentines day for all my TP Freinds. :)
Posted by: Venkat Kadiyala At: 14, Feb 2004 9:30:57 AM IST
oka janma saripodandi..
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 14, Feb 2004 9:29:33 AM IST
happy valentines day
can any one tell me what is love?
Posted by: Mr. venkata subrahmanyam oruganti At: 14, Feb 2004 9:21:27 AM IST
When you give each other everything,
it becomes an even trade.
"EACH WINS ALL NO LOOSER AT ALL"
"HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY"
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 14, Feb 2004 8:12:32 AM IST
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