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Who are responsible for the tragic incidents in the name of love?

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Friends, We cannot really blame anyone except for that bastrad alone. I was shocked when i read this news on june 17th http://wtopnews.com/index.php?sid=214150&nid=25 There could have been lots of things between the wife and husband but nothing to that extent where you have KILLING is the only choice left. Everything can be talked it out and resolved. There are so many failed marriages after they come into US, i dont know why but the ratio is more compared to the families live in India. sorry, i am not able to provide you the stats at present, but sometime I will. Lets not brainstorm who is to be blamed but what is to be done to avoid things which lead to such mishaps. I think, "Communication" is the only solution. Lets try bridging a gap, if anything arises between people. Vent out your frustrations, dont let them eat you away from inside. Lets try making this world a better place. Good Luck Friends.

Posted by: Mr. Kalyan Chakravarthy At: 23, Jun 2004 11:20:32 PM IST

Parents are not responsible; Hopefully they don't involve others in their tragidy. And we are happy no other sensible guy picking such a wrong methods.

Posted by: Mr. M Kumar N At: 23, Jun 2004 11:10:09 PM IST

/*Nobody wants to have a teen age romance in the name of love. Posted by: Ms. srise Srinivas At: 23, Jun 2004 5:31:59 PM IST*/ Sorry Madam, I will not agree with you in this statement. Every one in India can see how these teen age girls are moving with guys... its amazing. Infact, horrifying. Not only now, during late 90s too! Falling in Love, having a boy friend is a status symbol now a days. And degree students now aiming at softies for fantastic experiences. I don't know where you are from, but it is the case with most of the cities now a days in India, including the junk city called Chennai!

Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 23, Jun 2004 5:39:46 PM IST

I vishayamlO st^ood^ent^ula tappu EmilEdu endukant^e aa paristitulalO manamu unna adE pani chEstaamu .katti puchchukunna rowd^i daggariki evaru veLataaru .naaku vaaLla talli tand^ruladi .aa kaalEji prin spaal pravartana tappu anipistundi alaant^i rowd^i lani kaalEjilO unchinanduku

Posted by: Mrs. Saila Sarigala At: 23, Jun 2004 5:36:25 PM IST

In my opinion, the first culprits are the 40 students along with the girl and vanished within a second without catching a single person. 40=1 Oh. What a shame ful act. I myself feel sorry of thinking that insident. N.K.Murthy

Posted by: Mr. Krishna Murthy N. At: 23, Jun 2004 3:32:29 PM IST

Nobody wants to have a teen age romance in the name of love. The one who has good education and earning sufficient also not supported by their parents. Ofcourse the girl also highly educated and earning nicely. I dont know whom should one wants to blame, is the guy wants to hide himself behind the parents and spoiling the girl life or the parents attitude towards not to give at least moral support to their son or daughter. One should think different angle to avoid such a tragic incidence, because it is based on the mental strength one who wants to see the good outcome based on the situation.

Posted by: Ms. srise Srinivas At: 23, Jun 2004 3:31:59 PM IST

Who are responsible... a good question. Yes, it is parents fully, media(cine media, especially) and society for some extent. While parents are not much bothered about the whereabouts of their kids, these kids get into the fantastic world of "love" by wathing the heroic movies, the movies only contain some nonsensic unrealistic impossible love stories, get into these kind of so called love. Why parents are not paying attention to their sons & daughters now a days is a million dollar question. It is not only the responsibility of parents of a girl, but also parents of a boy. Both, need to educate their kid towards this nonsensic junk thing called "love" that happens during early teen age. Also, one big suggestion is, cine media should reduce the funny love stories, which will never happen in real world. Govt... no it cannot be held responsible. It is the awareness in the society that can cure this sick disease.

Posted by: Bahud♥♥rapu Baatasaari At: 23, Jun 2004 1:06:09 PM IST

Admin, If you are referring to the Murder of that lil gal by her so called lover, then I would blame it on the Society .. But if you are referring to all the amateurish activities of the Teens in the name of love then one would blame Media and Parents

Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 23, Jun 2004 12:20:44 PM IST

We see an increasing number of tragic incidents in the name of love. Who are responsible for these kind of incidents? Is it Parents, Teachers, Media or Society on the whole? Can govt. also be held responsible? Is there any solution? What are your suggestions?

Posted by: Site Administrator At: 23, Jun 2004 10:47:12 AM IST

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