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General Forum: Current 'Affairs' | | LET US BE HONEST, WE LIED ATLEAST ONCE. | |
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chaalaa maMchimaaTa cheppaaru.
'karma sidhdhaaMtaM' kooDaa idE chepputOMdi.
ayinaa SukruDi swaamibhaktini mechchukoka
tappadu.
Posted by: SATYA RAMA PRASAD KALLURI At: 1, Aug 2005 11:08:20 AM IST
'vaarijaakshulaMdu, veivaahikamulamdu,
praaNa,vitta, maanabhaMgamaMdu....
boMkavachchunadhipa! aghamu lEdu' annaaDu SukraachaaryuDu balichakravartitO - bali vishNuvuku daanaM eeyakuMDaa aDDupe uddESyamtO!
deeninE Sukraneeti - aMTaaru
aaDavaaLLa vishayaMlOnoo, peLLiLLavishaMlOnoo, praaNaM pOyE paristhiti, Dabbu pOyE paristhiti, maanaM pOyE paristhiti - - illaaMTi saMdarbhaalalOnoo
abaddhaalu cheppinaa paapaM lEdannamaaTa!
(ayitE, okkOsaari abaddhaM eMduku cheppavalasi vastuMdaMTE - jaali kaaraNaMgaa, avatalivaaDu maLLee tappu chEyaDulE anE dheiryaM kaaraNaMgaa mo// saMdarbhaalalO. idi tappadEmO?
Posted by: SATYA RAMA PRASAD KALLURI At: 1, Aug 2005 3:16:50 AM IST
I dont think lying can hurt the pysche cuz it differs from person to person. Yea, it's a sign of a weakness, but it's only because we want to 'protect' our loved ones. Yes, it's an easy way out but if no one's getting hurt in the process, why not lie away? BTW, I am only talking abt lies that are harmless.
Hmm..how can it bring good change? It depends on so many factors again. For example, I am not ever planning to be honest with my parents abt my college life and hiding those irrelevant things things from my parents did not bring any sort of (bad) change in me. Either way, I would have been the same person like I am now.
Posted by: Krishna Ch At: 1, Aug 2005 3:06:14 AM IST
hmm, abt lying to our loved ones, I think it's okay as long as you are not hurting them in the long run. Like when they do find out the truth in the future, we should make sure that the act will not have any repurcussions.
Some things should be on a 'need to know' basis even with loved ones. For example, to this day, my parents do not know the kind of ppl I am/was friends with, I had no choice but to lie /hide from them because they surely will not approve my mingling with them. In a way they were right, and so was I in choosing MY friends. Convincing them would have been even more hurtful for them, so the best way was not to tell them. This way, they were happy that they had a doting daughter and I was happy that I got my way done too. Same case applies to friends n colleagues.
Hmm..in my opinion, lying to spouse is not healthy for the relationship. It can have adverse effects in the future. We lie to our parents because there is an element of fear there & has lot to do with our strict upbringing. But with spouses, honesty is the way to go, even if it brings pain. Who knows, maybe it will make the relationship even stronger (depending on how understanding and forgiving the spouse is)
Posted by: Krishna Ch At: 1, Aug 2005 2:22:05 AM IST
Well What I meant to say was that .. I am now in a position to Lie and get away once :)) Jus kiddin
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 31, Jul 2005 10:54:14 PM IST
Posted by: Powered by Gatorade At: 30, Jul 2005 5:27:11 PM IST
Hehehe Crocy, but serioulsly, tell u what ...I never lied to my wife so far and thats the reason she trusts me BLINDLY!!
Posted by: Malakpet Rowdy At: 31, Jul 2005 10:49:24 PM IST
speaking lies for every small thing....
is different from speaking lies at times of need.
kanIsam okaTi remdu sArleinA abaddAlu cheppani vArunnArA..ani TApik
samdarBAnusAramgA cheppAlsi umTumdani annAnu..mIru adEpanigA abaddAlu ADEvArigurimchi cheptunnAru..
abaddAlu chepparAdanEdi amdari uddESam..kAnI kudaradu okkOsAri..
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 31, Jul 2005 10:14:58 PM IST
garl fremD pilichimdA..? BAskarA..
mI imTi nambaru cheppu O sAri..
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 31, Jul 2005 12:38:50 PM IST
Lie can be taken as simple by others and serious by some others. WE have lied one way or the other , small or big, but have taken it too casually. You go to somebody's house and during the conversation they might offer u snacks, tea, cofee. There are 2 situations here, you dont want to give them trouble, so u might say casually, u had snacks , tea just then, while it might not be entirely true. Likewise, though u have not had tea, to avoid their tea, snacks for whatever reason it be, you can say , i just now had tea/snacks. Whether we should lie to our kith and kin is altogether different. Whether we have ever lied or not is the core topic?
Posted by: DoBoy At: 31, Jul 2005 11:17:00 AM IST
Situations/fate/time/..are not man made...
wisdom lies in contrive/control "Lies" to avoid conflicts.:))
bye..
Posted by: ★Vinåyåkåm★ chitt♥♥r At: 31, Jul 2005 6:30:37 AM IST
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